Last First Date Radio

Are you falling in love or lust? How can you tell the difference? There are some scientifically-backed ways to figure this out early on. In this solo episode, I share five of the top ways to know if it’s love or lust. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear  ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/  ►Website → http

My guest, Dr. Janis Roszler, is a board-certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people increase intimacy in dating and relationships. Her 7 books include Sweet Romance: A Woman's Guide to Love and Intimacy with Diabetes and Diabetes on Your OWN Terms.  Dr. Janis currently trains sex therapists at the International Institute of Clinical Sexology and is the host of the "Intimate Conversations with Dr. Janis" podcast. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How can people communicate their sexual needs to their partner?  What’s a good way to communicate medical issues, such as diabetes, to a dating partner?   How can couples enhance the level of intimacy in their relationship? How can people improve their sexual skills?  How can couples keep the fun alive in a long-term relationship? Connect with Dr. Janis Website https://dearjanis.com  LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/janis-roszler-phd-a624a19 Facebook: @JanisRoszler TikTok: @janisphd ►Please subsc

The age old question: who pays on the first date? What is considered “proper etiquette” in dating today? The answer has changed over the years, and it’s time to revisit this issue once again. It depends on several factors: age, income level and gender of the daters, to who initiated the date, and when splitting the cost of a date might make sense. Let’s dive in! ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reaso

Barbara Kenyon knows a thing or two about finding true love after loss.  She’s been widowed twice, both times following a happy and fulfilling marriage. Barbara found true love once again and got married last November. And for the last 25+ years she has been joyfully helping widows and widowers fall in love again following her 7-step process. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: Common fears of widows and widowers who want to date again Re-framing dating to make it less scary The 7-step process for finding true love after widowhood What it’s  like to remarry in your 70s Connect with Barbara https://kenyoncoaching.com/    https://widowsdatingcoach.com/  ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook

You’re attracted to someone, and they don’t feel the same about you. Whether you’ve been on a first date with them and they never called again, or you’ve been dating for a while and they ended things because they weren’t into you, or even when you messaged someone you found attractive on a dating app and didn’t hear back, it hurts. Why does this happen, and what do we do when the people we’re attracted to don’t like us back? ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast!

Dr. Thais Gibson is known for her work on attachment theory. She created Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, an innovative framework uniting traditional attachment theory, developmental psychology insights, and subconscious reprogramming techniques. This framework is reflected in the courses she teaches in The Personal Development School, in her innovative coach training program and in her most recent book, Learning Love (https://amzn.to/4a63tEI) In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The attachment styles and their impact on relationships How partners with anxious/avoidant styles can succeed How past wounds affect our relationships How to heal past wounds Tips and tools for creating healthier relationships Website: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  Free Life-Changing Quiz to Discover Your Attachment Style in Just 5 Minutes ►Please subscribe/

You’re dating someone, things seem to be going great, when suddenly he pulls away. The texting is less frequent or stops altogether. He’s not asking you out for another date. What’s going on? Why do men pull away? And what do you do - and not do - when he does? That's what you'll learn in this solo episode. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whym

Damona Hoffman is a regular cast member of The Drew Barrymore Show and a frequent contributor to NPR, The Washington Post, The LA Times, and Access Hollywood. Her podcast, Dates & Mates, was named Podcast of the Year at the Black Podcasting Awards in 2022. Damona’s first book F the Fairy Tale was released January 2, 2024. She lives in LA with her husband and two children. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The four dating myths The pillars of healthy relationships What’s missing in the dating world today Unconscious biases that keep people from love Connect with Damona IG , FB, TikTok @DamonaHoffman  Website https://DamonaHoffman.com ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://fac

Do you repeat dysfunctional relationship patterns over and over, even though they make you feel terrible? It doesn’t seem to make sense to repeat a pattern that leaves you frustrated and hurt. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who’s toxic to you? In this episode, I share four reasons why we repeat destructive relationship patterns and five ways to break this pattern and have healthy relationships.  ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https

Jennifer Nurick specializes in healing anxious attachment, attachment injuries and childhood trauma. She is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Energetic Healer, and the author of “Heal Your Anxious Attachment: Release Past Trauma, Cultivate Secure Relationships, and Nurture a Deeper Sense of Self”. She is the founder and voice of Psychotherapy Central. She has been working in the healing space for over 20 years, combining Eastern energetic practices and Western psychotherapy. She offers transformational courses to help individuals and couples heal trauma and build secure long-term relationships. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: What are the attachment styles? Why is your attachment style important in dating and relationships? How does anxious attachment show up when dating? What is the pursuer/withdrawer dynamic? How can you break unhealthy attachment patterns in dating? Connect with Jennifer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/  Facebook: https:/

