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How to Help Your Children Become Financially Independent By Douglas Goldstein, CFP® A client told me about her married daughter who is in a financially dysfunctional marriage. The young couple finds it hard to make ends meet, and often applies for help from charitable organizations. Yet despite their lack of funds, they still live a fairly extravagant lifestyle. Occasionally, the daughter asks her mother for money, but the mother refuses. My client realizes that she doesn’t have the means to bail them out – and even if she did, they would never learn to stand on their own two feet. Teaching financial responsibility is one of the toughest lessons a parent faces. Close the Parental Bank Saying no to a child in fiscal trouble is difficult. I know many parents who support an adult child still living at home, or married children who can’t quite make the month. These parents tell me, “What can I do? They’ll starve without my help!” Sadly, these well-intentioned parents don’t realize that rather than helping their