Robot Monk Xian'er

Chart your own destiny rather than being charted by destinyBe it sad or happy, favorable or unfavorable, life is already what it is.  How to live this life and live it well is the most important thing.The saddest thing is not to have a tragic life but to indulgence in it.We are very much attached to the label of" a tragic life "that we tie ourselves to it.We must chart our own destiny rather than being charted by destiny.Birth and death happen to everything and everyone, and nobody can acquire sth. forever without losing it.When you have something, cherish it; when you lose something, let it go.Old causes are gone as new causes are arriving.Take control of your own aspiration and endeavors, and accomplish your career and life under birth and death of various causes. 定义自己的人生，不要被“命运”定义 命运苦也好，乐也好，顺也好，逆也好，都是已经存在的状况了，如何去过好它，才是最重要的。最可悲的不是命运凄苦，而是我们沉溺于此，执著于“命苦”的标签捆缚了自己。我们要去定义自己的人生，而不要被命运定义。一切东西都有生灭，没有谁能永远“得到”而不会“失去”。拥有时，好好珍惜；失去时，释然放下。旧的因缘灭了，新的因缘生起，把握好自己的发心和努力，在因缘的生灭中成就事业、成就人生。