Turn Me On

Bryde and Jeremie are back at it in person! After months apart, the hosts reconnect and dive deep into buttholes. A listener writes in with a brain boner about not feeling anything during sex, with no problem getting off in private entertaining fantasies, not for the faint of heart. The hosts speak with Jessica Clark Graham about radical consent (can we get a HELL YES), bathroom bj's, sex & spirituality, and oh, oh, OH! So much more. This episode is named after Jessica’s book, Good S*X: Getting Off Without Checking Out”. Just The Tips Recommendations include Japanese Whiskey “Suntory Whiskey: Toki”, and singing along to an album you know front to back - like “You Were Here”, by Sarah Harmer. Other references include “The Power”, a novel by Naomi Alderman.     See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Bryde's voice coach is the guest on today's episode! The hosts speak with Jamie about speaking from the heart (or Men's work) and how to work with the divine masculine and feminine, even in conflict. "When you're hysterical, it's historical.". References include authors and men's work teachers Robert Bly and David Deida; "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover" by Robert Moore and Doug Gillette, and "Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples" by Harville Hendrix. Jamie Wollrab is an actor, director, writer, producer, and an acting and voice coach based in Los Angeles. Jamie hosts virtual masterclasses in voicework that you can check out on his website - Jamiewollrab.com  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Happy Birthday Bryde!! Homeward, the hosts connect through the distance to address a listeners question that hits close to home. What about mismatched libidos and stress? They talk about the different expressions of intimate love and the effect of stress-specific conjured by sexual matters. Jeremie and Bryde chat with sexologist Eva Clay about her work with couples and single person counselling on the subject of sex. Tantra is a life-changing practice, backed by brain science in its ability to calm the nervous system. Jeremie is overwhelmed by a memory of tantric practice, and Bryde digs deep to find out more about energy centres expanding and contracting. Also, do you know when someone is subtly trying to connect with you with their penis?  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

B+J finally get to reconnect after a long month of Bryde trying to stay sexy in the Mexican wilderness while Jeremie's life is in shambles up in the frozen wet tundra of Halifax. We throw it back to our chat with the hosts of Private Parks Unknown, Courtney and Sofiya, to finish off the best foursome we've had in recent years. They talk about the marriage contract and the poly contract, and the references available for the poly curious, including "Sex at Dawn", Christopher Ryan; "Ethical Slut", Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy; and "More Than Two", Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. Check out Private Parts Unknown on Apple Podcasts and be sure to leave them a rave review! We love these gals and you will too! Support us on Patreon:   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The hosts of Private Parks Unknown, Courtney and Sofiya, met up with Jeremie and Bryde in LA for what turned out to be a big talk about the polyamory journey of the Turn Me On hosts. they talk about the marriage contract and the poly contract, and the references available for the poly curious, including "Sex at Dawn", Christopher Ryan; "Ethical Slut", Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy; and "More Than Two", Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. The conversation also picks apart the differences in approaches to sex around the world, and discuss Courtney and Sofiya's upcoming trip to Tokyo. Support us on Patreon:  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Nicoletta Heidegger MA, MEd, LMFT, has been a sex educator since she was a kid. Now she's a licensed marriage and family therapist and is working on a dissertation on non-offending minor-attracted persons. Bryde and Jeremie pick her brain about the nuances of the female sexual experience and the orgasm gap. Unofficial just the tips recommendation from Nicoletta: "Becoming Cliterate" by Laurie Mintz. Other references include the true stories of folks having relations with dolphins. For more, check out "Wet Goddess" as well as the story of Margaret Howe Lovatt. **This episode includes subject matter that may be triggering for some, including pedophilia and beastiality.**  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The hosts chat with Annabelle about a year of celibacy, finding one's way through life following their curiosity, and how art featuring a woman's body can be too easily dismissed as a "thirst trap". Annabelle shares a story of shaming from health care providers and the cutest acronym for incredible discomfort (PID). Jeremie applies for the celebrity dating app Raya and Bryde loves the pursuit of full self-expression. Check out Annabelle - @annabelleblythe  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jeremie and Bryde reunite in LA while Bryde's on a multi-month road trip with her boyfriend. They talk about Kaylen Ward's fundraising efforts for the fires in Australia, Jason Derulo's anaconda photo and ponder libido and LAD for couples in response to a brain boner. Just the tips include Netflix's "Sex, Explained" and "The Name of the Wind" by Patrick Rothfuss. Other honorable mentions include the New York Times article by Alex Williams, "How LSD Saved One Woman's Marriage"; Nicole Hodges' "I Love You, Let's Trip Together" in Double Blind Magazine; and David Deida's "The Way of The Superior Man".  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A three years celibate listener wants to know how to approach getting sexual satisfaction within her long term a-sexual partnership. The hosts chat with Jake of Jake and Jen about mingling with a Jack and Jill at a swingers club in Madrid. Being a rural living swinger has its romantic perks, such as avoiding potential new roommate conversations and keeping the excitement alive for swinger getaways. Together 11 years, Jake and Jen are a young hot couple living "the lifestyle". Just the tips include Blood Rage and leaps of faith.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

