Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Have you found yourself unable to resist getting another hit of attention from someone you know is wrong for you? Want to send out one more text even though you *know* you shouldn't? This is called microdosing.  And it's easy to fall into this trap when you feel hooked on someone, but it doesn't mean it's good for us in the long-term. In this episode, Matt and Stephen answer your biggest questions about microdosing and give practical ways to prevent getting fixated on the wrong person. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: • A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier • A family member you could’ve created more distance with • A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today. And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to Yo

How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... ---  Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Let’s be real for a moment . . . We all sometimes wish we could be happier. We blame all sorts of variables for holding us back from achieving this. We tell ourselves that once we finally find a partner, secure a better job, or lose weight, life will be good and we will finally be happy. But even when we achieve some of those goals, the “happiness goalposts” appear to move a little further down the field. We can even forget that we have certain things in our lives now that 10 years ago we would’ve said were THE things that needed to happen in order for us to be happy. In this brand-new episode taken from last week’s Virtual Retreat, I share two words that changed my outlook on this completely. They become my compass whenever life throws something difficult my way. With this simple shift, you can give yourself permission to start your life from where you are right now . . . --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com H

In this killer clip with Matt and Ed Mylett, you'll learn: • The #1 question you should ask yourself before you sleep together • Why you should never decide to sleep with someone just because you’re afraid someone else will beat you to it • What a GOOD reason to jump into bed with someone looks like • How to gauge someone’s intentions • Why owning your actions is sexy --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt gives some psychological and practical tips on irresistible traits that boost your attraction both in the long-term and courtship stages of dating. --- Download our free "5 Compliments" guide at SayThisToHim.com  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matthew and Stephen talk about Esther Perel's excellent answers to the question: "When do people feel most drawn to their partner?" and we give our own thoughts about what keeps desire early on in a relationship.  --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation. The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship? But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship?  In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Can you be "too picky" in love? What is the difference between having standards and just being annoyingly judgmental? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk about: When to be picky vs. when to be open-minded when falling in love How true commitment changes your view of relationships The things that really matter when choosing a partner The cognitive bias that keeps you with the wrong person --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sick of feeling like you have to wait to be approached by a guy? Want to be able to actually "choose" someone you're attracted to, and meet them in REAL LIFE? Here are 7 elegant and simple ways to have a guy approach you (without feeling like you're doing all the work)... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So...Matt has some BIG news to share that you may not know about yet!  And it got us thinking: What are the REAL signs a guy wants to get serious with you? Matt explains that 11 behaviours to look for that tell you he's thinking about a long-term relationship and doesn't have one foot out of the door... --- Come join our special "Commitment Masterclass" with Matthew on February 23rd! - a 2-hour deep dive for our Love.Life members on what really takes you from casual to committed - book your spot at AskMH.com (and get a free trial to our VIP club!)  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt talks about what gets someone hooked in the first few dates, the 3 texts that get a guy to pursue you, and how to handle the day after you sleep with someone... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You may have told yourself 100 times you’re ready to finally meet someone. Maybe you even read a few dating tips and decided to go try them out. But then, you see that cute guy you like at work, in your social circle, or at a party. You want to flirt. You want to get him to notice you. T hen at the crucial moment, you shrink. “H--hey”, you say, trying to play it cool. You make small talk. Chit-chat about everyday stuff, but nothing that ever amounts to flirting. And you realize: I can’t do this. I’m too much of an introvert. If you’ve ever used this excuse before, then get ready. Because I have 3 techniques today that are going to change your dating life forever. You’re an introvert? Guess what, so am I. Now you’ll find out why that can be your greatest superpower... -- Come be a part of our FREE "Dating With Results" virtual event on February 8th. Learn 4 secrets to end casual dating traps, and the authentic path to a real, committed relationship. Go to DatingWithResults.com and register today!  --- Join us

What does it really mean to be high-value? Matt and Steve talk about the top 5 traits that make you attractive for a relationship to *anyone* Instead of focusing on short-term attention, focus on these in the long-term and you won't find yourself playing games to keep someone interested.  --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does "The One" exist? Maybe there's someone you can't imagine your life without. Or maybe you have someone who seems SO amazing but you have a couple of doubts. There may not be one quick formula for knowing if someone is right for a long-lasting relationship, but here are four questions that you should definitely ask yourself before you dive in deeper... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---    Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's recently been shown that young people are having less sex than previous generations. This got us thinking: Is Casual Sex Losing Its Appeal? Matt and Stephen sit down to talk: - How men and women think about casual sex in 2022 - What needs are met by casual sex (and what can cause it to become destructive) - How the desire for casual sex can conflict with a desire for real connection --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---  Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Matt and Stephen talk about an email from a listener who feels like he dates women who self-sabotage the relationship with their insecurity.  We discuss what really kills attraction, who is at fault when someone gets insecure, and what it means to feel safe to bring up your fears and vulnerability in a relationship. Also, someone changed Jameson's Netflix username to "Lord Fart"... --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What makes a guy hooked on you from Day 1? In this episode, Matt shows you how to communicate in a way that makes him feel special, brings out the most attractive sides of your personality, and show your attraction from a place of confidence. These tools will help you remain high value in his eyes and if done right will even make you irreplaceable. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships...   --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"When I decide I really like someone, they suddenly lose interest?" Has this ever happened to you? Join Matt and Stephen as they explain the psychology behind someone backing off after you reveal your feelings and what types of people typically show this behaviour. --- Book your spot on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (HOLIDAY SPECIAL OFFER – book your spot in December and get a $100 discount off the full price + 3 special bonuses!) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's all too common in modern dating to label someone a "narcissist". But what are the actual signs you're dating a narcissist vs. just dating a flawed person? What behaviours should you look for in the early dating stage?  Join Matt and Stephen as they discuss all things narcissism and how to heal after a relationship with someone who damages your self-esteem... --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.