Deeper Dating

What do you do if you keep ending up in relationships with people who don't treat you right? How do you change that pattern once and for all? And how do you handle it if a relationship starts out great but after a few years just doesn't seem like such a great match any more? And last but not least, how can you make your sex life more healing, deeper, and more exciting? Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating and relationships to Ken--and get his personal direct advice in Ken's Q and A podcasts. Once a month, Ken answers your personal questions about love, dating, sex and more. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/qanda-with-ken/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

It turns out there IS a magic key to a better sex life. It's obvious but it's surprising. And learn the three great questions to profoundly enrich your sex life. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/the-surprising-key-to-a-better-sex-life/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

There's a form of stealth-sexism that's messing up our dating lives and relationships! What are the new rules around gender? I'll share some ideas and research that might change your thinking about this subject forever. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/gender-stereotypes-are-crippling-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

This is the most powerful insight I know: Our deepest wounds surround our greatest gifts. The very qualities we're most ashamed of are usually the keys to finding real love. These qualities are your Core Gifts. This episode will help you find them. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/deepest-insecurities/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

NYT bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas is one of the greatest teachers I know for helping people finding love. Listen to her speak, and you know you're in the presence of real wisdom. This interview is a must-listen for everyone who's serious about intimacy, and everyone who really wants healthy, lasting love. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at http://deeperdatingpodcast.com/e12

What do you do when you're frustrated in your search for love? Or when you feel you're losing hope and you just feel stuck? How do you show your authentic self in a dating profile? How do you search for the qualities that matter most in a sea of online profiles? Find out in our monthly Q&A episode! For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/q-and-a-with-ken/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

This is the most powerful insight I know for finding love. It’s the step that changes everything--but that no one teaches us. Oprah.com excerpted this insight from my book Deeper Dating. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/how-to-tell-which-attractions-lead-to-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

There’s a toxic dating myth that says that the best way to find love is to make yourself more attractive. This myth damages your sense of self-worth--and erodes your chance of finding healthy love! What’s an approach that’s kinder, wiser--and vastly more effective? Find out here! For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at http://deeperdatingpodcast.com/e9

How to create and cultivate self-love, the single most important ingredient for finding your beloved--and keeping love alive. When it comes to learning self-love, I cannot think of anyone wiser and more helpful than my dear friend Margaret Paul, Ph.D., the co-creator of Inner Bonding. Get ready to learn real tools for deepening your own self-love and transforming your search for love! For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/true-self-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

Once a month, Ken answers your personal questions about love, dating, sex and more. Today's questions include: Is it possible to have too much baggage to find a wonderful relationship? How to help a new relationship grow stronger and deeper? How do I decide if someone is truly right for me? and, Why do so many of my new relationships keep breaking down? For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at http://deeperdatingpodcast.com/e7

We all know we can’t force our sexual attractions. But what no one teaches us that we can educate them! In this podcast, I'm going to teach you how. Even if you are relentlessly attracted to the bad boys and the bad girls, you can still develop this capacity. These are not gimmicks; they are the lifelong skills of romance and intimacy; the same skills you'll use to keep passion alive in your next serious relationship. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at http://deeperdatingpodcast.com/e6

We’re going to take apart one of the most toxic dating myths of all--the belief that your longing for love is something to be ashamed of, because it’s too needy or codependent. I’ll tell you why that’s unhelpful and untrue—and back it up with research. In fact, I’ll explain why your longing is one of your absolute greatest gifts, and I’ll teach you how to use it as rocket fuel in your search for healthy love. For links and resources discussed in this episode, please visit our show notes at https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/longing-for-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com  

Arielle Ford is a worldwide bestselling author, relationship expert, and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom's “Amazing Art of Love” series. In this episode, she explains why spiritual people can have a harder time finding love--and offers her greatest insights for everyone who is seeking a soulmate relationship. Get ready to learn some of the simplest and most powerful techniques for finding love online and in day-to-day life. And prepare to be inspired. For more information about Ariel and links to her, please visit https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/finding-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Deeper Dating Podcast Community today: deeperdatingpodcast.com

In this episode, I will teach you the most potent and joyful practice I know for speeding, easing and deepening your search for love! If you care about intimacy, this practice can change your life—don’t miss it! I call this practice “The Inner Mentor Process”—and somehow it bypasses the inner critical voice and connects you to a stream of wisdom that matches anything the greatest dating experts could ever teach you—myself included! In this episode, I’ll guide you in this process and teach you how you can make it part of your life. Download it and you can use it every day. Get ready for a new adventure in intimacy, wisdom, and healing. You’ll thank yourself for listening. To find out more, please visit: http://deeperdatingpodcast/e3

Our intimacy journey is the greatest journey of our lives. There are three stages to this journey, and in this episode, Ken explains each of them. By the end of the episode, you’ll know  which stage you’re in, and what you need to do to move to the next. Stage 1 occurs when you learn to let go of people and situations that chip away at your sense of self-worth. When that happens, everything begins to change. Stage 2 is that in-between space where you’ve lost interest in people who aren’t available, aren’t healthy or don’t treat you right—but the new generation of people just hasn’t arrived yet. We’ll talk about how to make the most out of this awkward stage—and how move out of it more quickly! Stage 3 occurs when our dating lives begin to populate with people who are safer, more available, and are able to love us for who we are. There’s a whole different rule-book for these relationships, and you’ll learn about it in this episode. To learn more, please visit http://deeperdatingpodcast.com/e2

Legions of people are looking for true, lasting love-and not finding it. Sadly, most dating advice actually leads us away from love with its superficial fixation on looks, games, and gimmicks. There’s a wiser path to finding love, and if you follow it, you’ll not only find healthy love more quickly, you’ll heal your life in the process. Ken Page, renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author of Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy has helped thousands of people transform their search for love by teaching them how to discover their innate Core Gifts--the key to finding healthy love, learning self-love and transforming our lives. In this episode, you’ll learn four steps that will move you closer to real love and help you discover your deepest innate gifts. You’ll feel the difference almost right away as you apply these principles. To learn more, please visit https://deeperdatingpodcast.com/how-to-find-your-true-love/ Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and