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I take myself on dates.我跟自己去约会：I go to the movies alone. I wander museums alone. I eat meals alone (and yes, that means I resist all temptation to scroll through Instagram while waiting for my meal).我独自看电影，独自在博物馆闲逛，独自吃饭 (是的，这意味着在等待饭菜上来时，我抵制住了所有刷Instagram的诱惑)。I sit in coffee shops and journal alone.我坐在咖啡馆里，独自写着日志。I take the train and go to new towns and walk around alone.我一个人乘火车，前往新的城镇，然后独自在那里四处走走玩玩。I realize this may sound super dorky. You're probably thinking that I must be pretty weird and very lonely. Interestingly enough, I was way more lonely before I started spending time alone.我意识到也许这听起来超级蠢。你很可能会想，我肯定十分怪异、非常寂寞。有趣的是，我在开始独自生活前是更加孤单的。The feeling like I needed to be around people all the time to take a deep breath -- that was loneliness.那种就像我需要一直跟别人待在一起才能做深呼吸的感觉，是孤单。The feeling of complete anxiety and fear when a boyfriend broke up with me -- that was loneliness.男朋友跟我分手，那种极为焦虑恐慌的感受，是寂寞。But this? This is peace. This is fun. This is what self-esteem is built of. 但现在呢？这是平静，是趣味，是构建自信心的基础。Here's how I lear
