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Casey Donatello knows a thing or two about Hotwifing — She guides Jeremie and Bryde through her daring dance of consensual non-monogamy that's all about trust, respect, and, yes, a whole lot of love. From untangling the intricate differences between hotwifing, cuckolding, and stag and vixen play, to navigating the complexities of desires and boundaries, Casey lays it all bare. She doesn't just share the theory; she takes the hosts on her personal journey through the highs and lows, the challenges, and the triumphant moments of embracing her true desires. But it's not just about the thrills; it's a lesson in communication, flexibility, and breaking down the barriers of stigma and judgment. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this conversation is a deep dive into the emotional, intimate, and sometimes misunderstood world of non-monogamy.Episode Takeaways: Hotwifing is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a wife is allowed to have sex with other partners with the knowledge and approval

Kristal DeSantis is a Texas Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, a Clinically Certified Trauma Professional, a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional, and a State of Texas approved Premarital Education Provider. She is the creator of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Kristal about the work of modern masculinity that she breaks down in her book "Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man". Bryde and Jeremie chat with Krista about her experience growing up in Japan and learning to date in college in the US, the 3 Ps of masculinity that are inhabited by men across cultures and generations, and building strength in the relational gym. You can find more on Krista's work at strong love.com, and follow Krista on socials @atxtherapist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sophie Rhyder is a 20-year-old Romanian cam model who caters to mainly British and American members of the live-streaming service LiveJasmin. Sophie talks to Bryde and Jeremie about working independently versus working for a studio, the start-up costs of launching a modeling career, the 24-hour reality of working on an international schedule, and playing multiple roles - sometimes with detailed, scripted scenes. You can find Sophie at https://m.livejasmin.com/en/SophieRhyder , or on instagram @sophierhyder. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Catherine Hiller is an award-winning author whose work has been challenging social norms for decades. Her new book, "Cybil Unbound" (2023) is a novel about the sexual adventures of a freethinking and risk-taking older woman. Social history and autobiographical fiction are woven together in a novel that spans decades in the life of a woman who was a child of the 1950s. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Catherine about the cultural shifts in sexual perception over the past 70 decades, and why untraditional romantic needs of middle-aged/ older women are ignored in novels and her sons.Find more about Catherine at catherinehiller.net and sign up for her Substack, "The Pleasure Principle: Savoring Life After Fifty" at catherinehiller.substack.com. Her Wikipedia page is en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Hiller Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Madam Bella Cummins has reigned in the small city of Wells, Nevada, USA for 37 years - the longest-standing Madam in rural Nevada's legal brothels, and is a mentor to women seeking to evolve naturally in the courtesan industry, as well as an advocate for licensed establishments and workers in the industry. Bella's Hacienda Ranch sits in a town of just over 1,200 people that sees thousands of travelers every day at the intersection of Route 93 and Interstate 80 in Nevada. The hosts chat with Bella about how language and labels affect how we perceive professionalism and quality service, the importance of the destination as part of the draw, and how Nevada's legal brothel blueprints could help other small communities prosper from the destigmatization of sex work. Find the ranch at https://bellas.us/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Yuval Mann is a teacher and founder of "Sensual Alchemy School of Integrated Sexuality". He leads programs for individuals and couples that help them become masterful lovers. The hosts chat with Yuval about erotic aliveness, contact dance, and the illusion of separation of the individual. You can find out more about Yuval through his website YuvalMan.com, and through all social links as Yuval Mann. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Susan Kaye is a sexologist and sexuality educator who began her career as a researcher and surrogate with Masters and Johnson in the 1960s. Following the suppression of sexual research triggered by the AIDS epidemic in the 80s, Dr. Kaye re-emerged and reinvented the role of the surrogate in a therapeutic relationship. The hosts chat with Dr. Kaye about what the prerequisites and training look like for surrogates today, and the book she wrote based on the stories and experiences of her clients, "Am I Normal If?". You can find more on Dr. Kaye at drsusankaye.com, or reach out directly to drsusankaye@gmail.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The hosts chat with Bobbi Bidochka, a fervent advocate for the inseparable connection between Love, Sex, and Power in the business world. Bobbi's mission is to challenge societal taboos and pave the way for a sex-friendly world, one conversation at a time. In this captivating conversation, they delve into the art of flirtation in the workplace and the significance of sexual intelligence. Bobbi shares insights on how harnessing your sexual energy can boost your daily performance, both personally and professionally. