Connexions Classroom

Victim is the #1 cause of unhappiness in the world. If this is true, wouldn't you want to know more about it?Here are the two ways victim is played out:Self-Denigration• I don’t matter• It’s my fault• It’s not fair• I’m unworthy• I’m bad• I don’t deserve• I’m unlovable• I’m not enough• My needs are not as important as…• I’m stupid, dumb, an idiot, etc.• I’m ugly and undesirable• I’m responsible to/for . . .Self-Adulation• I’m different / better than• I’m the exception• It’s not my fault• I’m right . . . you’re wrong• You did this to me• Because of you…• I’m special/unique• I shouldn’t have to…• I am entitled to do whatever I want• I don’t affect other people— only myself• My needs are the most important thing• I can do what I want. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.