Sinopsis
Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.
Episodios
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Episode 67 - Temporary Monogamy
01/10/2021 Duración: 34minCan an aversion to non-monogamy come from relationship anxiety and trauma? Discussion Topic - What have you changed your mind about in terms of how you want to live your life?
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Episode 66 - Hidden Metamour
17/09/2021 Duración: 15minEven if you have confusing boundaries and you’re not “official”, lying by omission can still feel like cheating. Discussion Topic - What is a non-monogamous setup that wouldn’t work for you?
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Episode 65 - No Longer Primary
03/09/2021 Duración: 20minHow do you force yourself out of apathy if you feel the partner you want to settle down with is slipping away? Discussion Topic - How has your ideal lifestyle changed over time?
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Episode 64 - What Rules to Have
20/08/2021 Duración: 18minWill the rules you want to put in place prevent what you think they will prevent? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 63 - Visualising Your Partner
06/08/2021 Duración: 22minWhat if you can’t see your partner with someone else in your head without feeling terrible? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 62 - More Metamour Toxicity
23/07/2021 Duración: 18minYour partner’s partner’s partner doesn’t seem like they’re good for your metamour, but what can you actually do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 61 - PTSD and Polyamory
09/07/2021 Duración: 27minA previous abusive experience of a polyam relationship is causing floods of emotions on your second try. Should you stop? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 60 - Temporarily Open
18/06/2021 Duración: 22minCan opening your relationship temporarily work to address an incompatibility? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 59 - Feeling Disconnected
04/06/2021 Duración: 18minIf COVID caught a relationship when it was just forming, is it worth picking back up again if you’re feeling disconnected? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 58 - Sexual Incompatibility
21/05/2021 Duración: 25minAfter more than a decade, your partner wants to open up because he’s not happy, but you think things are going too fast. What do you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 57 - Begging For Time
07/05/2021 Duración: 21minYou’ve started in a new triad but you’re feeling like the third wheel and no one is spending time with you. What do you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 56 - Escalating Past a Metamour
23/04/2021 Duración: 17minYour partner is escalating your relationship and it’s making your metamour jealous. What can you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 55 - How Much is Too Much
09/04/2021 Duración: 25minHow much is too much to know about your partner’s other relationships? Where is the line? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 54 - Sacrificing Too Much
26/03/2021 Duración: 31minWhen you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 53 - Forgiving Mistakes
12/03/2021 Duración: 28minYou have a metamour who thinks someone you're dating is a bad person. What do you do? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 52 - Anxious After Marriage
26/02/2021 Duración: 20minAnxiety that's so overwhelming can make you feel like non-monogamy isn't for you at the time. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 51 - Conversion Therapy
12/02/2021 Duración: 20minWhen you don't want to be polyamorous anymore and you're considering therapy to convert yourself back. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 50 - What Is Love?
15/01/2021 Duración: 20minYour partner expects you to commit to monogamy eventually but you're not sure if you've ever been in love. That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 49 - Wanting Monogamy
01/01/2021 Duración: 20minA partner comes to you asking if you'd consider monogamy and then changes their mind later on, but you're still stuck on wanting it. What do you do? https://anchor.fm/dashboard/episode/e1s4f46 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message
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Episode 48 - Too Much NRE
18/12/2020 Duración: 33minIs 18 months enough time to give someone to decide if they want polyamory? That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this episode on my website. Music for this podcast has been provided by Chris Albery-Jones at albery-jones.com and the art was made by Dom Duong at domduong.com! Email ask@nonmonogamyhelp.com with your question. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/message