Absolute Trust Talk

Few things are as nerve-wracking as receiving an IRS audit notice—but how do audits really work, and what can you do to protect yourself? In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe sits down with Anthony Kim, a former IRS Chief Counsel Attorney with 26+ years of experience, to reveal the truth behind IRS audits. Tony, who has litigated complex tax cases for the U.S. Treasury Department and represented Fortune 500 companies and high-net-worth individuals at Ernst & Young, shares insider knowledge on what triggers audits, the IRS selection process, and how to avoid common red flags. You’ll learn why IRS audits are rarer than you think, the top mistakes taxpayers make, and why choosing the right representative—CPA or tax attorney?—could make or break your case. Plus, Tony drops a little-known IRS tip that could save you from missed notices and financial headaches. Don’t leave your financial future to chance! Listen now to get expert advice on navigating an IRS audit with confidence.   Time-st

Intro Summary] In this follow-up episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe welcomes back tax law expert Tony Kim to continue their deep dive into IRS audits and appeals. With 26 years of experience working for the IRS, Tony provides invaluable insights into what happens after an audit determination is made. He explains the role of a protest letter, how appeals officers function as mediators, and why IRS litigation can be risky for taxpayers. Throughout the episode, Tony emphasizes the importance of organization, professionalism, and strategic decision-making when dealing with the IRS. He also shares real-world examples of how cases are resolved at different stages of the appeals process. If you're facing an IRS audit or just want to understand your rights, this episode is packed with essential knowledge.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 1:33 The protest letter: Here’s what you need to know about how it challenges IRS decisions. 4:20 Appeals officers vs. revenue agents—who decides y

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, hosts Kirsten Howe and Jessica Colbert delve into the latest twist in O.J. Simpson’s long-running estate saga. The estate’s executor has taken an unexpected step by filing a lawsuit against one of Simpson’s heirs, claiming that a key Las Vegas property was secretly transferred out of the estate’s control. As they speculate on the case, the hosts examine the potential motives behind this action—such as the strategic use of an LLC and homestead exemptions—and the significant implications for addressing Simpson’s mounting debts, including those owed to the IRS. With a thorough exploration of the executor’s critical role in managing and safeguarding estate assets, this episode is a powerful reminder of the complexities and repercussions of poorly executed estate planning. Whether you’re drawn to high-profile legal drama or seeking insights to protect your legacy, this discussion provides valuable lessons for anyone navigating the intricate world of estate administration.

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert explore the critical steps in getting a will admitted to probate. They explain why lodging an original, properly executed will with the county superior court is essential, and how witness testimony can authenticate the document. They also examine the pitfalls of relying on a photocopy—or finding out too late that the original has been lost or destroyed. Finally, they underscore the importance of keeping your estate documents organized to avoid future probate headaches. If you’re preparing your first will or need to update an existing one, don’t miss this critical conversation on ensuring your final wishes stand up in court.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 0:40 When lodging the original will, did you know that you must submit the current wet-signed will to the county superior court (not an older or photocopied version). 1:48 Next, Kirsten and Jessica discuss how an attestation clause (witn

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert continue their deep dive into probate fundamentals by focusing on wills. They clarify what makes a will legally valid, why a handwritten (or “wet ink”) signature is still required, and how witnesses play a key role in safeguarding the document’s authenticity. They also explore the differences between a holographic will and the more formal, witnessed variety. This insightful conversation offers a clearer view of one of the most essential components of the probate process.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 1:24 Jessica defines a will as a written, hand-signed document created by the testator. 2:16 Next, Kirsten and Jessica discuss how a testator who cannot physically sign may use a mark or direct someone else to sign on their behalf. 2:36 Did you know just how important witnesses are in validating a will? Also, in California, an ink signature is still required. 3:14 Finally, Kirsten and Jessica

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe and Associate Attorney Ariana Flynn shine a light on the often misunderstood world of probate. They discuss why estate planners typically seek to avoid probate, the situations that make it unavoidable, and the key role of the personal representative—whether executor or administrator—in guiding the process. By exploring how the court appoints someone to oversee an estate, they underscore the importance of having a well-crafted plan in place. If you’ve ever wondered about the nuts and bolts of probate or questioned whether your own estate plan is up to date, this episode offers valuable clarity and peace of mind.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 0:20 To get things started, Kirsten and Ariana explain why probate can be so costly and time-consuming and reveal why it’s still sometimes necessary—especially when someone has passed away or become incapacitated. 1:44 Next, they address the common misconceptions surrounding probate and set the

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe and Jessica Colbert discuss the ongoing Los Angeles fires and offer practical advice on how to help victims without falling prey to scams. From identifying legitimate charities to safely navigating crowdfunding platforms, they outline actionable steps to ensure your generosity has a real impact. The episode also highlights essential disaster preparedness tips, including safeguarding your pets during emergencies. We’re thinking of everyone and hope you all stay vigilant, give wisely, and can help make a meaningful difference in times of crisis.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 0:53 To kick things off, we’re discussing why scams skyrocket during disasters and how to protect yourself while helping support others. 2:13 Next, we highlight actionable tips for identifying trustworthy organizations, avoiding unsolicited donation requests, and recognizing red flags in emails, texts, and calls. 5:18 Press play now to hear more about the risks

