Work On Your Game: Mental Toughness, Confidence & Discipline From A Professional Basketball Athlete

Today’s topic is about what you think other people think of you. I’m using the race conversation specifically the nonsense from race hustlers as the frame, but this really applies to everybody. These folks make money by telling black people that white people hate to see them succeed. But the crazy part is, these same race hustlers usually got their success working for the very people they claim are the problem. I’m breaking it all down and showing you why what others think about you especially when it’s based on lies is not your concern. Show Notes:  [04:47]#1 It's not your business what other people think of you.  [0813]#2 You cannot read nor police thoughts. [17:29]#3 What you think shows in your energy and your actions was projection onto others what you think of you.  [26:15]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1788:  Destroying "Antiracism" Next Steps: ---

Today I’m talking about why ambitious men should be monogamous. I know some other guys say different things, and that’s cool—but I see it another way. A lot of successful men mess up their careers by getting into drama with women. Most of the time, that doesn’t happen to men who are in a real, committed relationship. If you’re a man trying to do big things, being with one woman helps you stay focused. Show Notes:  [04:33]#1 Your five forms of investment - time, money, attention, energy and focus, all of those need to be going towards your purpose.  [14:02]#2  When you start achieving, you're going to start to draw attention that has nothing to do with your purpose. You will be tempted by them. A committed relationship can serve as a guardrail that keeps you focused. [32:33]#3  Rarely do you see a single man become mayor, governor, or president. Because a man who's on a pedestal with power is going to attract women. And that has nothing to do with what you are being hired to do. [39:24]Recap Episodes Me

In this episode, I’m talking about boss requirements—what it really takes to be in charge. A lot of people want to be their own boss these days, call their own shots, and set their own schedules. I get it, and there’s never been more opportunity to do that than right now. But before you start running a team or a business, you’ve got to know what it takes to lead—even if it’s just leading yourself. Whether you’re raising kids, running a company, or planning to fire your boss, this one’s for you. Show Notes:  [03:09]#1 Hold yourself to a higher account than anyone else holds you. [09:39]#2 Be willing to stand and walk alone.  [23:49]#3 Temporarily sacrifice security and exchange in exchange for freedom and autonomy. [26:12]Recap Next Steps: ---

People say you “rise to the occasion,” but that’s not really true. What actually happens is you fall to the level of your preparation. If you don't prepare, the moment will beat you. In this episode, I’m breaking down what that really means and how to make sure you're ready when the pressure hits. Show Notes:  [02:37]#1 Hallmark of a professional is that they are always prepared.  [08:44]#2 You battle test yourself.  [17:43]#3 Stoicism. [20:56]Recap Next Steps: ---

The biggest problem most people have is that you’re too slow. I’m not talking about being slower than other people. I’m saying you’re moving slower than you could be. You don’t know how much time you have left, so you gotta treat every day like it matters. In this episode, I’m breaking down why speed is everything and how you can start moving faster, right now. Show Notes:  [05:49]#1 You think slow.  [11:32]#2 You decide slowly. [15:33]#3 You are slow to take action. [20:00]Recap Next Steps: ---

We’re on part three of this series and we’re talking about the information war and why it’s never going to end. This is a fight you’ll be in for the rest of your life, like it or not. Let’s go. Show Notes:   [02:06]#7 We have no universal referee, at least not in the secular world.  [06:05]#8 Outrage is a business model.  [13:46]#9 Most people do not have the time nor the skill set to vet everything that they hear.  [18:06]#10 Narrative and Persuasion Beats Data and Information. [22:53]Recap Next Steps: ---

This is part two of my mini-series on why the information war will never end. And I mean never. In this episode, I break down why the fight for attention is always happening and what you need to know about it. Let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [01:55]#4 Everyone is a broadcaster.  [12:29]#5 Algorithms reward attention over substance. [18:26]#6 More than ever, facts are just filtered through personal beliefs. [21:48]Recap Next Steps: ---

We’re in a war right now not with soldiers or bombs, but with information. I’m talking about the information war, and it’s already happening all around us. Whether you watch the news, scroll social media, or post anything online, you’re part of it. In this episode, I explain what the information war is, how we got here, and why it’s never going to end. This is part one of a three-part series, so stay tuned. Show Notes:  [03:40]#1 Facts no longer matter.  [09:42]#2 Information moves faster than we can keep up, so the battle never ends. [17:03]#3 The so-called trusted sources have lost their credibility, so it makes sense not to trust them anymore. [27:46]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3276: The Real Battle In Our "Information War" 3257: Feelings Don't Care About Your Facts 3101: Facts Don't Matter Anymore Next Steps: ---

