How To Stop Wanting Him Back

Who can relate to feeling SO good about yourself because you’re DOING THE WORK and then you attract an amazing man and it’s all lining up in the magical way you dreamed, and then… He bounces. On the one hand, you wonder what the hell is the point of doing all this work? And then on the other hand… you think NO! It’s HIM! I’m AMAZING! HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN YOU THINK THAT LATTER THOUGHT? Crappy. Righteous?? Action: Resist the reality of him leaving Result: questioning your own greatness and wanting him back Brooke Castillo reference: If someone says you have blue hair, you wouldn’t bother to need him to see that you don’t. You KNOW that you don’t. If you need someone to see your greatness, there’s a part of you that isn’t fully owning it. First step: Feel the disappointment. Investigate areas in your life where you don’t feel great—your job? Your body? Your home? We can’t control the circumstance of him leaving… We can only look at the thoughts we think about OURSELVES under the circumstances. This is an