Legally Clueless

WOW We're at episode 50! Thank you for being here for the last 50 weeks! In this episode I share something exciting that I'll be doing on the 8th of March at Two Rivers Mall in Nairobi, with my best friend Val! And yes YOU are invited! 2pm on 1st floor near LC Waikiki, Val will be interviewing me on Career, Finding My Purpose, Grief, Heartbreaks (lol), Marriage...we're celebrating a woman's best friend so come with yours! It's absolutely free and I can't wait to meet YOU there! #WLW #WeLoveWomen On #100AfricanStories this week Bruce shares his fatherhood journey that includes his fears, morning sickness, when his wife went into labour and using twitter to create a space for dads to dad differently & healthily! I loved his story and promised to share the daddying differently page so here you go: https://twitter.com/DADingDifferent And finally #LegallyClueless is turning ONE on the 18th of March and we're celebrating by throwing a story-telling party at Lava Latte on the 18th of March at 7pm! Some of

I'm so NERVOUS about this episode. First I'd completely forgotten that I had promised in January to share in detail how I left my former job! My bad. I go in-depth into that this episode. Probably only my family and close friends know all that I tell you in this episode. I repeat, make sure whatever contract you sign protects you and don't be afraid to walk away from contracts that do not. Also Durex is having a global campaign to get us sharing some of the inhibitions we carry when it comes to intimate relationships & sex, under the hashtag #OwnYourSituation. I join this conversation with my friend Lynda Nyangweso. She's been on #LegallyClueless before talking about body insecurities - which is why I brought her back. Thing is, I've never spoken about how surviving rape affected my sex life...actually still affects it. I hope hearing Lynda and I speak, inspires you to #OwnYourSituation, love yourself as you are which helps you start enjoying intimate relationships & sex. Remember - If you buy D

This week’s episode was recorded in Nairobi & Mombasa. For my birthday I went on a girls trip with Val (y'all know her by now) and our other friend Vanessa, to Mombasa! They shared their greatest lessons they’ve learnt in their 30s since we’ve all successfully gone through the first trial year of this 3rd floor! You get to hear their lessons in this episode. On #100AfricanStories, Valentine shares a story of a 10day silence retreat, yoga, failed business, finding out her boyfriend was married and finally the successful, necessary space she’s created for African women called DadaSphere. Find out more about it here: https://www.instagram.com/dadasphere/ And here’s my talk from a while back when I was on Dadasphere: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJo_WtPUlmQ&t=1088s Remember to join the #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.c

It's my birthday week! I'm so excited mainly because ageing is a privilege. I'm honoured to be still here - jumping into chapter 31! 30 was such a ride I wonder what this next year is gonna be like! In this episode I speak about that, about clarity and how important it is to always choose YOU. It also features a POWERFUL story by Njeri from Kenya. She shares about the last day of her marriage where her ex-husband was physically abusive, leaving him and being INTENTIONAL about her healing - she had timelines - and two girls trips that both saved and empowered her. I hope you realize how INTENTIONAL you have to be about healing from her story. Remember to join the #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

This week's episode is first about trying to tackle self doubt head-on which I must say is not for the faint-hearted phew! I made a few major decisions this week like deciding to let go of my management team so you will hear "solo dolo" in this episode about 100 times haha! Secondly did you ever think, when going into university, that, that would be the place you find...a husband? Our storyteller this week shares her hope of finding love, societal pressure to be in a relationship and.....deciding to be celibate while in campus. Remember to join our #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

This week's episode features TWO stories - yes anything goes here! During my uni tour I recorded Omar from Mombasa's story on running for student council twice and getting zero votes on the first attempt. His story is in this episode. The second story was recorded in Egypt and is well known Nigerian actor, film producer, businessman, leader - Banky W speaking on his experience of running for public office in the last elections in Nigeria. I truly hope this episode encourages you to TRY regardless of what fear is holding you back from doing that thing you've always wanted to - yes THAT thing! Love & Light, AdelleThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

I never talk about my dad. He died in 2007 and I never know how to or if I should grieve for him...yup over 10years later. I explain why in this episode. On #100AfricanStories Zereda from South Sudan shares a story on loosing her dad a week before she joined uni and how having a gun pulled on her changed her life. Remember to join the #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

Lemme start off by sharing my top5 lessons from last year - the year I faced fear head-on! Hope they'll help you! I hope you're at least going back to work/job that you enjoy in a healthy work environment. This time last year I had just started serving my notice at my job while having weekly contract renegotiation meetings phew it was hectic! I share about it in this episode! On #100AfricanStories Anthony shares his experience being bullied when he first joined highschool in Karatina! Very timely story especially since it's back to school season! Remember to join our instagram tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

This is the final episode of the decade and the first episode of the new decade! How cool is that! Thank you for being part of this beautiful podcast across the last 42weeks! Happy New Year may 2020 be all you wish it to be! This episode features a story recorded during the #LegallyClueless university tour! It is so powerful, raw and real! It's scary to know that certain hard drugs are super accessible! I know you'll enjoy it! Join the #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

