Turn Me On

Yana is a couples & relationships therapist and consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education which she delivers through her writing, workshops, therapy and online coaching. The hosts chat with Yana about “attachment style” and “autonomous change” and her upcoming book "Hot and Unbothered" which offers readers a roadmap of working through stumbling blocks and fulfilling sexual desires. You can find more information on Yana's work and pre-order her book here: yanatallonhicks.com. Follow Yana on Instagram @the_vspot.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this aftercare segment of today's show over at patreon.com/turnmeon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Jill Doctoroff is the Executive Director of the National Abortion Federation (NAF) Canada. The bulk of Jill’s career has been in the nonprofit sector focusing on sexual and reproductive health and rights. The hosts get a brief history of abortion rights in Canada and some thoughts on how and why the events unfolding in the US may affect Canadians. Please look to the NAF (https://prochoice.org/) for more information about obtaining an abortion, and the ARC (https://www.arcc-cdac.ca/) to get involved in advocacy.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week the hosts chat about Jeremie's brush with Covid, a little bit of abortion talk, and a Vice article called, "How to Tell if The Way You and Your Partner Fight Is Actually Not OK". (https://www.vice.com/en/article/akg7vg/how-to-have-healthy-fights-arguments-relationships)Stay tuned for news about a live Ottawa Show on June 8th!Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

An old-school Turn Me On episode. The hosts chat with K, the daughter of a porn store owner and serial monogamist. K spent her elementary school years defending her dad to bratty neighborhood kids, but a life-changing event at 12-years-old gave K a whole bunch of relationship baggage to sort out through her teens and beyond. Jeremie and Bryde chat about UTIs, onanism, and anaphrodisiacs. Just the Tips include the oscar-winning film, "CODA" and checking the expiry date on your lube.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The host's chat about full-frontal nudity in entertainment, and the trend of penis prosthetics, or "costumes". Referenced articles include "​​How prosthetic penises in shows like HBO’s ‘Minx’ reinforce existing stereotypes and taboos" from the conversation.com and "How the Sausage Gets Made: Inside Hollywood's Prosthetic Penis Craze" from thrillist.com. Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Cheyenne Sapphire is a visionary artist, dancer, poet, and guide. Jeremie and Bryde chat with Cheyenne about tantra, sensuality, and the void. www.cheyennesapphire.comThe hosts chat about feeling good, astrology, and Jeremie's new fetish. Just the Tips: "Everything Everywhere All At Once".Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Nischa Heron Phair is an author, researcher, trauma-informed sex educator, and the founder of SomaBody Trauma-Informed Pleasure Work. Her recent book, "Fawn" is the main topic of conversation in today's episode. Jeremie and Bryde talk to Nischa about fawning in contrast to people-pleasing. What purpose does fawning serve and how does it complicate consent? Find more of Nischa at nischaphair.com. The hosts reflect on Jeremie's new glow, underwear rodents, and how long is the average make fuk.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Nita Marie is a top-earning model on OnlyFans, who sees no reason to keep God out of the bedroom. Back in 2017, Nita Marie went through a difficult divorce and vowed to reclaim love for her body and sexuality. This is where her online modeling journey began and now four years later she is reaching millions by spreading the message of Jesus through her body. The legitimate accounts for all her socials can be found at her website: https://nitamilfmarie.com/contact-nita/Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dr. Amelia Kelley, PhD, MS, LCMHC, ATR, RYT, is a trauma-informed therapist with a Doctorate of Philosophy in Psychology, along with a Masters in Art Therapy. She is a trained Hypnotherapist, Art therapist, HSP therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. Her recent book, "What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship", co-written by Kendall Ann Combs, is a fascinating conversation between survivor and therapist about toxic relationships. The hosts chat with Dr. Kelley about red flags, trauma, love bombing, and more. Learn more about Dr. Kelley's work and clinic at http://www.kelley-counseling.com/Jeremie and Bryde take the HSP test together and assign some feminist horror movie homework to the listeners. Check out "Fresh"!Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this epsiode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Morgan Richard is a sex and relationship researcher at the Sex Meets Relationship Research Laboratory based in New Brunswick. The hosts chat with Morgan about her research into sexual harassment and particularly as it shows up between massage therapists and their clients. Jeremie and Bryde chat about bad dreams and whether or not they'd speak up if they knew a friend was cheating on their partner.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dr. Zhana Vrangalova is an NYC-based sex researcher, speaker, writer, and consultant. She has a PhD in Developmental Psychology and studied how different aspects of sexuality are linked to health and well-being.She teaches several Human Sexuality courses at NYU. Jeremie and Bryde spoke with Dr. Zhana about her journey as a sexually curious teenager in Macedonia to identifying as a life-long non-monogamous grown-up with a career in sex education. Om today's aftercare session, the hosts chat about dolphin genitalia and The Big Sex Talk. If you want to join into Dr. Zhana's free conversations about non-monogamy, every third Wednesday of the month you can book a spot here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/open-smarter-social-tickets-158469222711Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week the hosts chat with Brie Nightwood. Brie began her journey as an entrepreneur at a young age, coding and selling software at just 12 years old. She excelled in the tech world and ran a variety of online businesses before creating a thriving OnlyFans page. Brie shares her thoughts on how to start and maintain a successful OnlyFans page. Jeremie wonders whether he should start an OnlyFans page, and the hosts explore voyeurism as sexual deviance. Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Sara Gibson is a birth enthusiast and midwifery student. The hosts chat with Sara about orgasmic birth and birth outside of the status quo. Jeremie and Bryde chat about break-ups and sex with one woman, two vaginas. You can check out the article, "The Challenges of Breastfeeding as a Black Person" on the ACLU website, or use this link: shorturl.at/bzDKQ. Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Aussie escort Georgie Wolf shares the secrets to finding the right people, having amazing sex, and making the world a better place. Check out Georgie's work at satisfactionproject.com and artofthehookup.com. Jeremie reads some listener mail about an experience with AI and CNC - consensual non-consent. Bryde reads an opinion piece "Couples who sleep apart, stay together: In praise of separate beds". Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week the hosts chat with Dr. Tammy Nelson. Tammy Nelson is a sex and relationship expert, an international speaker, an author, and a licensed psychotherapist with almost thirty years of experience working with individuals and couples. She is the Director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and is the host of the podcast "The Trouble with Sex". Her most recent book, "Open Monogamy", is a practical guide for people who wish to explore new directions in their relationships. The hosts chat with Tammy about "wake up or break up" events, the monogamy gap and playing the "what if" game to open up conversations in relationships.The hosts chat answer some of the questions the book poses, and debate whether Bryde's bathing habits are a problem.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this episode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Taylor Sparks is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess and founder of OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned organic online intimacy shops. Taylor is certified in both human behavior and holistic aromatherapy with 15 years as a corporate trainer, 20 years in the organic/natural skincare industry, two adult children, a 25-year marriage that was both monogamous/ethical non-monogamous (12/13 years respectively). She hosts her own podcast: Sisters of Sexuality-Five Shades of Play, which discusses all things sexuality, sexual health, kink, relationships, and the business of sex.The hosts chat about ABF, or "Adult Breastfeeding Fetishes", and spank bank accounts in overdraft.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode over on patreon.com/turnmeon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Bryde and Jeremie chat about the new frontier of Artificial Intelligence and take a trip to the beach with Jeremie's new online support person. This week is a conversation with veteran news anchor and reporter, Pat Taney who recently produced a documentary on non-traditional families in Canada. "Thoroughly Modern Families" premiers Sunday, January 30th at 9pmET. Follow up with more of what Pat's up to at toronto.citynews.ca/speakerscorner/Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode over on patreon.com/turnmeon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

