I Don't Get It

Christian Gonzalez is a naturopathic doctor who focuses on healing repressed emotions. He is the founder of Elm Health ( @elm.health, the host of the podcast Heal Thyself (@healthyself.drg), and the co-founder of The Swell Score (@theswellscore). He joins Naz, Lauren, and Ashley today to talk about the ways our repressed emotions can have profound physical effects on our health, why what we put into our bodies is so important, and how to make more informed decisions about the products we use every day. You can keep up with Doctor Gonzalez @doctor.gonzalez on Instagram and learn more at docgonzalez.comResources mentioned in the episode:Environmental Working GroupThe Swell ScoreGREENGUARD's Gold Certification processHere's a special, (limited time) deal for our listeners to get you started RIGHT NOW - get 55% off your Babbel subscription - but only for our listeners - at Babbel.com/GETIT.Make your brain your friend, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/GETIT today to get 10% off your first month.Stop wasting m

It’s an I Don’t Get It history lesson this week as we look at the origins of the United States lottery, recap what we learned about the gruesome tale of Lizzie Borden when Ashley and Naz surprised Lauren with a trip to the house where the infamous murders took place, and try to uncover the mysterious origins of that cool S kids have been drawing on their binders and notebooks since time immemorial. Plus, we traveled this week, so of course we’ve got some Airplane I Don’t Get Its. Last, but not least, we’re sharing our thoughts on The Golden Bachelor as well as the new David Beckham documentary. Find your forever pieces at jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code GETIT15 at checkout. Upgrade to better Natural Solutions from NextEvo Naturals. Go to NextEvo.com and use promo code GETIT to get 25% off.What don’t you get? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram at @idontgetitpodcast or by joining us over in our private Facebook group!And don’t forget you can w

We’re taking a trip down memory lane and revisiting old crushes, lunch habits, and Ashley’s very prestigious job as a peer mediator. Ashley doesn’t get dressing up in random costumes, and Naz isn’t sure if she gets putting your kid on a leash. Ashley talks about staying home alone and murder-er proofing her house, and of course we weigh in on the whole Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce situation. What do you think? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram at @idontgetitpodcast or by joining us over in our private Facebook group!And don’t forget you can watch the ad-free video version of I Don’t Get It on Patreon at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code GETIT30 at lumepodcast.com! #lumepodRight now, Hatch is offering our listeners $20 off your purchase of a Hatch Restore 2 and free shipping at hatch.co/getit.Get 20% OFF @honeylove by going to honeylove.com/getit! #honeylovepodIf you’re look

It’s a Rrrrrarramble. Ashley came prepared this week with a list of I Don’t Get Its she’s throwing at Lauren and Naz. We’re talking men who say they prefer women who look “natural,” sitting in traffic, calories on menus, automatic toilets, crooked bumper stickers, and tons more. What do you think? Let us know by sending us a message on Instagram at @idontgetitpodcast or by joining us over in our private Facebook group!And don’t forget you can watch the ad-free video version of I Don’t Get It on Patreon at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastStop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/getit.Find your forever pieces at jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code GETIT15 at checkout. Let getting dressed be one less thing to worry about.Visit Carawayhome.com/GETIT to take advantage of this limited-time offer for 10% off your next purchase. This deal is exclusive for our listeners, so vis

We’re rambling! Here’s what we do get: the fact that getting a pretzel at the mall will always be an elite experience. Here’s what only some of us get: adults making big deals out of their birthdays. We’re revisiting polite texting. Ashley thinks “Thank you” sounds more sincere over text than “thanks.” We talk about Gen Z’s loss of the exclamation mark and why it reflects their more direct attitude. Naz checks in with Lauren and Ashley about the results of their enneagram. And of course our resident *N Sync Expert, Ashley, weighs in on all the reunion rumors. Plus we give our final thoughts on season two of And Just Like That... Watch the ad-free video version of I Don’t Get It over on Patreon!Here's a special, (limited time) deal for our listeners to get you started RIGHT NOW - get 55% off your Babbel subscription - but only for our listeners - at Babbel.com/GETIT.Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com/getit. Cinched, snatched, and lifted - it’s hot gir

