Confessions Of A Werkaholic

Sis, let’s talk about it—sometimes life will humble you real quick and force you to rethink EVERYTHING. After my husband’s heart attack, I couldn’t ignore the signs any longer. We had to get real about our priorities, because what is all this hard work for if it’s costing you your health?In this episode, I’m sharing the tough conversations, the bold decisions, and the mindset shifts that came from this wake-up call. From pulling my son out of school to questioning whether we even need this big ol’ house—everything was on the table. Because one thing is for sure: we cannot continue to sacrifice our peace, our family, and our well-being for jobs that would replace us in a heartbeat.So now, the mission is clear—how do we build a life where rest isn’t a luxury, but a necessity? How do we take time off without waiting for a crisis? And how can YOU start making shifts now before life forces you to?Tap in for this real talk and let’s get serious about what truly matters. Because baby, if it ain't adding to your

Sis, can y’all believe we’re creeping up on 200 episodes?! And what better time to make this pivot? If you missed last week’s episode, go run it back, because I shared how God has been tugging on my spirit to go deeper—beyond the fluff, beyond the guests, and straight to the mission.This week, I’m getting real about one of the most life-altering moments I’ve ever faced—my husband's heart attack. This experience shook me to my core, but it also brought a new level of clarity, revealing WHO my people are, HOW powerful I truly am, and WHY I can’t place my entire identity in any title—wife, mama, entrepreneur, or otherwise.So I gotta ask you—what is your pain trying to teach you? What lesson has been right in front of you, but you’ve been ignoring it? It’s time to stop playing and start paying attention, because God always has a plan—even in the midst of the storm.Tap in for this raw, unfiltered conversation, and let’s get back to focusing on the STAR player—YOU. ✨

Sis, this one is personal.In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing a life-changing moment that rocked my world, tested my faith, and reminded me just how "War-Ready" I need to be for the people I love. After the year I had, I realized that being a wife, a mother, and a woman of faith means being ready to step up at any moment. This isn’t just a catch-up—it’s a testimony of God’s grace, a lesson in alignment, and a reminder that when life calls, you better be ready to drive.Let’s talk about love, resilience, and the power of obedience.

Sis, it’s time to rethink how we’re setting up the next generation for success. In this episode of Girl Stop Playin, I’m diving into my early homeschool journey, and let me tell you—y’all have questions! While I’m no expert just yet, I found someone who is. I brought on Nicole P. Doyle, a homeschooling veteran and community leader, to share her wisdom, her lessons, and her experience raising and homeschooling four amazing kids (three of whom are now college-bound or graduates—hello, receipts!).

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin’. I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Pam, who’s done some serious work on a topic that many of us can relate to, whether we want to admit it or not—the “mother wound.” Now listen, I’ve shared bits of my own journey with my momma, and let me tell you, this conversation hit different. Dr. Pam breaks down how the dynamics between mothers and daughters can shape us in ways we may not even realize until we grow up and start navigating life on our own.Dr. Pam’s seen it all—from women in prison who experienced deep, severe trauma introduced by their mothers, to high-powered professionals who dealt with more subtle forms of emotional neglect. It’s wild how this mother-daughter thing shows up in so many different ways, but the impact? It's real, and it can stick with us for a long time. She even wrote a whole book about it called Surviving Mama—and trust me, this conversation is a must-listen.We got into how, as daughters, we don’t always start seeing our moms

Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with the incredible Dana Frank! Dana is the general managing partner of her family’s company, Frank Family Properties, and has spent the last 25 years expanding their real estate investments across Washington state and Arizona. Under her leadership, the company has been featured in the Seattle Times and celebrated for its achievements in property management.In this episode, Dana and I dive deep into the dynamics of running a family business, the importance of creating generational wealth, and how to navigate the ups and downs of working with family. Dana shares valuable lessons on instilling a strong work ethic in your children and how to ensure they understand the value of hard work without feeling entitled.We also touch on the current economic climate and Dana’s expert advice on investing in real estate. Plus, we discuss the changes that come with menopause and Dana’s personal journey through it, including practical tips for managing symptoms.Tune in for an enlightenin

