Like Attracts Like Podcast

There is a funny thing that happened to me as I began to learn how I interacted with my mind unconsciously at first.. Becoming more and more aware of what our minds say .. and realizing that we are NOT the thoughts it whispers or shouts to us on repeat alllll day long...  We are the observer of these things,..   I realized that I was taking orders from a damaged and lonely mind... that the world wasn't fully damaged and lonely ... I was... I had reasons of course as we all do... But how valid were they... were they valid enough to perpetually keep me in this state for the rest of my life??  Is that why I am here.. ?  To suffer and to then live in that state of suffering even when nothing in this particular moment I'm in calls for me to be suffering through it... ??  That can't be it ...  Why do we say these things... why do I listen ??     The answer to my question was that I was listening unconsciously because I didn't fully believe that I could interject ... I didn't believe that I didn't have to feel this