Classic Ramble vibes this week! Lauren kicks things off by sharing a theory she recently learned about the adored and the adorer in relationships. We try to decide which one we think we each prefer to be in our relationships, but it’s not as easy as it seems at first. We also talk about the way a person’s voice can make or break how we feel about them, and we react to some saved voice messages. Lauren tells us why she loves Kylie and Timothée Chalamet as a couple. Naz tells us about attending the U.S. Open and her recent Esalen retreat where she learned all about her Enneagram number. We’re going to talk a lot more about that next week. You can take the same test Naz took to find out your number here.Watch the ad-free video version of I Don’t Get It over on Patreon!Find your forever pieces at jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code GETIT15 at checkout. Visit Carawayhome.com/GETIT to take advantage of this limited-time offer for 10% off your next purchase. This deal is excl

Ashley and Lauren asked for your craziest cheating stories, and you delivered. This week, we talk with five listeners who wanted to share their stories of how they found out they were being cheated on. From the totally ridiculous, to the truly heartbreaking, thanks so much to those of you who were willing to share your stories with us. We're rooting for all of you to find all the love and happiness you deserve!You can watch this, and all of our episodes, as ad-free videos on patreon.Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com/getit. Use our exclusive link to get 20% off honeylove.com/getit. Cinched, snatched, and lifted - it’s hot girl season thanks to Honeylove.I Don’t Get It is sponsored by Better Help. Make your brain your friend, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/GETIT today to get 10% off your first month.Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to Ro

Lauren, Ashley, and Naz are back with a classic ramble. Are you Safari or Chrome loyal? Ashley thinks Chrome is intimidating, but Naz thinks Safari is basically a dinosaur. How do we even get these associations? Ashley fills us in on officiating her friend’s wedding. Everyone talks about whether or not it’s time to stop dressing young. None of us get why some people don’t take dinnertime seriously enough. Naz doesn’t get why we don’t just admit the massage chair at the nail salon is NOT relaxing. And the Producer Andrea chimes in with a work-related I Don’t Get It, and we’re really divided on what we do and don’t get about it.Don't miss our ad-free video version over at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastControl Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get $5 off off your Starter Pack (that’s over 40% off) with promo code GETIT30 at lumedeodorant.com! #lumepodFind your forever pieces at jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code GETIT15 at checkout. Blissy silk pillowcases a

This week is packed with good stuff. Ashley kicks things off by springing a surprise taste-test on Lauren and Naz. Burger King has released their version of our beloved McDonald’s Snack Wrap, and Ashley’s trying all three versions on mic for everyone. We also break down all of the recent *N Sync rumors. Then, based on a conversation from a few weeks back about Naz’s new Invisalign and the fact that it seems like suddenly every millennial has them, Naz invited her new friend, the incredibly smart and so informative, Dr. Ingrid Murra, on the podcast to tell us everything about orthodontics and why you probably shouldn’t be getting your Invisalign from a dentist who isn't working with an orthodontist. To learn more about Dr. Murra’s organization, Two Front, and how they’re working to connect people with safe, expert orthodontist-led Invisalign treatment, check out MyTwoFront.comIf you’re not part of our Patreon, this week is a really great time to join. Patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastHere's a special, (limited tim

Recently, Ashley had a conversation with a fellow new-ish mom that made her realize lots of women out there don’t have the full story when it comes to childbirth and epidurals. When she asked you guys, it turned out that so many of you have really great, thoughtful questions about how epidurals work, possible complications, why they might fail, and how a pregnant woman can best advocate for herself when it comes to epidurals and childbirth. Luckily, we know someone who can help answer all of these questions and more: long-time anesthesiologist, Dr. Iaconetti (AKA, Lauren and Ashley’s dad). Of course, this episode isn’t meant to convince you whether or not you should or shouldn’t get an epidural when it comes to your own labor and delivery. We just know there are so many questions out there, and we want to share what we’ve learned with you!I Don’t Get It is sponsored by Better Help. Let therapy be your map, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/GETIT today to get 10% off your first month.I Don’t Get It is spon

