Family Aau Talk

That would NEVER happen to me! Then it does. In the beginning, it is mostly amazing, if it is not amazing it is just positive. What am I talking about? Mental and physical domestic abuse. Weeks, months, sometimes years go by and the relationship seems normal. However, you did see a sign here and there but ignored it. If no sign was present he or she did not feel threatened so their representative stayed complacent UNTIL you became a threat or they felt threatened. You are now a mirrored image of their insecurity and their fear. Their representative wants to vacate, it is exhausting keeping their true self at bay especially after having sex. Some humans have an addictive personality. Some do not even love or like the other person, but they do not want to be alone or start over. Some people only want the "idea" of you and not actually you. Some are so good they can keep up pretenses until you marry them, get pregnant, have their child, get life insurance etc. Then, you realize YOU were "Sleeping With The Enemy"