The Couples Expert

Welcome to our encore presentation of The Couples Expert podcast with your host Stuart Fensterheim. This episode originally aired in September of 2016. This is episode 174 of our show. Stuart’s guest today is Alicia Taverner. Alicia is a MFT therapist in CA working with people on trust issues and helping women find the calm within the storms in their lives. Alicia and Stuart are discussing infidelity from a female perspective. Thanks for listening. Stuart talks a bit about his passion for the work that he does and gives a run down on his past occupations and how he ended up as The Couples Expert. What you’ll learn on today’s podcast: Introduction to Alicia and how she became a therapist 7:31 You can’t go back after an affair, you must start over 11:05 The differences Stuart has with an attachment theory approach 15:35 Therapy digs deeper to a place of vulnerability 19:25 How can you know infidelity won’t happen again? 22:30 Affairs are not simply sexual 24:03 Where the apology comes in  30:35 That moment whe