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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (9:00) How present does a father need to be in order to be impactful? (18:30) How do I balance stress of being a father, working a very time-consuming job, and pursing my passion of getting into politics? (22:00) Can you recommend some resources to help me grow in self-confidence? (25:20) What have you learned about how stress management and time management correlate in business and life? (32:00) How do I know I am making the right move for my family when I am making a decision that will improve the situation for my immediate family, but will also distance my wife from her extended family, which is very important to her? (44:30) What was the biggest challenge, outside of alcohol, to get you to 4 months of sobriety? (52:40) How do we help friends and family in their struggles with al

Finding our sense of worth as men can be an extremely daunting task. We’re often led to believe that if we say just the right things, do all the things we should be doing, and achieve the success society has deemed appropriate, we’ll find what we’re looking for.   Unfortunately, many of us are left with a sense of emptiness in spite of our worldly success. My guest today is my good friend Granger Smith. Today, we tackle a conversation we really haven’t had on the podcast as we talk about self-worth, the danger in the “love yourself” message, why cultural Christianity doesn’t cut it, feeling like a fraud, and ultimately finding faith and hope in God.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Do things that are intrinsically meaningful Determining when enough is enough How to take the power away from critics The problem with superficial, cultural Christianity We are only worthy through God Why does suffering exist? We need challenges and hardship to refine us Sometimes “self-help” isn’t enough Always moving forward We need to stop

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help you overcome the tendency to self-sabotage.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why do we self-sabotage? We tend to choose the path of least resistance We have a lot of insecurities as men   How do we self-sabotage? We rest on our laurels We consciously or subconsciously undermine our efforts   How do we KILL self-sabotage? We have to make mindset shifts Use goal planning as a starting point Sometimes you just have to throw a wrench in the system Spend time around people and programs that get you to think about life differently     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to the top questions of the week. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (1:30) Bloom where you’ve been planted or go forth and change the world? (8:00) Do you have any thoughts on finding and retaining good team members for my construction business? (14:20) What are you guys focusing on in Jiu Jitsu right now? (23:40) Do you think you still start putting on a father-daughter event? (23:30) How important is it to have a morning and nightly routine? Would you share what you do for your routines? (30:00) What criteria do you have for getting involved with a church? (33:00) What can we do to start making tough people as soon as possible? (37:00) What are some ideas for a side hustle while I am a full-time seminary student? (41:52) How can you take time to relax and focus on family in between the grinds of work and life? (45:40) Do you have any tips for me and

Marriage is one of the most challenging yet rewarding pursuits for a man. Unfortunately, very few of us have ever been taught how to successfully navigate the dynamics between men and women. And, all too often, it leads to headache, heartbreak, and divorce. Today, I’m joined by marriage expert Keith Yackey to talk about these dynamics and how to successfully build a long and thriving marriage. We talk about the ROI (return of intimacy) in marriage, how a man gains his power back after giving it away, the “mommy matrix,” why seeking her validation will backfire, and the 5 dials of a powerhouse marriage.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Thriving in business vs thriving in marriage Five dials that help men measure effectiveness Women want you to be a good parent Women want you to be her partner Women want you to be a producer Women want you to have fun Women want you to do what you say you’re going to do, when you say you’re going to do it Become the guy that any woman would be thrilled to be with   Get your signed copy

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE strategies to build and strengthen your friendships with other men.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Know what you want Improve yourself Go where these men are Add value to other men Continue to nurture the relationship   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (3:15) When everything feels like it's falling apart and you feel like giving up, how do you push through it? (13:30) How can you build confidence in yourself after taking a major blow, such as an unwanted divorce? (18:00) After shooting the biggest whitetail buck of my life, how do I maintain my sense of pride and stay modest about what I’ve accomplished and not let the jealously of people make me feel guilty? (22:00) Why don’t more men share mental health struggles and provide support for each other versus leaving each to fight a battle on their own? (26:10) How do you overcome complacency? (27:40) Is there a pathway you or Kipp recommend for working toward quitting my job? What some considerations, other than money, that I should be aware of? (32:30) In your opinion

