Love Life Connection

Lots of people have a hate-hate relationship with online dating and believe it’s responsible for their love life woes. But online dating isn’t inherently good or bad. It’s just a neutral space, like a bar or the workplace. I find that people likely manifest their online dating experience based on their larger relationship pattern which brings me to my caller today, Erin. She’s frustrated because she’s unable to replicate the online dating success her friends enjoy and wants to know what she’s doing wrong. As you listen, though, you’ll discover why online dating practices aren't her main issue. 10:04 - Erin describes the dating pattern she’s had in relationships 14:06 - The first thing that pops into Erin’s head during a short exercise 16:52 - Why Erin lost her sense of security and how she’s tried to gain it back 21:35 - How Erin’s upbringing led to a lack of trust in her ability to provide security for herself 23:15 - A bit of a woo-woo spiritual exercise I take Erin through 27:31 - The mistake some overly-d