My Lotus Moments

If you are overweight or have struggled with your weight like I have then, imagine how rude it would be if a smaller woman was to approach you as you ate and said, "mayyybee... you shouldn't eat that!" How pissed would you be? Well, for people like Nicole, making unsolicited statements such as, "you need to eat (more)!" evokes the same emotion. It's hurtful. "Real women have curves?" We hear that all too often. But, did you know when you make statements like this, you're implying that somehow women without curves are not actually REAL women? These women are sisters, mothers, daughters, and etc. They have the same struggles as their curvier counterparts. As difficult as it may be to find a decent pair of size 16 pants, so is it to find a 00. Please stop insinuating that smaller women "have it easier" or aren't real women because as Nicole stated, "you just may trigger the exact problem they are trying to overcome... an eating disorder." Eating disorder? But, that's a "white girl" issue? To be honest, it's mor