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Award wining sex worker Ally Love joins Tim and Jon to explore some of the experiences of trans sex work, safety, how to book or connect with a sex worker - and how to get 'the girlfriend experience' Links we talked about this week... Scarlet Alliance - scarletalliance.org.au Resourcing health & Education (RhED) - sexworker.org.au Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) - swop.org.au Vixens - vixen.org.au Spice Guys - OnlyFans Content Creator Panel podcast  And get more of Ally at: AllyLoveTS2.0 instagram.com/allylovets2.0 @thetransbarbie twitter.com/thetransbarbie And all of Ally's links at AllyLoveTS.com This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au

It's a big one this week! We've got a massive show for you this week, so loosen up! This past weekend Mr Australian Leather 2023 Shane @leatherman_shane hosted the Title Holder Q &A Panel at the Laird Hotel. The event aimed to  dispel myths and misconceptions about running for a title in our local community - and to impart some wisdom from current and former title holders to the next generation. The panel included Mr VicBears 2023, Jonny @mrvicbear2023 Ms Melbourne Rubber 2022 Delsi @delsicat Mr Australasia Bear 2022, Damien @sailor_bear_86 Melbourne Rubberman 2023 Joel @rbrjoel International Ms. Leather 2018, Sir Ang @thegirlang and Shane’s cohost with the most Laird Leatherman 2021 Craig Burnett @white.dragon.339 Thanks to the Laird Hotel for hosting this event, and for letting us tap into their AV system! The event also hosted a raffle and auction, which the team from Hanky took out - securing the denim vest owned by Patrick Brookes which he wore when he won  IML -  becoming the first and only male Au

Michael and Jon look back on the year that was, and what's on the Hide and Seek roster in 2024. We've got a gangbang of a show coming up in 2024 - so share your tips, tricks, and loads with us! email hideandseek@joy.org.au to tell us what you want to hear on the show this year. Michael's favoutite episodes of 2023 No Biggie - Small Penis Size Just A Hole, Sir - Glory Holes That's So Haven - Haven, Alex, and Queer Trans Men Jon's favourite episodes of 2023 Kink Looks Better In Colour - Racism in Kink and Fetish Communities Ageing Disgracefully - Older Men Up To Scratch - the Australian Pup and Handler Competition Events coming up! Titleholder and Competition Q&A @ The Laird (all genders) Sat 13 Jan Midsumma Carnival Sunday 21 Jan Victoria's Pride Street Party (Vicky P!) Sun 11 Feb Hanky Party (all genders) Sat 22 Mar Trough Pride - Sat 20 Jan This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, an

Body dysmorphia affects queer men in nuanced ways, and while we can't unpack every single element - we're going to give it our best shot! Some guys experience body dysmorphia through muscle dysmorphia - sometimes called 'bigorexia' where the adoration of bigger bodies can become more than a erotic fascination, but a driver in how we perceive ourselves - sometimes with negative consequences. Spencer Colt rejoins us to talk about his experience, and how our image can sometimes be tied to schoolyard bullies, and if we push ourselves beyond our limits we could just find ourselves halfway up Mt. Fuji with a double patella dislocation. Now, not all experiences of body dysmorphia are under this umbrella - so we want to hear from you. If you've experienced some form of body dysmorphia we'd love to hear form you. Be that slender guys, chunky boys, tall or short guys - anyone who feels their body doesn't match up with what their brain thinks it should be. Spencer last joined us during our OnlyFans content creator ep

Break out the non-brand named vegetable shorting product and open wide! We're going deep into the recesses of Tim's descending colon in an exploration of fisting as Tim goes bravely into the farthest reaches of his digestive system. Yes, Tim is attempting to take a little more than a knuckle sandwich - and we're helping out (or being entirely unhelpful - you decide) in helping him get all the way there. Tim, Michael and Jon are all fists on deck to share some tips, tricks, and tid bits about the art of handballing. We chatted about Fisting with Michael / FFunOtter earlier in the year on My Left Fist and with Anthony back in 2020 on the episode Fist and Shout Need some help yourself? Check out Fisting on Down an' Dirty [NSFW] SFAIDS' 8 steps for first-time fisters The Sacred Art of Fisting by Larry Shockey - some great tips but this one needs a refresh if you're thinking about HIV prevention as it's now a bit dated and doesn't include PrEP, PEP and U=U info :-) This episode was recorded on the lands of