Fear is something that all of us have to deal with. Yet, too many men allow their fears to cripple them from what otherwise could be an incredibly meaningful life. Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about why fear drives too many of our life decisions. We discuss hitting rock bottom and crawling out, the compound effect of small and simple tasks that lead to big results, the distinction between “fault” and “responsibility,” the power of therapy, overcoming means of sedation, and living life unafraid.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Cutting out alcohol Exploring the “value” in vulnerability Therapy as a proactive measure Accepting and coping with PTSD Letting your kids see your weaknesses Its ok to change your mind and your opinion The journey to faith Everyone could do their small part Hitting rock bottom   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a 3-part framework that men can use to overcome anger.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   1. Get to the root of why we are angry (who, what, when, where, why, how) Who are you angry with? What is happening when you are angry? What time of day is it happening? What is my environment like? How do you express your anger? 2. Learn to deal with anger in healthy ways Journal Margin (take a breather) Exercise 3. Learn to express yourself in a healthy way   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (4:00) What is your opinion on the use of crossbows during archery season? (8:20) What are some activities I can give a group of boys to scratch the primal itch without being destructive or dangerous? (13:30) Where do I draw the line between extreme ownership and letting go, as management has continued to add responsibilities to my plate with the departure of other staff? (22:30) In your separation with the wife, did you encounter a lot of negative comments and lack of support from your friends? (27:00) In a difficult circumstance, how do you prepare to be uncomfortable but not struggling? (37:10) With today’s economy and interest rates, what are your thoughts on buying a house right now and refinancing after rates go down or wa

Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography. My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don’t work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today Behavior changes that indicate an addiction How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive Negatively rew

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Overcome the ease of modernity Don’t be a superhero Lead before the title Render yourself obsolete   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions. We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Channeling your competitive drive Reconciling between making money and helping others Responsibility means “able to respond” How to find your sense of worth The importance of having purpose in your life The power of “interruptible” moments Encouraging others with small acts and words   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Order Tim's new book, Mission Possible One-Year Devotional.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundan

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office’s all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable? (16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together? (23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity? (31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others? (39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt? (5

Psychological safety. It’s not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man’s innate desire to protect those he’s closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short. My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it 80% of men want to create a better marriage Developing emotional maturity in the home How do you know how you are coming across to your kids? Different kids, different personalities The power of genuine curiosity Receiving feedback from your wife does n

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why it is important: There are unforeseen events in life Other people have a say in the matter Often we have faulty timelines   How to keep yourself in the game: Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve Focus on the process, not the objective Take a look at the past (see how far you’ve come) Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors)     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (10:00) As we near the end of 2022, what is your theme going into 2023 that you will base your Battle Plans off of? What is one big goal you have for next year that everything will work towards? (25:30) What are some important manly virtues? (40:00) What's YOUR biggest takeaway from Fight Club? (47:00) What’s the biggest thing you’ve let go of that significantly improved your life? (59:00) Can you provide some tips on balancing children/family schedules with your own routines and “self care” or health schedules.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Plan

Failures, victories, challenges, setbacks, ups and downs, and everything in between. They’re all part of life. It’s how we frame the rollercoaster of events and what we do about them that make us men. Today, I’m joined by longtime friend, serial entrepreneur, hunter, husband, and father, Rick Trimmer to talk about some of his biggest challenges and how he’s learned to overcome the adversity to create an incredible life for himself and family. We cover the path of least resistance and the path of most resistance, overcoming failure and losing everything, doing the right thing because it’s the right thing to do, and putting one foot in front of the other every day.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Why men have trouble going deep into relationships The power of genuine curiosity You need to keep pushing through challenging times Achieving your goals doesn’t happen overnight Getting through life minute by minute Sometimes its appropriate to feel ashamed Helping other men learn from your mistakes Finding purpose in the abse

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a FIVE part framework to help men respond to failure and quickly get back in the game.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   When things go wrong, stop the behavior and stop flailing around Orient yourself toward what you want Change your priorities and adapt your behaviors Enlist the resources you need Take calculated, precise, consistent action     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions live from the 3rd annual Order of Man Maine Event, held earlier this month. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:00) How much passion do you need in your quarterly battle plan vision? (6:12) How does a man build authority and influence as an employee, with no formal leadership position? (12:44) How do you get your parents to “want” to be the type of grandparents who are engaged with your kids? (18:46) How do I transition from the fast-paced activities of my business each day to a mode that is appropriate for family time at home in the evening? (29:40) What is the vision for Order of Man for the next few years? (38:10) When do you know that you’ve put enough effort in to helping someone and you now need to step back and let them figure things out themselves? (44:20) How do I execute my duties as a son, with a mother dealing with dementia, without letting it impa