If you’ve been following the news lately, chances are you’ve heard of Luigi Mangione, the man at the center of recent headlines for allegedly shooting UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson. While the criminal case has drawn widespread attention, what caught our interest is a surprising detail about Mangione's personal life: he’s reportedly listed as a beneficiary in his wealthy grandmother’s estate. Even more intriguing, the will allegedly includes a precatory clause—or “wish language”—suggesting that beneficiaries charged with a felony could forfeit their inheritance.    In this episode of Absolute Trust Counsel, host Kirsten Howe and attorneys Jessica Colbert and Ariana Flynn dive into the concept of precatory clauses, their potential legal implications, and what this could mean for Mangione. Don’t miss this fascinating discussion!    Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 1:40 Unpacking Luigi Mangione’s Inheritance: Discover how Luigi Mangione’s grandmother’s estate entered the spotligh

Welcome back to Absolute Trust Talk for Part 2 of our exciting deep dive into estate litigation with our associate attorney and former litigator, Ariana Flynn! In this episode, we’re exploring the steps you can take to prevent challenges to your estate plan after you’re gone. Ariana shares valuable insights from her experience, including how writing explanatory letters to explain tough decisions and how receiving a neuropsych evaluation can also make a difference. We also discuss how working closely with your estate planner can help protect your wishes, with tips on handling co-trustees and ensuring your plan is rock solid. If you want to avoid potential litigation and secure your legacy,  then this is an episode you won’t want to miss!   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 0:55 Should you be worried about someone disputing your estate plan? Here’s what our former litigator, Ariana has to say. 3:09 Completing a neuropsych exam could help if someone attempts to claim the decedent was men

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, managing attorney Kirsten Howe welcomes associate attorneys Jessica Colbert and Ariana Flynn to discuss common issues in trust and estate litigation. Drawing from her experience as a litigator, Ariana highlights three major themes that often arise in family disputes over estates: undue influence, lack of capacity, and complex family dynamics. These challenges can lead to costly and emotional battles over a loved one's assets, making it crucial for individuals to understand the potential pitfalls. Tune in to hear valuable insights on how to navigate these difficult topics and prepare for the future. Plus, stay tuned for our next episode, where we’ll continue this crucial conversation!   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 1:30 Ariana starts us off by sharing the most common family litigation issues. 2:45 In this segment, we discuss the most common issue: Undue Influence—what is it and how does it happen? 5:58 Not all influence is considered undue

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe welcomes back accomplished estate planning attorney and litigation expert Ruth Kohler Burke for part two of their deep dive into community vs. separate property in estate planning. Together, they unravel the complexities of property characterization and highlight how proper planning can save you from expensive, stressful situations. From intestacy horror stories to blended family challenges, Ruth shares real-world examples and valuable insights gained from her 25+ years of experience, including representing Fortune 500 companies. Whether you're managing family dynamics, navigating divorce, or ensuring your legacy, this episode provides actionable advice to help you avoid estate planning pitfalls.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 1:10 Welcome back, Ruth Kohler Burke! We’re kicking off the conversation with why property characterization matters when someone dies without an estate plan. 2:31 Why is differentiating separate and

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe is joined by the accomplished Ruth Koller Burke, Partner at Koller Herlihy LLP, whose 25+ years of experience span estate planning, trust administration, and probate litigation. Ruth’s dual expertise as both an estate planner and litigator—gained through years of representing Fortune 500 companies and managing high-stakes family dynamics—brings an invaluable perspective to this discussion.   Together, Kirsten and Ruth dive deep into the complexities of community and separate property in estate planning. From clarifying what distinguishes assets owned before marriage from those accumulated together, to understanding the role of trusts and navigating pre- and post-nuptial agreements, they leave no stone unturned. Whether you’re planning for a first marriage, a blended family, or any unique scenario, this episode offers actionable advice to help you safeguard your legacy and avoid future complications.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Intro

In this special Absolute Trust Talk episode, Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert step into the captivating world of celebrity estates, taking a closer look at the probate of O.J. Simpson. Unlike traditional probates, where assets are distributed to heirs, O.J.'s estate paints a very different picture—one dominated by overwhelming debts, including a $117 million judgment. From the auctioning of memorabilia to an intriguing home equity dispute, this episode uncovers the complexities faced by executors in balancing creditors' claims and legal obligations. Whether you're a legal enthusiast or just curious about the challenges of high-profile estates, this episode is an entertaining and insightful dive into the world of probate law. Tune in to discover what happens when there’s nothing left for the heirs—and how even celebrity estates must follow the same rules as everyone else.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 2:04 Learn about the executor’s efforts to auction O.J.’s pers

