When We Were Young - An 80s And 90s Pop Culture Podcast

"I feel like I've been in a coma for 20 years... and I'm just now waking up." That's what Lester Burnham tells us in AMERICAN BEAUTY, and may also describe some people's reaction to this Best Picture winner from 1999, which is a mite more controversial in the wake of the #MeToo movement — and allegations of sexual misconduct by its Oscar-winning lead. When We Were Young invites you to "look closer" at the stunning cinematography, the innovative editing, the memorably melancholy score, and, of course, Alan Ball's sharp-tongued screenplay, which follows a doofy dad through a particularly fatal midlife crisis and satirizes upper middle class suburbia. There's plenty to cherish here, from the darkly comedic performances of Annette Bening, Mena Suvari, and, yes, even Kevin Spacey — but what about its approach to gender and sexuality in the 90s? Is this a cautionary tale about the dangers of chasing youth in your middle age, or is watching Spacey lust after a teenager in 2019 just too... icky? Do