It's finally Christmas!!! Y'all know I have been waiting for this week! Already had my family lunch and this week I'm going camping - wish me luck! So my gift to you is one of the stories I recorded that truly inspired me. Bobby's story where he shares about his thieving past, almost killing himself and winning 7 film awards! I know you'll enjoy it! Remember to join our insta fam here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

Here's some good news: Legally Clueless was ranked by a Kenyan research firm as being the most popular Kenyan podcast! Thank YOU for always listening and vibing with this podcast! This episode is all about business - I can't be the only one who comes up with business ideas all the time especially right before I resigned! Janet from Kiambu County shares her journey of graduating from university and having to hawk for 1 year just to make money for her business. Now her business supplies shops in the states, Rwanda and South Africa! She mentioned the Women's Enterpreise Fund and how they helped her business, you can learn more about them & their trainings by Coca Cola here: http://www.wef.co.ke/ and see the businesses they support here: https://www.instagram.com/wefsoko/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

Thank YOU to everyone donating/sharing about my project #Safe247! I really appreciate it and as I said in this episode we have merch now! Some pretty dope Ts, Sweatshirts and Totebags! Shop here: http://safe247.createatee.co.ke/ This week on #100AfricanStories Nerima shares about the first time she had the sex talk, the pill, the coil and why she's passionate about making sure youth in Kenya have access to information on their sexual reproductive health via the creative platform #FormNiGani! As promised in the episode - the #FormNiGani report can be found here: https://formniganikenya.co.ke/ Join the #LegallyClueless tribe here: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/ Thanks for listening!This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

The 16Days of Activism Against Gender Based Violence is ongoing and I'm fundraising to be able to make a project called #Safe247 a reality. You can help out here: https://secure.changa.co.ke/myweb/share/36348 On #100AfricanStories this week Valerie shares her story of growing up in a violent home and the day her ex hit her. It's a heartbreaking story but it ends on a powerful note: "It Ends With Us. Please check out her blog posts about it here: - https://lwiletheleo.com/2019/11/25/it-ends-with-us/ - https://lwiletheleo.com/2019/11/25/international-day-for-the-elimination-of-violence-against-women/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

This is such an exciting week - i.e I am a bag of nerves! I have just launched Safe247 - which I explain in this episode. Here's the link to learn more on the project and also to help me make it a reality - https://secure.changa.co.ke/myweb/share/36348 On #100AfricanStories the 1st Black African Female Hot Air Balloon Pilot - Captain Joyce! and she shares her story of how this came to be - a story that her late dad was very instrumental in! Enjoy!This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

We are 6 weeks to Christmas! Yes the countdown is real and yes feel free to start getting me Christmas gifts haha! On this episode - Michelle shares her story of not being in session in campus because of lacking school fees. She also breaks down the model some scholarship funds use to decide who to give financial aid to. I also reflect on 2012 - the year before my mum died and the year before I graduated. Remember to join the IG tribe: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

I have had an emotionally draining week and I was a bit confused as to why.....and then my period popped up. I feel like my anxiety gets worse just before my period. Let's unpack that this week. Also on #100AfricanStories Kitt from Kenya shares conversations she's had to have with her 5 & 2 year old and how to raise kids that know it's ok to cry and finding the balance of letting them talk back but not talk back - get it? Check out her blog here: http://raisingkendi.com/ Remember send in your Christmas story demos to +254768628790This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

First things first I'm beginning to think my procrastination is directly linked to fear of failure/of the unknown! I speak about that in this episode! Also, I went on a road trip to record more African stories! I went to Meru - a county in Kenya. Specifically to Meru University! This week I share the first story from Meru Uni. A story by Damaris about the day she survived an elephant attack! Finally, your chance to feature on this podcast is here - details in the episode! Legally Clueless Hotline: +254768628790 *Wapi - where *Hapa - Here *Ndovu - ElephantThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

This episode took me a while to publish because I'm so nervous! It's been over 10years since I was on stage performing. Back then I would perform poetry. Fast forward to September, I was invited by The Moth to perform a story at their mainstage in New York! I performed a real story of the struggle I had of figuring out what to write on my late mum's tombstone! The Moth is coming to Nairobi on the 12th of November at 7pm - and I'm hosting! It would mean the world if my #LegallyClueless fam would come! For tickets: https://www.mookh.com/event/stories-of-women-and-girls-the-moth-in-nairobiThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

#LegallyClueless has been invited to an African country that I've always wanted to visit, this week, by the African Union and the United Nations! And it's all because of the many African voices we have on this podcast! Listen to the episode for more deets! I'm so happy and thankful to YOU for listening! On #100AfricanStories Maureen shares a story of the painful way she learnt that abuse isn't only physical and schools us on what GASLIGHTING really is! I have a feeling you will love this story!This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement

From last minute VISA applications to using an app to manage my anxiety! I actually go indepth to how a thought journal helps...calm my anxiety. On #100AfricanStories Aggie shares her journey to Nairobi from Kisumu to join uni and the awakening she went through in campus! I just loooove her energy! Remember the podcast hotline number is: +254768628790 and our IG is: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelesspodcast/This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5931378/advertisement