Trustees, are you confident you’ve completed all your legal responsibilities? This final, crucial question is one every trustee should ask—but the answer is rarely simple. In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert delve into the often-overlooked legal notices trustees are required to send before making final distributions. They discuss the critical 120-day notice to trust beneficiaries and heirs, informing them of their rights to contest the trust. They also cover essential notifications to the Department of Health Care Services and the county assessor’s office. Missing these steps might seem minor, but they can lead to significant delays and legal complications. Tune in to learn more about these requirements and why addressing them early is essential for a seamless trust administration.   Time-stamped Show Notes: 0:00 Introduction 1:15 Picking up from our previous episode with the fourth and final question for trustees: “Have I done everything

Being named a trustee is a significant responsibility that demands careful attention, time, and effort—and missing critical steps can lead to complex legal consequences. In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert delve into real-life cases where trustees overlooked essential duties. They discuss three crucial questions every trustee must ask before making final distributions:   1.     Have I done everything necessary concerning income taxes? 2.     Is there a supplemental property tax bill coming? 3.     Do I need to provide an accounting to the beneficiaries?   With practical guidance on navigating these often-missed steps, Kirsten and Jessica equip trustees with the knowledge to handle their responsibilities smoothly and avoid personal liability. Whether you're a current trustee or might become one in the future, this episode is packed with essential insights you won't want to miss.

A significant shift in California probate law is on the horizon, promising to make estate transfers more accessible for many homeowners. In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert delve into a game-changing legislation effective April 1, 2025. This new law allows for a simplified transfer of primary residences valued up to $750,000 to heirs—without the need for probate or a formal estate plan. They discuss how this expansion of the small estate affidavit and petition procedures can ease the burden on families, making property transitions faster and less complicated. Tune in to learn how these upcoming changes might impact you and your loved ones.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 0:58 Discover how the 2025 revisions to the small estate affidavit could benefit you and streamline estate transfers.  3:10 Navigating Estate Transfers Under the New Law: Listen as we break down the process of how estate transfers will work with this leg

In the third episode of their probate alternatives series on Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert delve into two streamlined legal procedures that help families avoid the costly and time-consuming probate process when transferring small real estate estates in California. They explain an affidavit procedure for properties valued under $61,500 and a petition for determining succession to property for estates under $184,500. The discussion covers the requirements for each method, including waiting periods, the role of a probate referee, and when each procedure is applicable. This episode offers essential insights into navigating these simplified legal paths. Plus, stay tuned for a sneak peek into significant probate law changes coming in 2025.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 0:55 A small estate affidavit only covers personal property. However, there is another way to bypass probate, even with property—listen in! 2:15 A small estate affidavit r

In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert delve into the spousal property petition, a vital tool that offers a faster and more cost-effective way for surviving spouses to claim assets from a deceased spouse's estate. They break down the legal nuances, sharing practical examples of how this process works and how it can sometimes be used even after both spouses have passed away. With real-world scenarios and expert advice, this episode sheds light on probate alternatives that can ease the estate administration process for families. Whether you’re dealing with estate planning or curious about alternatives to probate, this episode offers invaluable guidance.   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 1:30 Spousal Property Petition Explained: Jessica introduces the spousal property petition, explaining how it helps surviving spouses claim assets while avoiding the complexities of probate. 3:15 Learn how a spousal property petition differs from a s

Navigating the probate process can feel overwhelming, so what if there was a way to avoid it entirely? In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, associate attorney Jessica Colbert and managing attorney Kirsten Howe introduce the small estate affidavit—an often overlooked yet highly effective tool for bypassing probate when certain conditions are met. Together, they break down what it takes to qualify for this process, explain how it works to transfer personal property without court involvement and point out some important details and potential challenges. Don’t miss this insightful conversation that can make estate planning more manageable, quicker, and less stressful. Listen now!   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 0:45 Understanding the Small Estate Affidavit: What it is, how it works, and how it helps avoid probate. 2:20 Did you know? The total value of assets must be less than $184,500 to use a small estate affidavit. 3:12 Next, we’re discussing the eligible signers responsible fo

Welcome back to Absolute Trust Talk! In this exciting episode, associate attorney Jessica Colbert steps into the spotlight for the first time, accompanied by managing attorney Kirsten Howe. Together, they continue the series AB Trusts: Do You Have One? Do You Need One? This episode uncovers the surprising reason many couples have AB trusts without realizing it, and what steps you should take if you find yourself in this situation. You’ll also learn why it might be time to reconsider an AB trust, especially if you are the surviving spouse and want to make changes. Don’t miss out on this crucial discussion!   Time-stamped Show Notes:   0:00 Introduction 0:57 Many couples have an AB Trust structure and don’t even know it. In this segment, we explore why this situation is so common. 2:11 Here are two reasons why you may no longer need an AB Trust structure. 2:54 Thinking about updating your trust? The first step is to talk to your attorney. 4:00 An AB Trust only becomes “irrevocable” once a spouse die