Be You Find Happy

Commander and Michaela dive into a conversation that hits close to home—how men and women navigate emotions, relationships, and the influence of societal narratives. We’ve both noticed how modern propaganda and media have shaped the way we see masculinity and femininity, often in ways that discourage emotional expression, especially for men. The reality? Both men and women experience deep emotions, but the way we’re taught to process them is vastly different.We also talk about narcissism—how it shows up in both genders and impacts relationships, sometimes in ways we don’t even realize. Instead of weaponizing our differences, what if we celebrated them? What if we focused on building intimacy with intentionality, rather than letting modern distractions pull us away from meaningful connections? In a world full of noise, being present with the people we care about is more important than ever. And just like defensive driving, navigating life and relationships means staying aware, protecting ourselves from harm, a