Around The Table Podcast

In our final episode of 2015, we reflect on the year by answering a series of thought-provoking (and sometimes silly) questions. What you’ll hear: How we are spending our holidays Our reflections on reflecting in general The best and worst things we ate this year What we've learned, lost, and loved over the past 12 months A year end benediction Can I quote you on that? “I feel like I’m really on top of my texting.” Jacey “Something I’ve learned is the value of and the high calling it is to look at the people in your day-to day and love them and serve them well.” Maggie “Am I loving my friends well or are they getting sacrificed for the sake of this big ‘calling.’” Maggie “You’re not as good or as bad as you think.” Jacey “The anecdote for self doubt isn’t self-confidence, but rather a deep and abiding acceptance of weakness.” Jacey “Internet…you can do better.” Maggie "The spinning plate thing doesn't work for me. I'm ok with not being able to do as much as other people." Maggie “The biggest thing I learned t

In this episode, we discuss agreeing to disagree, plus Read Watch Listen Follow and a bonus holiday edition! While you're around a literal table with family members this holiday season, neutralize heated conversations or infuse pleasant ones with even more joy by recommending our podcast! Or subscribing to it on people's phones while they're in the bathroom. Either way. What you’ll hear: The importance of disagreement in relationships The problem with processing disagreement as rejection Why we need to examine motivation for engaging (or not) in a disagreement When you do choose to engage, tips for handling the conversation with grace and guts Reminder: we don't have the power to change people's hearts; only God can do that Can I quote you on that? "Where's there's friction, there's refinement." Maggie "Sometimes the refinement comes from butting up against each other even if you don't ever come to a place of seeing eye to eye." Jacey "Seek to understand more than to be understood." Jacey "We're not sacrifici

In this episode, we’re talking with Steve Cockram, cofounder of GiANT Worldwide and a wonderful mentor of Maggie’s in London. He’s an expert in the field of Jungian Type Analysis expert (Myers Briggs), so he shares the value and limitations of such assessments, why the American woman is the most difficult role in the world, according to Steve, and some insights from his book about being more intentional strategic in the time we have. What you’ll hear The most delightful British accent Staying connected and productive when there’s never enough time The value and limitations of personality assessments How understanding your children’s personality types can inform your parenting What a fromager is, and why we all need one Can I quote you on that? “It’s less about trying to fit more into less, but being a little more strategic in how you use the time that you have.” Steve Cockram "Our culture plays a significant role in how we understand the importance of rest and family." Steve Cockram “A personality assessment

This week we chat all things holiday parties: themes, traditions, and our favorite recipes. We also discuss how to be a gracious guest as well as a stress-free host. What you'll hear: Stories from Maggie's recent trip to Budapest Jacey's adventures in novel writing Our favorite (and least favorite) types of holiday parties Fun party ideas, themes, tips, and recipes How to be both a good party host and guest Tips for dealing with awkward party social interactions Can I quote you on that? “Hosting tip, use your kids.” Maggie “People will notice a stressed out host a lot more than they’ll notice an overcooked cookie.” Maggie “Know your strengths and know what you like and what’s going ot be fun for you to do.” Jacey “They’re a little mouthy these days.” Jacey on the World Health Organization “Excuse yourself to go to the bathroom…and then don’t come back.” Maggie's strategy for leaving a party Links: How to leave an iTunes review: Around the Table Christmas spotify playlist Sole Hope Ina Garten's Cheese Straws S

In this episode, we discuss dealing with unmet expectations, the results of ten Buzzfeed quizzes we took, and the hyper-classification of ourselves and each other. BUT FIRST! Make sure you're on our email list. Tomorrow (12/1/15) we're giving away two items from our #ATTIntention and #ATTindulgence gift guides to two email subscribers! Check out the gift guides here. What you’ll hear: Healthy ways to respond to unmet expectations Why good bosses put unrealistically high expectations on employees The narcissistic side of self knowledge Our sorry knowledge of The Constitution...especially compared to our knowledge of Netflix and 90's rom coms :/ Can I quote you on that? "Wouldn't you say that our happiness and how we experience life is actually way more affected by our expectations than our reality?" Jacey "What happens when our expectations aren't met is it shakes something we believed in." Maggie "When we get used to our expectations being met, we start to feel kind of invincible...and we get this false sense

