Welcome To Blah Diaries (broke Lonely Angry & Horny)

How many times have you been tagged in posts to share and support? You do it and when it comes time for that family member, friend and cousin they never do it. How about buying products, putting change on a fundraiser? Yet, you always support without hesitation. How many had to digest the excuses of it is not in my niche,market or worse yet make a public scene about your feelings to make your right wrong? Time to change the rules and stop feeling guilty about your feelings. Check out my latest podcast.

Are you still talking about ex or your enemies? Are you dwelling on toxic relationships versus the good that has happen in your life? It is time to let the bull and ish go. It is holding you back from manifesting the things you want. Today we will talk about how unfair you are to you.

I've allowed many to write the definition of me. I also know there are so many women like myself who feared their past, hated being the underdog, never getting the recognition they deserve. So we follow others. Deny our journey. Here is how I crack opened the definition of myself, reconnected and vowed to change just one life.

Did you know that sometimes you can be Beautifully Broke? Change comes when you least expect it. Have you ever allowed people and your opinion of yourself put you on pause? Today, I share my experience of being beautifully broken and changed. Be sure to visit me at www.tamluvstowrite.com.

Do people interrupt you? Have you ever let people slide by violating your time, or doing something you ask them? Me too, we all have done it now is the time to break bad habits and set the boundaries to your life.

I know a lot ish is going on but do me a favor and find your giggle. Friday Giggles is about easing the stress and finding chuckle. So i share the fight I witness at Walmart. It seems the biggest disrespect is skipping the line and back talk. Check it out !

Some of y'all new lives are so close, but you keep slamming the door. You've locked people out. Block others because of those suckers who hurt you. Let's chat about it! Be sure to visit me at www.tamluvstowrite.com

Listen I know all hell is breaking loose. There is drama and trauma. A lot mess but today I need for you laugh it away. Life is more than drama, trauma,mess and stress. A little motivation to heal ya soul.

The lesson I learned is that for a long time I neglected me. I've been in the habit of neglect. The habit of not taking care of myself. Shame on me! Being the perfect people pleaser I have been last on my list. Today, I share my breakthrough, why i choose self-care. Im encouraging you for the love of you to take care of you! Listen to my lesson of self care and falling in love with me.

How are you protecting your emotional wealth? Have you set up boundaries and non-negotiable deals that are unbreakable? Are you staying past the expiration date? Check out my latest podcast.

Some of us have stayed past the excuses, dating a double edge sword dude who smiles and lies in your face and gossip behind your back. Family members who get all they can out of you but bash you behind your back . Love is choosing to love from a distance. Severing toes for your sanity and peace. Loving me more is valuable than settling for your hurt. Today's hot topic of the day.

The one thing I can admit is growing up I felt ashamed of being poor, living situation and so much. Recently, I learned to find value in what in the people around me. I learned the value of who I am. Today's podcast is about killing the shame and finding the value in you. Finding value in others even in their mess. Be sure to visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com. Also, be sure to support www.ourcurlsinc.org and www.sweetbuffalo716.com to donate to these amazing organizations. To learn more visit their websites. Follow me on Instagram @tamluvstowrite39

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During this quarantine, and pandemic we are flooded with how to think, eat and live. What if I told you every recipe for your life may not fit? One of the biggest mistakes I ever made was trying to live like everyone else recipe. I will share how i discovered my recipe and the lesson I learned. Please visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com. Check out www.ourcurlsinc.org and donate to their amazing organization. Visit www.sweetbuffalo716.com and donate some change. Both are 501c3 organizations. Support big time!!

Do you have a love deeper than understanding the reason "Why". Love has many definitions and ranges. Love is challenging and dope. Love is . I share another lesson and level of love I learned. The perfectly imperfect of it and being able to see the good of it. Please visit www.tamluvstowrite.com . Be sure to take a moment and put a little change on these two not for profit organizations www.ourcurlsinc.org and www.sweetbuffalo716.com. Please support them.

Ever Bounce back from adversity, failure and being a hot mess? You come far but it is folks reminding you of your mess-ups. Today, i discuss how we don't quit showing up and why you should keep pushing. How do we defeat the them, folks ? How do we stand tall in spite of. Be sure to visit my website www.tamluvstowrite.com and stay connected. Share your thoughts

The valuable lesson I learned is when you are improving yourself to never focus on your competitors. Too many of us look backward versus forward. The elevation is looking ahead, rebuilding thy self, and not what others are doing. Competition is natural, people copying you is flattery so welcome it. Check out how I move forward on this latest podcast. Visit my website at www.tamluvstowrite.com . Also, do me a favor and put a little change on it with these amazing charities www.ourcurlsinc.org and sweetbuffalo716.com. Be a blessing to them. Visit their website to see all they do in WNY.

My biggest fear is dating and nee friendships. I am sharing my fears and then the journey. I'm terrified and doing it anyway. Please be sure to donate to www.ourcurlsinc.org & www.sweetbuffalo716.com. Two amazing charities. Also, i will gift books, graphic design services or my tshirts to three winners in a drawing.

I've accepted the challenge and donated to three organizations. All in Challenge, Our Curls inc and Sweet Buffalo Rocks. Please take a moment to donate at www.ourcurlsinc.org , sweetbuffalo716.com, and www.allinchallenge.com every time you donate to either of these challenges I will enter your name in a raffle for a collection of my books, t-shirts or graphic design services. I will pick three winners at the end of the Month. Donate to either or all of them and leave your name, a copy of the receipt and you're are entered at tamluvstowrite.com or use the following hashtags for the following charities #ourcurlsinc or #imatter, #sweetbuffalorocks, or #allinchallenge via social media:  Facebook. www.facebook.com/tamluvstowrite Instagram: www.instagram.com/tamluvstowrite39 Twitter: www.twitter.com/tamluvstowrite

Certain words can have power over you if you allow it to. For so many years, I allowed the words I mess everything up control me. How do we break up with the negative words we say to ourselves ? I share how i own the word mess. How i made peace and closure with it.