Oh, did we mention? We are winners! We were so chuffed to be the recipients of the 2023 Addam Stobbs Award for Broadcasting Excellence at the JOY AGM! Addam was a longtime presenter of Allegro Non Troppo at JOY until his passing in 2010 and this award is named for him. At a time when our community is attacked, called groomers and pedophiles by hate commentators simply for daring to be their authentic selves- it's truly an honour for us to be able to have the trust of JOY to present a show on broadcast radio about queer sex. Our sex lives form an important part of our lives, and queer pleasure is something we'll fight tooth and nail to celebrate. So, thank you to the entire team at JOY for acknowledging us this year. Most imortantly, thank you to all our amazing guests who have candidly shared their thoughts and often intimate personal experiences of sex. Here we have a really quick reflection on the night and winning the award. Don't worry, the real episode for this week is coming tomorrow. This episode w

Michael shot off to Adelaide for GEAR'd, Adelaide's annual multi-day event hosted by Adelaide Leather & Fetish Inc (AL&F). GEAR’d has become recognised across Australia, and internationally, as its own community haven and an event not to be missed on any kinky calendar. As well as hosting Mr and Ms Leather and Adelaide Rubber titles, a week of workshops, kinky cabaret, and fetish markets was on display. Thanks so much to the GEAR'd team for throwing a fantastic series of events, and congrats to Mr Leather Adelaide - Storm, Ms Adelaide Leather 2022 - Delinda for your continued reign, Adelaide Rubber 2023 Miss Behavin', and to the newly sashed Australian Bootblack Soveryn. Timestamps for your nerves Storm: 01:33 Sharon (Miss Behavin') 07:03 Dr. George 24:00 Skye 36:14 We discuss suicide from the 55 minute mark until the end of the episode. Links Skye's One Last Look Photography on Facebook and Instagram Find Sharon via Piercing Perfection on Instagram Keep an eye on Adelaide Leather and Fetish and Gear'd soc

Michael Tim and Jon sit down for a Hot Topic sharing session. What have we been doing, what's been going on, what's it all about? Think of it like a slutty pot luck. We chat cruising and beats, dungeon setup safety, and sexting and consent. Delicious! Cruising safety guide here> https://downandirty.org/app/uploads/2022/12/CRUISING-GUIDE.pdf This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy

This week, any glory hole is a goal! We're chatting with Emil, founder and executive director of Sissy's Glory Hole. Emil (he/she/they) saw it in a dream! A glory hole of their very own, to delight and enterain the masses - and with some handy (and handsy) tradies, the infamous hole was gaped into existance. We discuss therapy, sharing intimacy with straight and bi+ me - and being the cover of the recently reinvigorated BUTT Magazine. Emil artfully discusses how the anonymity of a hole in the wall allows them to play with gender and learning to not pathologise their sexual exploits. Catch Emil on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/babydilfx/ Follow Sissy's Glory Hole on X/Twitter https://twitter.com/gloryholemelb Emil's Drip Article Melbourne’s hardest art project: Emil lets us into his glory hole  All Emil's links including articles, OF, and more! https://linktr.ee/Babydilf  Happy Holl - the ultimate aftercare for your butt: https://www.instagram.com/happieholl/  Check out Butt Magazine: https://butt

We chat with Curt and Ross about celebrating all things nude! Michael and Tim catch up with Curt Mason from Naked Man about the upcoming naked camp for likeminded guys - and all of the thought (and thot) provoking workshops on offer. Later, Tim sits down with Ross McPherson to talk about the Secret Society workshop about mindful self touch. They touch on themselves, and the five erotic pillars to discover a deeper connection to self and pleasure! Naked Man Events nman.com.au Uh oh, A previous version of this episode got excited and 'finished a little prematurely' - which missed a whole chunk of Tim's chat with Ross. Jump in at the 46 minute mark to hear from Ross - bigger, longer, and uncut! This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandsee

