Superparent Syndrome's Podcast

God Bless my wife, she said this to me while we were doing demolition on our basement.  What I wanted to say to this and what I did say to this was totally different.  Because really... I was confused about why she would even say this to me. So this past weekend, we decided to rip out a kitchenette in our basement to make way for a family room.  During this time, she thought I was angry and having a terrible time.  She thought this because I was tearing things out and throwing scraps in a pile.  For me, I thought this was perfectly normal and I was having a great time.  For her, she thought I was mad and throwing a tantrum. Again, if we had only taken a moment to create clarity then we would have not operated out of a place of conflict and hurt feelings. She was hurt because she thought I didn't want to do this project.  I was upset because I apparently wasn't doing this project "right".  I was irritated because she was trying to make me to a project differently that what I had envisioned.  The problem is tha