THEY ARE BACK! The hosts ring in the new decade by tackling a brain boner about BBW and Gainer fantasies as a make or break of a potential new relationship. Bryde talks THINX and KNIX for period proofing her road trip, and they compare notes about things coming out of your butt while you’re sleeping.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What are the verbs of love that you are best at and what could you work on? Bryde is on an Esther Perel kick (what else is new?) and investigates her own Intimacy Inventory. Just the tips include some good ol' Swedish Death Cleaning and 'Ready or Not'. Guest Laura Kenndey talks to Jeremie and Bryde about her job as a coach for women who are looking for a romantic partner. Laura talks about the 10 principals she uses to help women get aligned with their highest self. If you like what you hear in this episode and want Laura's personalized support to help you consciously create the love life of your dreams, go ahead and book a FREE Soulmate Attraction Breakthrough Planning Session with her here:   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The hosts demonstrate the taking of their own advice for hard conversations. Does everyone hate Christmas? Bryde tantalizes listeners with her tween diary. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Evan about new relationship energy, alcohol-induced arguments, writing letters as a way to communicate tough feelings, grandmothers, and a Picasso painting. ____________ This episode is brought to you by Sheertex, makers of the world’s strongest pantyhose - they are ready for anything ;) New customers get $10 OFF when you visit: Use Promo Code: TURNMEON10 *One time use only. No expiry date.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jeremie feels that this episode is a slow burn; Bryde thinks it has some nice full circles. They tackle a brain boner about unrequited love and Bryde discusses her renewed appreciation for erotic literature. Just the tips: Beaver Butt Flavoured Bubbly Water and How to Finish What Matters. ____ This episode is brought to you by Sheertex, makers of the world’s strongest pantyhose - they are ready for anything ;) New customers get $10 OFF when you visit: Use Promo Code: TURNMEON10 *One time use only. No expiry date.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

A vocabular treat, there are many new terms in this episode. Spaghetti Western, Risk Profile, engaged bottoming…The hosts answer a brain boner about scheduling sex and just the tips include “I Think You Should Leave”, and helloclue.com. Guest Soushka talks about serial monogamy, sensation play, and shopping for pervertibles at “Domarama”.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Both of Jeremie’s partners are moving away. A listener has a complicated brain boner about polyamory, an emotional affair, and a cancer diagnosis. Some solid “Just the Tips” - Oral Hygiene and a daily dose of Scotch.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

It’s good for everyone to know that soaps and hair removal aren’t good for the Vs. That’s vulva AND vagina. And q-tips and bobby pins aren’t great for the Es! (Ears). Bryde and Jeremie chat with Diana, a masters student in gender and social justice who’s fulfilled the all-time hit fantasy, sleeping with one’s hot professor. The conversation drifts from role-playing to restorative justice in an all-round cheerful chat.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

They’re back baby. After a two-week hospital stay, a feature film, and Hallowe’en are all over and done with, the hosts are back in their living room together. They talk about ear sex and gut trusting. Jeremie and Bryde talk to Sarah Crawford, the super cool Sexual Violence Prevention & Harm Reduction Coordinator at Algonquin college, about sexting, porn, and the value of candid conversations about the sex we’re having.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

B+J are still provinces apart, but this weeks episode is from tight quarters in Montreal. Preparing for an anniversary celebration of the hosts yoga community, they reunite with friend and mentor Frank Jude Boccio, a Zen Buddhist and mindfulness teacher who is new to polyamory.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Bryde is forlorn without Jeremie, recording in solitude in the soft glow of a Casper Glow lamp. From healthier days, Jeremie and Bryde have a conversation with “C” about life-changing sex, flawless skin, and upside-down Spiderman blowjobs.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jeremie and Bryde interview DeAnne Smith at Just for Laughs in Toronto (JFL42) about being single for the first time, dating couples, and not indulging in sex with crushes. The three tackle a brain boner from a listener about satisfying urge outside the marriage. DeAnne’s dog entertains the audience. US listeners! We've been using Foria's Awaken Natural Arousal Oil - wanna try? Use our promo code TURNMEON to get 15% OFF on the Foria Wellness website: .   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.