This week’s episode is our second annual Thanksgiving spectacular! We will be discussing little known Thanksgiving facts, some DIY table décor ideas, helpful cooking tips, and what we are grateful for. Don't forget to subscribe to our email list for some lovely giveaway opportunities and exciting new content! What you’ll hear: Some little known Thanksgiving facts Jacey’s appreciation for teachers The first instalment of our #ATTcookingschool What we can and can’t live without on our Thanksgiving table Reflections on what we are grateful for this past year A delightful Thanksgiving poem Can I quote you on that? “Teachers, I want you to know that I appreciate you and am willing to make a fool of myself in social situations.” Jacey “The first Thanksgiving was eaten with only spoons and knives.” Jacey “Always brine your turkeys.” Maggie “Do not ruin my vegetables with canned soup and bread crumbs. Don’t do it.” Maggie “Sometimes, I think God’s grace is us not getting what we want.” Jacey Links: "Thanksgiving, the

This week we are joined by wife, mom, and small business owner, Katie Lewis. We discuss the vision behind her Dear Mushka jewelry line, how to cater to an audience while staying true to yourself, and we also share somewhat shameful concert experiences. What you'll hear: The story behind Dear Mushka A tale of transition into a Christian business How we can share the gospel through wearing beautiful things Thoughts on finding the balance between creating products you love while also catering to your customers Why not to take your dad to an N'Sync concert Can I quote you on that? “Yes our stories are so important, but there is a abigger story that is not being told- the story of the gospel.” Katie Lewis “Beyond telling just OUR story with beauty, we can tell THE story with beauty.” Katie Lewis “I think that when you pray for creativity, the Lord gives it to you.” Katie Lewis “We want things to be more than just pretty, we want them to be meaningful.” Katie Lewis “As creatives, we have the ability to fill a void,

In this episode, we answer YOUR questions. We tell our five minute life stories and how we organize our days. Plus, our must listen podcasts, how to wear bold lipstick, the eternal brunch question and our all time guilty (guiltiest?) pleasures.  BUT FIRST! Make sure you're subscribed to our show in iTunes. Also, we are all in on Instagram: tag a friend you think should join us around the table, and don't forget to use our new hashtags #ATTintention and #ATTindulgence! What you’ll hear: A day in each of our lives Our best apps and tips we use to stay organized Our must listen podcasts How to get started wearing bold lipstick The answer to the eternal brunch question: savory or sweet?! The food version of an embarrassing song on our playlist Our all time guilty pleasures Can I quote you on that? "I tend to plan my day the night before." Maggie "One thing that works really well for me is categorizing my days and doing things at the same time." Jacey "I think having friends you cannot live a fake life for is key.

In this week's episode, we host our monthly segment of Read/Watch/Listen/Follow, and we discuss the wonderful world of Amazon product reviews. Like what you hear? We would love if you would submit your favorite Around the Table episode on NPR's earbud.fm. What you’ll hear: What we’re reading, watching, listening to, and following Whether or not we are swayed by internet reviews Some highly entertaining (and slightly disturbing) Amazon reviews Can I quote you on that? “The thing with reviews is that people are more likely to write one if they have a negative experience.” Maggie Links: Pretty Girls Entitlement vs Worthiness Wolf by Wolf Gretchin Rubin quiz Happier Podcast Off Camera: Jake Gyllenhall Adele: Hello Rach Kincaid: Get After Grafteful Ellen: Bic Pen Thoughts, questions, comments? Find Around the Table on Instagram or Twitter, or leave a comment below. Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog The post The entertaining world of Amazon reviews plus Read/Watch/