After the fur had flown, Jon caught up with the newly sashed Australian Puppy 2023 Luca and Australian Handler 2023 Bowser to celebrate their new found title holder glory. Outgoing Australian Puppy 2022 Pup Jaxx sits down to reminisce, and we even caught Jaxx's outgoing speach - characteristically filled with tears. Congratulations to Pup Luca and Bowser! Bowser is @Bowserpig on X/Twitter, and @Ostentatiousbear on Instagram Pup Luca is @Puplucaqld on Instagram and  Facebook A HUGE congrats to the WA-PAH team, APHC, and Pup Garrett for an amazing comp week. And of course, an incredible job by ALL the contestants. Get more of them in the MAIN episode this week where Jon chatted to them before they strutted their stuff on stage. Find everyone else! Pup Garrett is @PupGarrett on Instagram and X/Twitter Skout is @PupSpanky on X/Twitter, @Spanky_pup on Instagram, and PupSpanky on Facebook Pup TJ is @PupTJ97 on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook Pup Terran is @PTerran97 on X/Twitter Pup Biru is @PupBiru on X/Twitte

This week Jon sets up shop over in WA, scooting over to Boorloo/Perth to the Australian Pup and Handler Competition to see fur fly, as contestants from across the country compete for the Australian Pup and Handler (APHC) titles for 2023. After our hugely successful 2022 APHC episodes The Power of the Dog and Shaggy Dog Stories, Jon is back to take the reigns (leash) and guide us through the pup jounrey of Luca, TJ, Terran, Luca, and Biru - and catching up with Handler hopefuls Bowser and Skout. Before sitting down with competitors, Jon meets up with APHC Producer Pup Garrett. Don't forget there is a SEXTRA epiosde with our winners, and outgoing Australian Pup 2022 Pup Jaxx in the aftershow Congratulations to Pup Luca and Bowser! It's a big week, so here's where everyone's chats jump in Pup Garrett ~1:10-12:00 Bowser & Skout ~ 12:00 - 25:40 Pup TJ & Pup Terran ~ 25:40 - 36:15 Pup Luca & Pup Biru ~ 36:15 46:10 Winenrs announcement ~ 46:15 Find everyone! Pup Garrett is @PupGarrett on Instagram and X/Twitter Bo

It’s time to talk pills and thrills! Well, not those kinds of pills... This week on Hide and Seek, we're delving into the world of STIs with Michael Traeger from the Burnet Institute. We're chatting about Doxy PEP, the little pill that could change the game in STI prevention. Join us as we discuss transforming the landscape of sexual health for gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men. From the ins and outs (pun intended!) of how to take Doxy to the nitty-gritty on potential side effects, we're leaving no stone unturned. Michael breaks down the recently released consensus statement by ASHM, giving you the lowdown on what’s hot and what’s not in the world of Doxy-PEP. This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Find all our links, ask a question, or subscribe linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy The ASHM

We talk with Alexander McKween about Haven, the night for trans men and their loved ones. The monthly night by and for trans guys has its regular home at UBQ on Smith street and has expanded to a new warehouse party at Rubix Warehouse. We chat with Alex about creating spaces for trans masc folk to get expressive, party in an environment tailored to supporting them, and how events can be more inclusive and supportive. We discuss some pitfalls of dating and cruising cis men - and what it takes to not be a dickhead online and when cruising trans dudes. This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au Photo for this week lovingly supplied by Alex, by sensational photographer Millie Gryphon Follow Alex https://linktr.ee/Alexander_McKween Find more out Haven https://linktr.ee/haven.night Check out UBQ https://www.ubq

Get an extra SEXTRA exclusive 20 minutes not broadcast on air from our fetish and racism episode! Yes, we continued our chat with Mister International Rubber 20 (2017) Preston So, and current reigning Mister International Rubber 26 (2023) Pusckatt Onyx. Hear more from Preston and Pusckatt as we kept the mics rolling for just a bit more of these incredible international superstars. Something we missed? We'd love you to get in touch via hideandseek@joy.org Please rate us! if you've enjoyed listening to our show, we'd love for you to give us a review via your podcast app! Found our socials https://linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy Find Preston @mirubberxx and via his website https://mirubberxx.com/ Find Pusckatt @pusckatt.onyx on all his socials https://linktr.ee/pusckatt Onyx Deep South https://www.onyxdeepsouth.com/ Melbourne Rubber's diversity and inclusion policy and check out melbournerubber.com This episode was recorded during SLICK23! Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick And