This week, Lauren, Ashley, and Naz were so happy to get to talk with the hilarious comedian and podcaster, Jared Freid. His new stand-up special 37 & Single debuts tomorrow, August 15th, on Netflix. It’s truly so funny and perfect for anyone in their 30s, whether you’re currently dating or just remember what a nightmare it was. Jared joins us to talk about the special, his relationship with his mom and dad, eating free food, being on set with Jared and Ashley, and tons more. Jared was such a funny, thoughtful guest, and we can’t wait for you to hear this one!Keep up with Jared here. Don’t miss 37 & Single.Visit Carawayhome.com/GETIT to get 10% off during their Summer Refresh Event. Certain exclusions applyFind your forever pieces at jennikayne.com. Our listeners get 15% off your first order when you use code GETIT at checkout. Blissy silk pillowcases are the best silk pillowcases on the market! They have a ton of different prints and colors and they make great gifts because there's an option for

Lauren kicks us off this week. We talk about the fine line between being sentimental and being a hoarder. We also talk about the desirability of certain nostril sizes, and we learn something shocking about nose-picking. And Naz checks in with our friends in outer-space. We also do a deep dive into our feelings on this season of And Just Like That…If you’re looking for a simpler, effective investment for your health, try AG1, and get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase. Go to drinkAG1.com/GETIT. That’s drinkAG1.com/GETIT. Check it out.Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% off at honeylove.com/getit.Visit Carawayhome.com/GETIT to get 10% off during their Summer Refresh Event. Certain exclusions apply. That’s Carawayhome.com/GETIT or use code GETIT at checkout. Caraway. Non-Toxic cookware made Modern.As a special offer for listeners, new customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack with code GETIT30 at LumeDeodorant.com. That equates to ove

This ramble starts serious and ends on a light note. We talk about those days where you just need to have a good cry, even if, sometimes, it’s over something silly (like Ashley’s smiley toes in middle school). Lauren talks about how hard it is to want to be a social person when you’re just so drained from living day-to-day and how all of that is made even worse with social anxiety. Then, Lauren gives us a lesson on the word nihilism. Naz suggests she and Ashley and Lauren go on a girls’ trip somewhere exciting to break things up, but it’s gotta be near a hospital for Lauren’s peace of mind, so maybe some kind of alligator-based adventure with Naz’s dad in Florida?Naz recaps her trip to Comic-Con. Thank you SO MUCH to all of our listeners who stopped by to say hi! We’re going to plan a live show soon, so we can meet as many of you as possible! We talk about how hard it is to follow instructions and why we would be so terrible in an escape room (which means we should definitely do one together). Naz d

It’s a rrrraaaaaamble! How many of you who have had dental work followed all the rules? Were you wearing your rubber bands in middle school? Do you keep your trays in all day like they tell you? Let’s be real, what percentage of people who have dental trays actually need them and what percentage just got talked into them by their money-grubbing dentist? We talk a lot about dental work in this one. We obviously aren't sponsored by Invisalign!After all the tooth talk, your hosts take you back to school. Ashley gives a geography lesson about when globes were invented, and Lauren gives a history lesson on the Oklahoma panhandle. We don’t get why it’s so hard to let silence happen in a conversation or why no one else gets that sometimes we just need someone to make a decision for us!Ashley gives us a little behind-the-scenes info on her time in the Australian Outback for Stars on Mars, which you can watch on Fox or Hulu now.Here’s the article Producer Andrea read from to back up Lauren’s lesson about Oklahoma

We’re back with a ramble! This week, Lauren, Ashley, and Naz are catching up after a few ramble-less weeks. Naz doesn’t get giving your wife a joke gift for Christmas or hanging onto every gift you’ve ever been given. None of us get why someone hasn’t made the perfect towel (maybe we’ll have to get on that). Ashley gives everyone a lesson in how to speak true “Rhode Island,” and tells us the incredible story of how she and Jared met Tom Cruise (twice!) covering the new Mission Impossible and what makes him the best in the business. Naz also shares her experience covering Barbie and interviewing Ryan Gosling and Margot Robbie.Don't forget you can watch the ad-free video version of our podcast at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastBlissy silk pillowcases are the best silk pillowcases on the market! Try now risk-free for 60 nights, at Blissy.com/GETIT and get an additional 30% off.If you’re looking for a simpler, effective investment for your health, try AG1, and get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of