This week's episode brings you the virtual live show that TMO gave for Ottawa's Algonquin College. Tess Devèze is a sexuality specialist whose expertise is working in intimacy & sexuality for people with cancer, chronic illness & disability. Tess spoke with Jeremie and Bryde about making consent sexy, particularly for folks exploring BDSM play.Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch this entire episode over on patreon.com/turnmeon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

The hosts catch up on their holidays and chat. Jeremie got an oculus headset and experienced VR porn for the first time. He feels weird about it. Bryde and Jeremie entertain the age-old question, "What if you found out we were cousins?"Check out our VIRTUAL LIVE show, Thursday, January 13th at 6pmET: https://www.crowdcast.io/e/turnmeon-2Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's aftercare! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dr. Ali Mushtaq is a sociologist and title-holding Leather Daddy. Ali is passionate about a socially inclusive form of BDSM education that is conscious about race and gendered equality and is the co-author of a soon-to-be-published book about Black women AIDS activists. The hosts chat with Ali about the "pageantry" of competing for Mr. Leather and what socially inclusive BDSM can look like. You can read all about Ali and check out some smokin' photos at gettingwolfie.com. Jeremie and Bryde chat about avoiding sleeping with your cousin in Iceland, AND their UPCOMING LIVE (VIRTUAL) SHOW - you can register to attend here: www.algonquinsa.com/event/turn-me-on-podcast-3/Have an incredible holiday season and we'll see you in 2022!Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: check out the video version of today's foreplay! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.