You Thought It, We Said It

On this week’s podcast, Nia & Kenisha tackle cheating. From their personal experiences to what they’re telling their future bae’s, weigh in on your view of cheating. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in to IG live every Wednesday at 6pm ET on @thehbcuapp & @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha chat about this week's episode of YTIWSI!

Kenisha & Nia are back with Season 2 of YTIWSI! In this season opener, they recap their shenanigans over the last few months and now that the weather is getting cold, it's time to cover "Cuffing Season"! Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in to IG live every Wednesday at 6pm ET on @thehbcuapp & @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha chat about this week's episode of YTIWSI!

In the finale of season 1, Kenisha and Nia recap some of their fave moments, the stories behind the podcast episodes, and share what’s coming in season 2. The best part is...they’re in Paris!

Nia & Kenisha discuss the blackballing of Colin Kaepernick, police brutality, Nike, & more. Also, if you watch the NFL, you cannot slide in their DMs & dating is out of the question. Access denied. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Yes: personality, ambition, energy & lots of other intangibles are important factors in attraction, but in this episode, Nia & Kenisha share the physical qualities that get them going. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Nia & Kenisha share their take on bedroom etiquette for “those” nights (and mornings

Nia & Kenisha chat about the fails and success stories from their DMS. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Fresh off their 10-Year Friendiversary Weekend, Kenisha and Nia chat with their world-traveling best friend, Alexus, for an in-depth discussion about girls trips. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

If you're on the dating scene, do you feel like no matter who you meet, everyone is missing something? It can be confidence, cleanliness, ambition, etc. - just know you're not alone! Kenisha details a few of her experiences in the Land of the Missing Socks, while Nia takes notes on how not to get sucked in! Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Whether you're an only child or the oldest of many, you can identify with some specific personality traits based on birth order. In this episode, Nia and Kenisha are chatting about their siblings and growing up as the oldest and youngest children in their families. Can you guess who's who? Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

On this episode, Kenisha and Nia explore dealbreakers in dating and relationships. Be sure to follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

This episode is a continuation of episode 1: The Combine! Listen in as Kenisha & Nia-Emani discuss going on dates, selecting people to spend time with, and how they're feeling about cuffin' season being on the horizon. Be sure to follow our podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Self-care & self-love are not just buzz words - they're necessary in order to *really* live your best life. Kenisha & Nia discuss how they regularly re-charge in order to slay everyday. How do you self-care? Be sure to follow our podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Do opposites really attract? Should men pay for the meal? Do you believe in love at first sight? We explore some of the most popular dating cliches out there. Be sure to follow our podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

In the first of a series of Sex Ed episodes, Nia & Kenisha discuss their experiences with learning about their changing bodies from puberty through adulthood. Follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

We've both had to break up with a friend a time or two and in this episode, we share how we did it, why it's necessary to cut people off, and the warning signs that you might be on the receiving end of the breakup soon. Follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

What was your love life like in college? Kenisha & Nia shared their very different experiences with dating (or not) during their time at Howard University. Follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Our very first guest, founder of Natural Beauty Shop Stephon I. joins us to answer this recurring question: Can you be pro-Black and date outside your race? Be sure to follow our podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch us record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

PROUD Howard alumnae Kenisha & Nia host their first Instagram Live episode where they talked about their experience at THE HBCU and why HCBUs are necessary. Follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!

Do you mind if your significant other has friends of the opposite sex? Nia & Kenisha explore the benefits and disadvantages of this notion and Nia has a revelation about her friendships with men. Follow their podcast page @youthoughtitwesaidit on Instagram and tune in every Wednesday at 7pm ET on @thehcbuapp and @proud2beblack_ to watch Nia & Kenisha record episodes of YTIWSI on IG Live!