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“Vagipreneur", Pamala Madsen, is a courageous advocate for women’s health and believes in a whole-body healing approach. A former fertility advocate who was outed for her erotic blogging has since been running retreats, portals, circles, and coaching for women who are pursuing wellness through somatic and sexological bodywork. The hosts chat with Pamela about how a pussy is like a Chinese Puzzle, what it’s like to be in the Back to the Body immersions, and the ripe fruits of sensuality. Check out Pamela’s work at https://pamelamadsen.squarespace.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Emma Barry is a teacher and novelist with a true lover's perspective on contemporary romance. The hosts chat with Emma Barry about how her interests inspire her stories, "too muchness", and why love is a risk. For rom-com readers everywhere, "Chick Magnet", a clever romance about a hot veterinarian and a chicken-loving influencer who can’t help but ruffle each other’s feathers, is available now. Find Emma's work here: authoremmabarry.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the hosts are joined by Court Vox! As a certified sex and intimacy coach, Court brings a wealth of knowledge and a passion for helping individuals explore their sexual desires and enhance their intimate connections. With his gentle yet exciting coaching style, Court dives deep into topics like sexual empowerment, communication, and sexual exploration. The gang dive into voice and somatics, partner surrogacy and the power of explicit acts of love and devotion. To find Court’s offerings, go to https://thebodyvox.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Amber Hull is a private practice pediatrician by day, and women’s pleasure advocate after dark. Based in Las Vegas, Dr. Hull is a board-certified pediatrician with extensive training in Women’s Health, Maternal-Fetal Medicine and Newborn Intensive Care. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jeremie and Bryde chat with Dr. Harper about the number one concern about sex expressed to her by her patients and a surprising behavioural health tool that can be used as a science-backed intervention, and they cover the Rosy app and what is unique about its approach to sexual health. Tune in to hear about HSDD and its significance to our mental and sexual well-being.For more information check out: https://meetrosy.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alison Rey is a multi-award-winning adult performer and model who has been working in the industry for a decade. The hosts chat with Alison about the many hats she wears including producer, director, and production manager in the adult film industry, current publicity stunts unfolding on the internet these days, and what it's like to date colleagues versus dating "civilians". To find out what else Alison is up to, check out her website, alisonreyfans.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Gem Kocher is a non-binary queer feminist coach and pro domme who was formerly a full-spectrum doula. They are passionate about reproductive justice and sex work and the hosts got to chat with them about normalizing straight, monogamous couples booking an escort, and sex and intimacy after childbirth. There are many gems in the conversation. You can find them on Kaufmich.com at Goddxss_Gem or book coaching with them at rainbowdoulaberlin.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rosie Kay is a swinging lifestyle coach based in the UK, though she serves clients all over the world. The hosts chat with Rosie about her own path through debilitating jealousy, and the experience and expertise she offers her clients who want to dip their toes into the pleasurable waters of "the lifestyle". You can connect with Rose here: thiskindagirl.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Anna and Gregor host the fetish and kink podcast, "Spank U, Next" and also work for fetish.com, the kink-positive BDSM community for fetish dating. The hosts chat with these Barcelonion-based kinksters about their take on creating a safe, online dating platform, what got them into the work they do, and things that challenge them in the world they work in. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Chad Braverman is the COO and CCO, as well as the self-acknowleged "Nepo Baby" of Doc Johnson, the world’s largest and most influential adult pleasure product company. The New York Times called them "the first family of sex toys" and Chad shares his dad's story of success in the industry and what it was like growing up and putting the puzzle pieces together to eventually learn the truth of the empire he chose to inherit. The hosts chat with Chad about the manufacturing facility he operates, the importance of community and relationships in the sex toy industry, and the artistry behind creating casts of celebrity genitals. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Brenna McKenna is an exotic dancer and adult performer in Philadelphia. From her churchgoing, softball-playing childhood to putting herself through college by stripping, Brenna is a uniquely charming and authentic human being. The hosts chat with Brenna about her upbringing, boundaries, intuition, family, and more. Folks, you will absolutely fall for this generous, lovely woman. Enjoy! Connect with Brenna McKenna on Twitter and IG: @BrennvMcKennv and her backup IG: @xbrennamckennax Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Tara is one of the internet's favourite sex educators. On TikTok, she dishes sex and relationship advice to over 2 million followers and has a refreshing, fun approach to getting her research into the ears, minds, hearts, and other erogenous zones of folks who need it. The hosts chat with Dr. Tara about Thai cultural views on sexuality, the reciprocity rule, and how to be a Riz God. Bryde learns a new word! Check out more of Dr. Tara's offerings at luvbites.co Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.