This week, we are so lucky and honored to have teacher, soul coach, and spirit medium Sandy Alemian with us. We also have a very special guest, Ashley’s friend Holden, who has always wanted to meet with a medium in hopes of connecting with his mother who passed 15 years ago. Even if you consider yourself a skeptic when it comes to this kind of thing, we think you’ll love what Sandy has to say about grief and loss and love. It’s a beautiful episode, no matter what you believe.Sandy has a special offer for our listeners! Head to Sandy’s site and enter code ASHLEY for 50% off Sandy’s Journey to the Other Side course.Don't forget you can watch the ad-free video version of our podcast at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastLet therapy be your map, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/GETIT today to get 10% off your first month.Stop throwing your money away. Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/getit.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Califor

Amanda Bybel is a trainer and expert in neuro-linguistic programming, manifestation, and the subconscious mind. She is also an addict in recovery with over 10 years clean and sober and believes strongly in the power of the subconscious mind. Amanda joins Ashley and Naz this week to talk about everything from breaking generational patterns, to preventing toddler meltdowns, to how to stop energetically chasing someone (but still get them to text you back). We cover so much in this episode, and it was great to have Amanda here to shed some light on ways to shift our more ingrained habits and beliefs into intentional, productive ways of being. This episode is for all of our listeners who love when we talk about manifesting and the power of a positive mindset.Don't forget you can watch the ad-free video version of our podcast at patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastFollow Amanda Bybel:@innerbeautybybel / @mindset_with_minisIf you’re looking for a simpler, effective investment for your health, try AG1, and get 5 free

We’re rambling! Ashley doesn’t get how complicated laundry has become since she had a baby, but Lauren and Naz have news from the detergent pod front for her. We send Bed, Bath, & Beyond off with a proper eulogy, and Lauren dares anyone who pronounces it “CUE-pon” to come on the show and defend themself. Ashley doesn’t get why the cheaper airlines have to paint their planes like straight up discount tags, and Naz is reminded of her stint as a nail polish color creator. Lauren doesn’t get why men are so okay with just totally roasting each other, and Naz asks Lauren and Ashley what they think of the recent Beige Flag trend. Ashley tells a mortifying story about spilling an entire cup of coffee into Christine Taylor’s purse. Lauren and Naz really don’t get a lot of the latest TikTok trends. None of us get why it’s so hard to have real conversations at social functions. Ashley tells a heartbreaking story about some lost Jonas Brothers’ memorabilia. Naz gives us another update on Mission: Smile at Everyone an

This episode starts with something we’ve been threatening to do for a while now. We figured what better time than this close to Father's Day for Naz to prank her unsuspecting father. Does he believe Lauren’s claim of what got Naz in trouble? Does he disinherit Naz? You’ll have to listen to find out! After that, we get back to our regularly scheduled rambling. Ashley tells us all about the mean mom who refused to share her kid’s birthday cake with a new friend he made at the park, which leads to a discussion about public shaming on social media. Naz celebrates the millennial nostalgia of a good old fashioned limousine, and we break down the difference between bachelor and bachelorette parties. Naz updates us on her Smile Summer. Ashley finally finished the first season of Severance and gives us her review. We talk about the words people use during sex, and we really think we need a couple new ones. Of course, it wouldn't be a Ramble without some airplane talk, but we also debut a possible new segment: Stickler

Everyone brought their feelings with them to this episode. Do you find it easier to cry in the morning? Or are you the kind of person who can just let ‘em flow any time of the day? This one somehow turned into a medspa-heavy episode. This episode isn’t sponsored by any of the names we drop (other than our fantastic sponsors listed below), but Lauren, Naz, and Ashley share a bunch of their medspa experiences. Mostly Naz is just excited to have an excuse to use her new favorite word: décolleté. Ashley realizes a little too late that she completed her gold jewelry collection just in time for silver to be in. Is it just impossible to keep up these days? Lauren reminds us of some of those 90s fad cereal diets. We play a card game and do our best impressions of each other. Everyone shares their favorite romcoms, and Naz makes a case for the unfair portrayal of cool girls in high school movies.Don’t forget you can watch the ad-free video version of I Don’t Get It by heading over to Patreon.com/idontgetitpodcastTrue