We are joined for this lunch break by author, mom, podcaster, and ENFP, Megan Tietz. We discuss YouTube and Periscope, which insights Megan's found most valuable from Myers Briggs, some no fail recipes, and podcaster's dream dinner party. What you'll hear: Megan's thoughts on blogging vs. podcasting Megan's amazing insights on Myers Briggs Differences between Myers Briggs and the Enneagram The podcaster's dream dinner party A surprising turn of the tide on Jacey's disdain for Facebook groups Can I quote you on that? "I love seeing people explore creative pursuits." Megan Teitz "There's something for everybody on YouTube." Megan Tietz "Understanding how my brain is wired helps me give grace to myself." Megan Tietz Links: Listen to the Sorta Awesome Podcast Sorta Awesome Ep. 21: Uncovering the awesome of YouTube Sorta Awesome Ep. 15 Sixteen shades of awesome: all about Myers Briggs Around the Table personality typing episode Megan's chocolate cake recipe The Pioneer Woman's perfect pot roast Connect with Megan

In this episode, we discuss the why and how of forgiveness, plus different types of forgiveness. Then, in our new segment, "Stuck in a Rut," we each share an area where we're stuck and help each other get out of that rut. Maggie lacks Instagram inspiration, and Jacey constantly apologizes for things that aren't her responsibility.  BUT FIRST! Make sure you're subscribed to our show in iTunes, and don't forget to use our new hashtags #ATTintention and #ATTindulgence! What you’ll hear: The physical effects of harboring resentment Different types of forgiveness Maggie's Instagram rut Jacey's "I'm sorry" rut Can I quote you on that? "Once you are really awakened to what He did, the forgiveness He extended, it's not even a 'we should because Jesus said so,' it's a 'we have to, because who are we to withhold this precious gift that was extended to us so freely?'" Maggie "The baggage is still going to affect you even if the relationship's no longer there to be tended." Jacey "Learning how to forgive is really import

In this Five on Friday episode, we share ideas for ways to spend your time on October 31st that have nothing to do with Halloween.  Maggie: Go see a film Learn something! Attend a cooking or mixology class Spend time making Thanksgiving and Christmas decorations Host a party for other Halloween curmudgeons (aka: a normal dinner party) Volunteer and give back to your community Jacey: Snag reservations to a fancy restaurant Make popcorn balls Play Halloween candy Jenga Offer to be a designated driver 'Dress up' as an adult comfortable in your own skin Links: Jacey's Recommended Popcorn Treats Jimmy Kimmel's Halloween Candy Pranks Find Around the Table on Instagram or Twitter Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog The post Five on Friday: things for Halloween curmudgeons to do on October 31st appeared first on Around the Table Podcast.

In this week's episode, we talk about beauty, fashion, and style, and we discuss why those things matter to us. What you’ll hear: Our personal style and make up history The role of style in either hiding or showing up socially The stigmas and stereotypes of over dressing and under dressing The importance of personal appearance in tackling your day A few practical tips for finding your own style Can I quote you on that: “If you’re beautiful or you care about things like makeup or fashion then that is sometimes seen as mutually exclusive from being smart or ambitious or hard working.” - Jacey “For some reason, I put a lot of value in being efficient and being able to wake up and leave the house in 30 minutes.” - Maggie “I see it as an outward symbol that I am showing up for myself, for my friends, for the Lord, for my health, for my life.” - Jacey “It (fashion) was a way of masking insecurity because people would talk about what I was wearing as opposed to me.” - Maggie “If I leave the house put together, I fee

In this episode, we discuss the many problems with "follow your passion" as career advice, the truth about the paleo diet, and whether diet or exercise impacts health more. BUT FIRST! Make sure you're subscribed to our show in iTunes. What you’ll hear: The problems with the career advice that says, "follow your passion" Some more important things than passion to help you choose fulfilling work How the paleo diet falls short, and what to do instead Can I quote you on that? "One of the first risks associated with following your passion is the fact that that passion is variable." Maggie "Even hitting mastery at something doesn't mean it's going to intersect with a career." Jacey "I like hearing the sound of my own voice, let's be honest." Maggie "I'm under no delusion that I'm entitled to earn a living from my passion." Jacey "There's very little research that validates that a paleo diet is good for athletic performance." Maggie "You can't exercise enough to make up for a bad diet and you can't eat well enough t

