3 Women 3 Ways

So is S &  M the new missionary position? With ity shades of Gray comfortably ensconced as mainstream do we think of handcuffs and riding crops with a nudge, nudge, wink, wink attitude? If a husand slaps a wife is it sexy or abusive? And when some religious folks say they have a spouse's permission to spank them in order to carry out God's direction for head of households, do we look at the hitting differently?  In other words, when is it abuse, when is it fun, and how do we tell the difference? Or do we need to? Two guests will join the show this week to "school" us in the fine art of telling the difference between hurting, loving, giving permission for pain, and how to tell whether we are all being hoodwinked into thinking we are stodgy and unsophisticated if we don’t associate pain with love. Monika Johnson Hostler is the Executive Director of the North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault (NCCASA).  Monika worked at the local rape crisis center in Scotland County as the Crisis Intervention Coor