During Melbourne Rubber's SLICK week - we discuss racism and fetishisation in our fetish communities. We had the opportunity to sit down with none other than Mister International Rubber 20 (2017) Preston So, and current reigning Mister International Rubber 26 (2023) Pusckatt Onyx. Preston and Pusckatt share with us their very public experiences with and combatting racism that pervades fetish communities. We discuss allyship and what our communities can do to strengthen their commitment to and representation of people of colour. Something we missed? We'd love you to get in touch via hideandseek@joy.org Please rate us! if you've enjoyed listening to our show, we'd love for you to give us a review via your podcast app! Found our socials https://linktr.ee/hideandseekonjoy Find Preston @mirubberxx and via his website https://mirubberxx.com/ Find Pusckatt @pusckatt.onyx on all his socials https://linktr.ee/pusckatt Onyx Deep South https://www.onyxdeepsouth.com/ Melbourne Rubber's diversity and inclusion pol

We sat down with Melbourne Rubberman 2023 contestants, RubberJoe (Pup Timber)l, Alistair (Rubberscum), and FFunOtter. We explore their first forays into latex fetish, what they hope to achieve in the year ahead, and their many and varied kinks. We even get a glimpse into their talent round performances for the stage at the Laird on Friday as part of SLICK What are they in for? Hear from the 2022 title holders Sergio and Delsi in the other half of this week's episode here: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-141-rise-and-shine-side-a-sergio-delsi Rubberscum has all his link sin his Linktree https://linktr.ee/Rubberscum  Joel is essential @RbrJoel on X Instagram Recon, and just about everything else FFunOtter has all his link son his Flowpage https://www.flowcode.com/page/ffun_otter Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com/slick And check out Melbourne Rubber on socials via their Linktree https://linktr.ee/melbournerubber This week's podcast photography provided with thanks to the

Michael and Jon sat down with Melbourne Rubberman 2022 Sergio and Ms Melbourne Rubber 2022 Delsi.  We chat about their year wearing the coveted sashes, advice for their successor/s as we prepare for the newest entry into the Melbourne Rubbermaid family later this week. Delsi connects with us about bi+ visibility in the kink community, accessibility and inclusion, and being the inaugural Ms Melbourne Rubber title holder - and bringing more gender accessibility to community. Sergio shares with us about representing his kinky queer LatinX community, his rubber awakening, and advice for his successor, Who will take the title? Hear from the MRM23 contestants in the second half of this week's episode here: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-141-rise-and-shine-side-a-mrm23-contestants Connect with Delsi via her website: https://www.withdelsi.com/ or on instagram @delsicat Connect with Sergio via his instagram https://www.instagram.com/sergiosiente/ Find all the SLICK events https://www.melbournerubber.com

Beau is back for more dick! Yes, we missed quite a lot of your community questions during our main episode - so we're here to set the record gay and delve into some of what you shared with us on socials. Did you miss the first episode? What are you doin here, what do you think this is? Check out the main ep first No Biggie - Side A with Beau as we got into the long and short of pecker size: https://joy.org.au/hideandseek/2023/09/ep-140-no-biggie-penis-size/ Here we go...

Where are all the small dicks? Beau explores the topic of 'dickflation' and gay men's obsession with penis size and the desire to be hung. We discuss the "long and short" of penis size perceptions within the gay, bi, and queer community. Joining us is the Beau, as we tip-toe through the not-so-tiny world of how media, porn, and Twitter chatter shape expectations around the ol' tallywhacker. From societal standards that can sometimes feel as rigid as, well, you know, to the portrayal of penile prowess in various forms of entertainment, we're unzipping the truth of penis size. We'll probe into the intersection of racism and fatphobia and how these factors play a role in perceptions. But wait, there's more! We'll also tap into the art of measurement, exploring how this delicate matter often gets tangled in the web of confirmation bias. And speaking of web, Twitter culture's impact? Oh, it's a throbbing subject, alright. Amidst all the winks and nods, we'll shed light on nudism's role as a liberating route to