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin, you get to meet the resilient and inspiring Kristin Biggs. Kristin shares her heart-wrenching journey of overcoming unimaginable losses, including the murders of her husband and son. Despite these tragedies, Kristin has channeled her grief into a powerful mission to help others through her book, "Release & Unleash Grief," and her nonprofit organization. She discusses the importance of self-love, resilience, and finding purpose amid pain.This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith and community. Join us for an authentic and hopeful conversation that will encourage you to stop playing and start living with purpose and intention.CONNECT:Follow Kristin on IG: http://instagram.com/iamkristinbiggsFollow Koe on IG: http://instagram.com/koereyelleSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/girlstopplayin/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcir

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin’, I got to sit down with the beautiful Crystal Shae Raw, and let me tell y’all, it was a whole vibe! We’re diving into something a little different today—how what you put into your body directly impacts your life, your energy, and the work you do. I know we always talk about chasing those coins, but sis, you can't show up as your best self if you’re not fueling your body the right way!Crystal came through with all the gems on health, wellness, and how taking care of yourself from the inside out sets you up for success in every area of your life. It’s not just about the grind—it’s about making sure you have the energy, clarity, and strength to show up for it. I’m telling you, this episode will make you think twice about what you’re feeding your body and your mind. Crystal’s holistic approach to wellness is something we can all take notes from!So if you're ready to start treating your body like the temple it is, tune in and let Crystal Shea break it all the way down!S

In this episode of Girl Stop Playin', I’m sitting down with my girl, Nurse Coach Ashley Smith, to have a real, raw conversation about what it truly means to take control of our health and wellness. Ashley’s been a nurse for over 15 years, but she’s not your average nurse—she’s all about that holistic lifestyle and empowering Black women to live their best, healthiest lives outside of the traditional medical system.We’re breaking down the myths, exposing the truth, and getting into the six pillars of lifestyle medicine that every woman needs to know. From stress management to nutrition, sleep, and social connections, Ashley is dropping gems that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about your health.This episode is for my sisters who are ready to stop playing with their potential, take back their power, and live a life full of wellness from the inside out. Don’t miss out on this one—your health will thank you!CONNECT:Follow Ashley on IG: http://instagram.com/nursecoachashleyFollow Koere

Today, we’re diving into a conversation that’s gonna get a little *canna-curious*! I’m joined by the incredible Dr. Demetria Bates, a nurse practitioner who’s making waves in the cannabis world.If you’ve ever been curious about cannabis or felt like you’re stuck in the “canna-closet,” this episode is for you. Dr. Bates shares her journey from traditional medicine to becoming a certified cannabis educator. We’re talking all about how cannabis can be a natural alternative to those prescription meds that come with a laundry list of side effects. We’re also breaking down the myths, the stigma, and the science behind CBD, THC, and everything in between.Whether you’re looking for ways to manage anxiety, pain, or even just curious about the benefits for kids and pets, we’re covering it all. Dr. Bates also spills the tea on the differences between natural cannabis and those synthetic Delta-8 products you see popping up everywhere.So grab your notebook, your favorite drink, and get ready to take notes, because this ep

Today, we have an incredible guest joining us, my girl Nia Renee! She’s not just a powerhouse; she’s the creator of “How to Love a Battered Woman,” a relationship coach, motivational speaker, author, and so much more.Now, y’all already know I love to start things off by letting my guests properly introduce themselves, so we can make sure we’re putting some respect on her name! Nia opens up about her journey, sharing how she turned her pain into purpose. She talks about her traumatic childhood, growing up in a household where her mother was not just a parent, but also her first bully. This led her into a cycle of toxic and abusive relationships in adulthood because that chaos was all she knew.We dive deep into the roots of her trauma, discussing how her upbringing affected her view on relationships and self-worth. Nia shares how she had to unlearn those toxic patterns and do the hard work to heal and grow. She gets real about how, for so many of us, the issues we face as adults are rooted in childhood experien

