Robot Monk Xian'er

To emulate the wise or to team with the foolish.【Xian'er says so: “It is not wise to take revenge.”】Xian'er told Shifu: “Shifu, Wang Xiaowu often fails to keep his promise. Since he doesn’t show respect for me, I am going to treat him the same way. ” Shifu said nothing. Xian'er added: “Wang Xiaowu always bullies me, slanders me, and hurts me on purpose.Since this is how he is with me, I have to take revenge.”Shifu replied: " My dear Er, it is time that you do some reading and reflection.”  Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha.Self-esteem,Is to respect oneself.To emulate the wise or to team with the foolish?What kind of person one aspires to become, Determines one’s actions.  是向智者看齐，还是与愚者为伍【贤二如是说：不要以牙还牙】贤二跟师父说：“师父，王小五经常言而无信，根本就不懂得尊重人，既然这样，那我也不跟他客气了。”师父沉默。贤二跟师父又说：“王小五老是欺负我，诋毁、攻击、中伤，既然他老是这样，那我也跟他一样。给他好看。”师父说：“二，好好看看书吧。”以下来自我师父的《好好说话》自尊，是自己尊重自己。是向智者看齐，还是与愚者为伍？心中希望自己成为一个什么样的人决定了自己的行为。