In today’s episode, I’m sharing the only two ways a man can make things happen in life. If you’re a man, listen up, and if you’re a woman, pass this on to the men in your life. I’m going to tell you why there are only two ways to reach your goals no matter where you are or what you want to achieve. This isn’t about over-complicating things; it’s about focusing on the two paths that actually matter. Let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [01:41]#1 Chase after everything you want and when you don't have it all yet, run faster.  [13:00]#2 Decide on your essentials.  [25:24]#3 If you can get yourself to this level of discipline and focus, the outcome of this win is 100 times more than the outcome of all the small wins added together. [30:02]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3261: The First 3 Laws Of Economics 1193: Focus: The Force Multiplier 2806: The Law Of Entropy 1661: You Might Have To Work 10 Times Harder! Next Steps: ---

People out here keep saying you can have it all. I’m telling you straight up—you can’t. I don’t care what you saw on Instagram or who told you otherwise. Nobody has everything, no matter how good it looks. In this episode, I’m breaking down why that idea is fake and what’s really real. Show Notes:  [03:34]#1 Third law of economics. [12:44]#2 Anything you see that looks like 'having it all' comes at a cost you just don’t see it, haven’t heard it, or aren’t willing to pay for it. [20:05]#3 Figure out what you want most and then decide what you're willing to give up to get it. [23:33]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3126: The OTHER Part Of The 80/20 Rule 3103: The 80/20 Rule, Applied To People 2180: The 80/20 Rule Applied To People & Ambition Pt. 1 2181: The 80/20 Rule Applied To People & Ambition Pt. 2 330: Putting the 80/20 Principle To Work 2500: Why You Should Be Happy When Someone Challenges Your Ideas 3012: Happiness Is NOT The Goal Next Steps: ---

In this episode, I’m telling you not to start a podcast. Yeah, I said it. These days, everybody’s trying to create content just because it looks easy or popular. But most people are doing it for the wrong reasons. I’m breaking down why you should think twice before jumping into podcasting or any kind of content creation just because everybody else is doing it. Show Notes:  [04:58]#1  You do not have something to say that you absolutely cannot not say. [11:28]#2 You are not ready to commit to the long game of building an audience and building trust within that audience. [22:05]#3 You do not have a clear angle nor a clear audience to deliver or to whom you will deliver a clear angle.  [27:21]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3203: Why Instagram "Ass Models" Exist Next Steps: ---

If you're serious about leveling up, not just looking the part, today’s episode is for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down Part 2 of our now-concluded mini-series on How To Be a High-Value Man. We’re not talking about theory. This is about practical, real-world value that you bring to the table, with or without the flash.Listen in. Show Notes:  [01:50]#1 Be useful to others.  [11:51]#2 Visibility and impact. [15:16]#3 Discipline, image and presentation. [24:29]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2183: Substance Is Self-Evident 1620: The Style And Substance Mix For Audience Building Next Steps: ---

In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to be a high value man. This idea was made popular by Kevin Samuels, a guy I came across a couple years ago when one of his videos went viral. Kevin had a straight-up, no-nonsense way of speaking that reminded me of how I talk and that pulled me in. He used to have deep conversations about dating and relationships, especially around the kind of man women say they want.  I’m breaking down the points he made about what makes a man high value, but explaining them in my own words. This is part one of a two-part series, and just so you know this isn’t a pick-and-choose thing. You need all the qualities if you want to be that guy. Show Notes:  [08:14]#1 Income earned consistently. [11:51]#2 Recognized by other high value men.  [18:55]#3 You have a network of other high value men. [22:54]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3282: Why The "Red Pill" Movement Is GREAT For Society 2513: Why To NOT Be A "Lone Wolf" 2484: The Power Of The Dream 100: The Understandin

In this episode, I talk about a conversation I saw on X (formerly Twitter) where some business owners said their companies took a big hit after tariffs went into effect during the Trump administration. While that’s a real situation, this episode isn’t about tariffs. I’m not here to talk about news. I leave that for my live streams every weekday at 8am Eastern. What I’m really breaking down today is the mindset behind how people react when things go wrong. The main point: blaming others should never be part of your approach. Show Notes:  [04:26]#1 When you are a leader, you don't have the luxury of blaming anyone for anything. [09:16]#2 Everything that happens is your responsibility, even if it's not your fault.  [15:26]#3 The opportunity is always in opposites in life.  [18:07]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2174: There Are No Perfect Scenarios – Only Trade-Offs 3261: The First 3 Laws Of Economics 1343: How To "Solve The Problems" And Add Value 2889: Entrepreneurs: You Are In The Problem Business 2726:

In today’s episode, I’m talking about some important things school never taught us, stuff everybody needs to know in real life. This isn’t about hating on teachers, it’s about the system itself and what it chooses to leave out on purpose. I’ll break down what those things are and why they matter so much. And if you feel like I’m calling you out personally, that’s on you, not me. Show Notes:  [04:03]#1 Entrepreneurship. [11:22]#2 Sales [17:15]#3 Personal finance.  [22:54]Recap Next Steps: ---

In this episode, I’m talking about how to survive when the economy takes a hit. Every time a new president gets elected, people blame them for everything going wrong especially if they didn’t vote for them. But here’s the truth: if things go bad, they go bad for all of us, no matter who you voted for. So instead of wasting time blaming, focus on what you can do. I’ll show you how to handle a downturn and even find ways to win during it. Show Notes:  [02:53]#1 Be essential and necessary to a target audience.  [09:35]#2 Know how to market and sell yourself and your offerings specifically to your target audience.  [15:14]#3 Master your mindset and emotions.  [24:46]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3242: Psychographic Alignment: The Key To Your Business Future 2918: 3 Ways To Condition Your Subconscious Mind Next Steps: ---

In this episode, I’m talking about energy, one of the five forms of investment you need to succeed. Energy is the ability to do work, and without it, nothing else matters. If you don’t have energy, time, money, focus, and attention can’t help you. I break down why energy is 85% of the job in life and why you’ve got to protect and invest in it daily. Let’s get into it. Show Notes:  [03:50]#1 Energy is everything. [07:42]#2 Energy is contagious [14:44]#3 Energy cannot lie. [22:01]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 1880: The Law Of Association 2383: How The Law Of Attraction REALLY Works (Part 1 of 2) 2384: How The Law Of Attraction REALLY Works (Part 2 of 2) 2466: The Law Of Inertia 2639: Parkinson's Law Applied To Business 2806: The Law Of Entropy 2963: The Law Of Diminishing Competitors 3261: The First 3 Laws Of Economics 609: The 5 Forms Of Investment, And How To Use Each 2023: The Life-Changing 48 Hour Experiment Next Steps: ---

Today’s episode is part two of our miniseries about staying out of court and I mean that literally, not as a metaphor. I’m breaking down why it’s so important to avoid the legal system, even if you think you’re right in what you’re doing. Courts can mess up your life, so trust me, you don’t want to go there. If you missed yesterday’s episode, go listen to it first, then come back and we’ll dive deeper. Show Notes:  [02:07]#4 Exceptions don’t prove the rule, being right can cost you everything. [09:34]#5 Why do so many people get law degrees?  [12:53]#6 Courts run on money.  [20:48]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2167: Being "Right" Vs Being Accurate [They're NOT The Same] 3261: The First 3 Laws Of Economics 195: My Virtual Mentors Vol 1: Sean "Puff Daddy" Combs Next Steps: ---

I’m mostly talking to men today, but this is for women too, especially if you’re quick to pull a weapon or use your hands to make a point. The bigger message is this: stay out of the legal system in America. I know some lawyers listen to this, and I’m not trying to hurt your business, most people just won’t follow this advice anyway. Remember, I’m not giving legal advice, but what really matters is the result of what you do, not how you explain it. I’ll explain why the result matters today and tomorrow. Show Notes:  [03:38]#1 America is the most litigious society in the world and is getting worse.  [11:25]#2 For the men and the women who have aggressive tendencies or carry a weapon, understand the continuum of force. [18:44]#3  There are crazy people in the world and it may come a time when you do need to defend yourself.  [20:53]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 3249: Men: Be Smart, Not "Tough" 3224: Men: Stop Being Pussies Next Steps: ---

Today, I’m talking about the adult immaturity problem — yeah, us adults need to take a hard look at ourselves. We adults are letting down the younger generation because many of us act like we’re their age instead of being the grown-ups they can look up to. We’re acting like kids when we should be leading. In this episode, I explain how we’re messing up and share some ideas on how we can fix it. If we don’t step up, who will? Show Notes:  [02:26]#1 You cannot cut yourself off from information or resources just because you have a supposed personal issue with the source of information or with the information itself.  [08:40]#2 You’ve got to break out of your information tribe and listen to people you don’t agree with.. [13:20]#3 Opportunity in life is always in the opposites and understanding the opportunities in the opposites.  [16:38]Recap Episodes Mentioned: 2337: Eat The Meat, Spit Out The Bones 1605: How Adults Have FAILED The Youth 1025: The Opportunity Is In The Opposites Next Steps: ---