A recent article published in the journal Current Directions in Psychological Science concluded that the five Love Languages are not supported by empirical scientific evidence. Do love languages really matter? Or are they actually harmful? ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear  ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-c

Identical twins, Jan and Jillian Yuhas, are Relationship and Boundary Experts. With a background in psychotherapy and family mediation, they’re committed to resolving relationship challenges in every part of life. They are the co-authors of Boundary Badass, a new book  designed to empower readers to voice their value, fulfill their emotional needs, and cultivate valuable connections through the mastery of setting boundaries. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: What are boundaries and why they’re so important in dating How to know when to set a boundary with someone you’re dating Different types of boundaries The difference between a boundary and an ultimatum Can you change your boundaries at any time? What people can do if someone doesn’t respect their boundaries Book: https://www.boundarybadass.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janandjillian/ Jan's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janyuhas/ Jillian's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillianyuhas/ ►Please sub

Even though it’s been around since 1995, online dating still gets a bad rap. That’s largely because of the myths and misconceptions people have about dating online. Do any of the following five online dating myths sound familiar? If so, I recommend you let go of these old beliefs, and you might just find your person on a dating site in the near future! ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men

Kaamna Bhojwani is a Columbia University-educated sexuality expert. She helps couples and singles enhance their relationships and well-being. With a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology, Kaamna offers a unique perspective that combines academic knowledge with real-world applications, making complex topics accessible and engaging. She's been at the forefront of addressing society's most taboo subjects - from sexless marriages and infidelity to the intricate connections between mental health and sexual well-being. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How perspectives on intimacy and relationships in the golden years has evolved Advice for those entering their golden years on maintaining or even enhancing intimacy How emotional intimacy changes as we age, and what role it plays in overall happiness during our golden years Why it’s important to listen to your body and engage in activities like yoga, acupuncture, and intuitive eating as you age Why sex doesn’t have to be difficult

If you want online dating success, there’s a lot you can do; write a more effective profile, be crystal clear on what you’re looking for, message more effectively to name a few. To really improve your experience, you need to know how to spot online dating red flags early on. Here’s my advice on the most common online dating red and green flags - how to recognize them early on, and what to do if you find them. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/L

Bryan Reeves is a former US Air Force Captain, an author and a Life and Relationship Coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His blog has been read by over 50 million people worldwide. He’s the co-founder of "Elevate Your Relationship,” a live coaching program for men ready to improve their relationships. He's co-host of the popular podcast, “Men, This Way,” and author of his newest book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her). In this episode of Last First Date Radio: Why the article "Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)" resonated for so many people  The three stages of love and relationships Who pays on a first date? What women can do when a man checks out of the relationship to help invite him back in (without sacrificing or losing herself) Connect With Bryan Facebook http://www.facebook.com/bryanreevesofficial  IG https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/  TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@bryanreevesinsight  YouTube http://www.yout

Have you ever felt that you were trying too hard in a relationship? Maybe you were the one to plan everything or pick up the slack when your partner didn’t come through. Trying too hard is unhealthy for both of you. Today, I’m sharing five signs you’re working too hard in a relationship and three things you can do instead. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit

How do you trust again after infidelity? In this podcast episode, I coach Rachel, someone I had never met before, for a one-time session to discuss how to trust again after being cheated on. She was married eleven years to a man who cheated several times. Trust was betrayed, he left her for the other woman, and the divorce was final last summer. She feels she dated too soon, but she got some validation that she was still attractive and dateable. But what about the man she's seeing now? ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in D

Do you have dating fatigue? It might be time to take a break from dating. Maybe you’re feeling burned out, or you’ve had a several conversations fizzle out in a way that left you frustrated, or you’re just busy right now and focused on other things.  Whatever the case, if you feel you’re not in the right place to date, stepping back for some time—be it a few hours, a few days, or a few weeks—can be really beneficial. Here are five reasons and benefits of taking a dating break. ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https:/

Blending her professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist with intuition, Madeline Charles shares equal parts practical and spiritual guidance to support women in creating sexy, secure relationships. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: How to define being secure in love Why being secure in love is important for a thriving relationship What it looks like when someone is not feeling secure in love The 3 keys to a secure way of relating Unique challenges and opportunities spiritual, successful women have in love Free Gift: Sexy, Successful, and Secure In Love Free Masterclass  Discover the 3 keys to attract the right man without lowering your standards or spending hours online, and even if you’re beginning to lose hope he’s out there. https://madelinecharlescoaching.com/free-gift/  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/madelinecharlescoaching/   Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/904645606349156   Website https://madelinecharlescoaching.com/ ►Please subscribe/rate and re