Love Life Connection

You’ve done a lot of work and understand how past experiences have shaped your relationship patterns. But are you still meeting lots of emotionally unavailable people on dates or constantly looking for red flags to keep from getting hurt or rejected? If that sounds like you, then you’ll relate to Erin who’s been single for five years. In this episode, I help her discover what lies behind her frustration with her love life and seeming inability to find someone with a mutual interest in a long-term relationship. 9:33 - Erin explains her frustration with her existing dating situation 13:50 - The perspective that’s missing from Erin’s love life right now 17:21 - How being too open can be a form of manipulation 19:33 - Dating from the fearful place of “guilty until proven innocent” 24:12 - The missing factor Erin may not be consciously aware of 27:11 - Why emotionally unavailable people can be attractive to Erin 31:57 - How your thoughts can lead you to take (or not take) certain actions 37:15 - What Erin can work