Kehlag: Living In Fierce Alignment

In this episode of Built for the Edge, Kehla sits down with Bolutiwi Aiyesimoju, founder of Magniessence, for a raw and expansive conversation about the journey from overachieving and control to feminine embodiment and spaciousness. Together, they explore what happens when high-achieving women finally stop muscling their way through life and business—and choose to lead with their true essence. Bolutiwi shares her powerful story of hitting a breaking point, hiring her first coach, and unraveling the belief that her worth was tied to her results. Kehla and Bolutiwi dive into: ✨ The pivotal moment that shifted Bolutiwi from “life is happening by me” to “life is happening through me” ✨ How to recognize when control is masking fear—and what it looks like to release it ✨ Practical ways to move out of the head and back into the body using your four centers of intelligence ✨ Why creating spaciousness is an essential skill for women leading in business and life ✨ The art of balancing masculine structure with feminine