Create Your Now Archive 3 With Kristianne Wargo

Now that I have your attention, it's time to get real. Attention all people pleasers. Why do you do what you do to yourself? In my coaching practice and life experiences, I've watched so many individuals (women and men alike), tear a part their lives because they didn't see how people pleasing can be an extremely unhealthy pattern of behavior. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact  People pleasers tend to put everyone else first leaving themselves struggling at the ninth hour to finish the personal commitments.  That might sound overall good with well intentions. But in actuality, a people pleaser with the need to take care of others, can be deeply rooted in fear --- fear of rejection and fear of failure. The fear of rejection is the little voice that screams, "If I don't do everything to make this person happy, they might leave me." The fear of failure might be screaming, "If I make a mistake I will disappoint