Igniting Souls Podcast With Kary Oberbrunner

Stop asking God for all the details to your dream. God doesn't owe you an explanation. Your responsibility is to take Your Next Best Step. That's it. Plain and simple. Become a Soul on Fire: https://IgnitingSoulsConference.com

After three disappointments at the age of 18, I was ready to give up on God. He surprised me with a letter from a stranger named Carl and a cash gift. It changed my life to know that God was for me and that He believed in me. Find out why God is for you: https://www.YourSecretName.com

Too many times we give up on our dreams because we don't know HOW to make them happen. Forget the HOW. Focus on the WHAT and the WHY. This is how I partnered with Hollywood celebrities to release my book Day Job to Dream Job at Shawshank prison. 

Do you have a powerful message? If so, you want to get it out to the world. If done correctly, other people may pay you to get certified on your content. It's a win/win. You'll both earn more influence, impact and income. Find out more about joining our team at: https://www.KaryOberbrunner.com/teams Or Learn how to create your own certification program at: http://businessacademyelite.com/

Your job is to raise people's awareness not "buy my stuff" or "hire me." Show them how they need pain relief and don't give them an opportunity to reject you.

Zig Ziglar coined the term Automobile University. Studies show that if you drive 12,000 miles a year that you can get the equivalent of two years of a college education in three yearss by listening to educational information in the car. This is something I started years ago — learning while I'm biking, mowing the lawn, etc. Find out more on how to invest in yourself at https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com.

One of our Igniting Souls asked how to get her book done after three year. I told her to say no to everything. She is now cranking it and is saying no to everyone. To find out more by getting your free book at https://yoursecretname.com.

So many of us compare our progress to others. When we do this, we disassociate and abdicate our power and influence. Is God putting a red wood size dream inside you? Big dreams require big roots. Remember that ti's not about how fast you go.

What do you want in the next year? I think many of us are scared to have a happy new year. We purposely don't want to get clear on what a happy new year looks like for us because we're afraid we won't meet our goals, and we know it will be painful. I just wrote out my goals for 2020. Some of them scare me. Some of them are edgey and confrontational. But if we're not clear and very specific on our goals, you're not going to achieve them. Share some of your specific goals in the comments below. And join us at the Igniting Souls Conference. Find out more at https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com.

I saw many clients who wanted to make things happen but they experienced distractions and self sabotage. I realized these people were getting hacked. So I went out on a mission and research how we could help people have ideas and ideate — to make them unhackable. Super achievers are the people who have figured out how to become unhackable.  Get Your Free Book at https://Elixir.KaryOberbrunner.com

If you're business is limited to your presence, you're going to fail. Eventually you're going to cap. Look at how you can train others so you're business keeps growing even when you don't want to take the gig. To learn more about growing your business, get your free book at https://www.deeperpathbook.com.

I had a friend who was at a party with a Lexus dealer and instead of explaining the benefits of the car, he let him test drive it for the weekend. He gave my friend the actual experience. Consider how you can give people the actual experience in your coaching business because very few people have experienced coaching and may have some other ideas about what coaching actually is. To find out more, join us at the Igniting Souls Conference - https://www.ignitingsoulsconference.com.

Switch tasking drops your IQ worse than being stoned when you do two cognitive things at the same time. It's much better if you work on writing your book for 30 minutes with the TV off than to write for five hours with the TV on. To find out more about this and other ways to master life, get your free book at https://www.deeperpathbook.com

“A master in the art of living draws no sharp distinction between his work and his play; his labor and his leisure; his mind and his body; his education and his recreation. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence through whatever he is doing, and leaves others to determine whether he is working or playing. To himself, he always appears to be doing both.” - L.P. Jacks My friend and coach Chet Scott told me once that he was happy because he didn't have any place he "had" to be. If you find yourself saying you "have" to do things, consider it a sign that you may need to change your language or even your mindset.  For more on this topic, go to https://www.dayjobtodreamjob.com.

Some of us are actually scared of success and actually self sabotage. I believe your pain is supposed to be your platform. God often has to bring us to a desert. Do not despise the desert. Instead, look for the lesson.

Let's look at all the blessings and gifts we have on this Christmas Day. If we're not careful we take stock and inventory on all the gifts we have not received. But don't forget about the gift of health, food to eat and the fact that God loves you. You have a purpose. You have the present. Find something to be grateful for today. 

How many of you as kids have said, "abracadabra"? It means "I create as I speak." What if you are actually designed to speak and accomplish all at the same time? You can! I believe we are actually designed to be people that speak and accomplish all in one. Find out more at https://www.elixirprojectbook.com

When you compare yourself to other people, you leave your own life and disassociate. Depression is on the rise even though we're the most socially connected people on the planet. Remember that you are not taking action when you're disconnecting.

So many people I know are scared to say yes. We put so many conditions on saying yes. Yesterday, I had an idea that I know resonates with my opus so I was able to make the decision to go with it immediately. My opus is my filter. When you prepare for the moment, the moment is prepared for you. Be able to say yes and say yes quickly but only after you've done the deep work of authoring your opus. To check out my opus, go to https://www.karyoberbrunner.com/opus. To find out more go to https://www.deeperpathbook.com.

Facebook is de-emphasizing pages and emphasizing groups. But be careful of certain Facebook Groups. Many times it's the blind leading the blind. A lot of people don't have their own success model so they blend a bunch of other people's models.  Before you listen to someone else, look at their life. Are they getting results? Choose the limited voices you want to listen to carefully in 2020.