Love Life With Matthew Hussey

“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?” When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . and set ourselves up for massive future heartbreak.  If you find yourself getting fixated on someone too quickly—trying to make them fit into a relationship based on who they could be—then watch this week’s episode (taken from my Live Retreat) to figure out when someone is truly worthy of your investment. --- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

 It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likable person. It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before. We retreat more and more into our shells and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner. This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world. It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today. In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence... --- ►► Deep down, you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your pers

It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price.    When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may pursue someone who doesn’t want a relationship in the hope of changing them, or prioritize someone else’s needs over your own because of your feelings of admiration.    For today’s episode, I’ve gathered some of my best advice over the years on spotting and acting on red flags . . . so you can move on faster and avoid the pain of heartbreak with someone who just isn’t ready. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. Go Here to Get Your Free Guide → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it always healthy? In this episode clip, Matt and Steve talk about the art of opening up to your partner and how to communicate vulnerability the right way. --- Follow Matt: http://bit.ly/MatthewHusseyIG Follow Stephen: http://bit.ly/StephenHusseyIG --- Learn 5 Techniques To Get Someone To Open Up To You. Go to GetHimToTalk.com

Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating?    It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in familiar toxic patterns. You want to throw your hands up and say, “How did this happen again?”   If you want to break this pattern, today’s new video of my conversation with author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is a must-watch. Don’t miss it! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. Go Here to Get Your Free Guide → http://www.3LoveHabits.com  

 It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?  Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term.  --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve? In this conversation, Matt talks to the incredible Marie Forleo (@MarieForleo) about her own path to finding love, how we may need to change our blueprint to find the right person for us, and what it takes to be truly fulfilled in a long-term relationship and break our old patterns.  --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Pre-Order Your Copy of my new book "LOVE LIFE" & Join My Exclusive Launch Group Now at. . . → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com This is the biggest news I’ve revealed in a LONG time, and I’m beyond excited to share it with you. It’s about something I’ve been tirelessly working on in the background for the last 4 years . . . In many ways, it’s been the most difficult and personal project of my life. I’ve had to keep it to myself for what feels like forever now, but I can finally share it with you, and I do exactly that in this episode.

It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn?  Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and holds them together long-term.  --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end. If you feel stuck in heartbreak—or just need some encouragement to pick yourself up—don’t miss today’s new video. I’ll show you how to stop this breakup from defining who you are, and give you the first step to getting the confidence you need to start again. --- Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Many of us feel the pressure in life to be "normal". Especially in love where we may want to sand off our edges for dating apps and appear like everyone else. But I'm here to tell you... It's ok to be weird. In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. Or maybe it's the secret to your creativity, your productivity, or what makes you charismatic. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Whether we’re sensitive about our looks, our age, or even the fact that we have kids, the fear of rejection can sometimes stop us before we get started.   Angela’s story in this week’s episode is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on this subject. I’m so excited for you to see it. If you want to feel more confident in dating (and in life!) you can’t miss this one! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Should I leave or try to fix this relationship? Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.   Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.   With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.   Today’s clip could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

What’s the secret formula for flirting? It’s one thing we all know is important in getting attraction, but rarely are we shown how to actually do it. The truth is, there isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to flirting that works for everyone. But there are things you can do to subtly add flirtatious chemistry into any conversation and make it feel completely natural. In today’s new compilation episode, I’ve gathered my best flirting advice from over the years, giving you a total of 19 flirty ideas that can help spark chemistry on your next date . . . or get you to date #1 in the first place! --- Get The Exact Text Messages That Lead Somewhere Real. Learn More About The Momentum Texts at. . . → http://www.MomentumTexts.com

Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differences in a relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey ---   ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com

Get ready to put yourself in the shoes of some of the incredible women who attended our last Retreat, and hear the stories of how they’ve been able to find reserves of strength, resilience, and hope they didn’t even know they had. Plus, you can see the dedication of my team, the absolute blast we have, and the deep work and lightbulb moments that happen throughout the event. It’s my wish that as you listen to this episode (and make sure to go watch on YouTube as well to see the Retreat live in action!) it will be like a mini Retreat for you today—inspiring you to take on the rest of your week. ►► Deep down, if you know there’s something missing in your love life, your career, or your personal life. GOOD NEWS - I have a proven method to transform your life in just 6 short days with me → http://www.MHRetreat.com

I’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-listen for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over your pain, but how to deal with it while you’re still in the middle of it—perhaps even in the worst phase, when it feels like it’ll never go away. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Betrayal. Anger. Heartbreak. These emotions are normal in the wake of a breakup. But often, especially if we feel we’ve been mistreated by the person we broke up with, anger lingers long after it’s productive. We become captive to this toxic emotion, unable to move on and get over what happened, rendering closure impossible.   So how can we truly heal from this type of pain? In today's new episode, we'll discuss how. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Have you ever worried that being in a relationship makes it harder to achieve your goals? It's a common worry that people have: "I won't be able to juggle all the things I want to do in life and also devote myself to someone". If you've struggled with this dilemma before (or dated people who have), then this clip is for you. Matthew and Stephen talk about the benefits of being single vs. a relationship and how to reframe your lens to be able to make either work for you. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in Just 6 Days Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com

Does your life need to be “figured out” before you find “The One”? This is the sort of advice married people LOVE to give: “Once you get your life together and you’re totally fulfilled and happy, the right person will come along.” It sounds good. But is it true? In today's episode, I’ll give you the truth about what you need to do when looking for love so you can find the right person for you without needing to be perfect! --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com