Photo by Gina Zeidler We are joined for this lunch break by author, speaker, owner of Naptime Diaries, cofounder of The Influence Network and wife + mama, Jess Connolly. We discuss the most hilarious slash amazing wedding gift ever, a life changing moment in the Walmart parking lot, and why taking care of yourself is key to loving others well. There's laughter, tears, and so much heart. Also! Jess has graciously agreed to give away a Naptime Diaries canvas! Make sure you're following us on Instagram so you don't miss a chance to win. What you'll hear: Technical difficulties real talk What Jess would say to a woman who feels small and insignificant The dangers of fame Why boundaries and self care are key to loving people well Can I quote you on that? "The number one thing I would want to say to any woman is 'you have influence right where you are.'" Jess Connolly "I genuinely believe that life change and world change happens right where we're at." Jess Connolly "The only reason I have a platform is that it was

In this episode, we discuss the prevalence of flakiness in our modern culture and share our read, watch, listen, and follow recommendations for this month. What you’ll hear: A big fat thanks from us to you all for being such super star listeners! How to win a Starbucks gift card What is ghosting? Tips on how to avoid having to cancel plans Thoughts on commitment and what flakiness communicates in relationships What we’re reading, watching, listening to, and following this month Can I quote you on that? “One thing social media has done to our plans with people is that we are so much more aware than we used to be of what everyone else is doing.” – Jacey “What is ghosting…like scoping but for dead people?” – Jacey “A lot of what stresses me out with social events could have been prevented with better preparation” - Maggie “There is no shame in saying ‘No’ on the front end.” – Jacey “ We accept that relationships are hard when it comes to marriage or parenting or something, but it’s true of friendship, too.” – Ja

In this Five on Friday episode, we discuss fun and firm ways to say no. Maggie: "Thanks for thinking of me, but I just can't." "That date doesn't work, but maybe another time." "I'm not taking anything else on right now." "That's a negative, Ghost Rider." "I'm just in a season of 'no' right now." Jacey: "Let me check my calendar and get back to you." "I can't do it, but ______ might be interested." Have qualifiers that create boundaries when agreeing to things. Don't casually agree to things in the moment. "No." is a complete sentence "If it isn't a clear yes, then it's a clear no." Essentialism "To uphold our highest priorities and relationships, we do have to say no." Jacey Links: Find Around the Table on Instagram or Twitter Maggie on Instagram, Twitter, and her blog Jacey on Instagram, Twitter and her blog The post Five on Friday: ways to say no appeared first on Around the Table Podcast.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of quantity time (not just quality time) in relationships, and the movies that punctuate the events of our lives. BUT FIRST! Who do you know that you'd like to invite around the table? Your mom? An old friend? A coworker? A cousin? Your child's preschool teacher? Your barista? Reach out to them now and share your favorite episode! What you’ll hear: Our feelings about hot yoga (#hotyogahater) The limits of "quality time" in relationships Movies that punctuate the events of our lives (and some of our favorites) Can I quote you on that? "Quantity time creates more opportunity for quality time." Maggie "If you try to engineer quality time...it also puts a lot of pressure on it." Jacey "[The belief in quality time] suits our super busy way of doing things and makes us believe that we're not missing anything...but I think we are missing something, and there are always trade offs." Jacey "The mundane is where the treasure is...that's where the good and meaty conversations a

We are joined for this Around the Table lunch break by Jamie Ivey of The Happy Hour podcast. We chat about the benefits of a social media break, what we've been reading, and the truth about vacations with young kids. What you'll hear: The importance of alone time for parents (away from their kids) What it's like to take a two month social media break Some fantastic book recommendations Three podcast nerds talk about podcasting Can I quote you on that? "Making friends...isn't that weird that that's hard as you get older?" Jamie Ivey "You don't have to be friends with everyone." Jamie Ivey "You do the same thing you do at home, but in a different house." Jamie Ivey, on vacation with young kids. "I talked to people a lot more and told them what I was doing. Instead of just Instagramming about a new restaurant, I would call a friend and tell them to try it." Jamie Ivey, on a social media break Links: Nearly Normal by Tracey Fields For the Love: Fighting for Grace in a World of Impossible Standards by Jen Hatmaker