In this episode, Rosalee shares her journey from banking to becoming a professional nanny and doula. She explains how her passion for caregiving, stemming from her childhood and teenage motherhood, led her to this fulfilling career. Rosalee discusses the misconceptions about nannying and the significant impact a skilled nanny can have on a family's life.We delve into the critical role of postpartum doulas and the difference they make for new mothers, especially in the African-American community where traditional support systems may be lacking. Rosalee emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive village, even if it means hiring help, and addresses the guilt and anxiety that often accompany the decision to seek external support.Rosalee also talks about her business, Mothers Helping Hands Atlanta, which offers a range of services including nannying, postpartum care, and medical staffing. She highlights the importance of planning for postpartum needs and provides practical tips for new parents on how t

This week, I'm sitting down with the incredible Courtney Smith, a former stay-at-home mom who turned her kitchen creations into a multi-million-dollar business! Courtney is the founder and CEO of Cristina's Curls, an organic hair and skincare line for children, inspired by her own daughter's battle with cradle cap and eczema.In this episode, Courtney takes us through her journey from whipping up natural remedies in her kitchen to running a full-blown business with a dedicated team. We dive deep into the challenges of scaling a product-based business, the importance of communication in marriage and business, and how to stay true to your brand’s values—even when the big retail stores come knocking.Whether you're a mama, a mogul, or somewhere in between, Courtney's story is sure to inspire you to stop playing with your potential and start making your dreams a reality.CONNECT:Follow Cristina's Curls on IG: http://instagram.com/cristinascurls_Visit Christina's Curls OnlineFollow Koe on

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin', I'm sitting down with licensed marriage and family therapist, Melissa Dumaz, to dig deep into the real work of healing and self-care. Melissa is not only an expert in EMDR therapy—a powerful tool for overcoming trauma—but she's also a holistic healing coach who's all about helping women prioritize their well-being without sacrificing their ambition.We’re talking about everything from recognizing trauma responses in our everyday behavior to the challenges of truly putting ourselves first in a world that tells us to keep pushing. Melissa breaks down how high-achieving women often neglect self-care and why success can sometimes be a trauma response. We’re getting real about setting boundaries, scheduling personal time, and even learning to delegate tasks to protect our peace.If you're on your own healing journey—or thinking about starting one—this episode is for you. We're not just talking about the what, but the how. How to really sit with yourself,

Today, we're talking about something that's often misunderstood but so critical to our well-being—endometriosis.I'm bringing on the powerhouse, Dr. L.J., the holistic hormone expert who's all about helping us understand our bodies better. Dr. L.J. shares her personal journey of battling endometriosis for 16 years before finally getting a proper diagnosis. Sis, it's not just about painful periods—it's chronic, systemic inflammation that affects your entire body.We dive into why black women are often misdiagnosed, the disparities in healthcare, and the importance of advocating for yourself. Dr. L.J. breaks down what endometriosis really is, why it's so often missed, and how you can stand up for your health in a system that's not always on our side. Plus, we talk about the importance of holistic health, functional medicine, and why simply managing symptoms isn't enough—we need to thrive!This episode is packed with truth bombs and real talk about what it means to live well and

On this episode of Girl Stop Playin', I'm reconnecting with my girl Makini Smith, and trust me, this conversation is deep! Makini is not just a transformational mindset coach, podcast host, and five-time author—she's also a mother, a grandmother, and a true chain-breaker when it comes to healing generational trauma.We dive into the powerful lessons Makini has learned on her journey from a young mother at 17 to a woman who's been through the wringer and come out stronger. We talk about the mother wound, the impact of childhood trauma on our adult relationships, and the hard truths about how unresolved issues can shape our lives and the lives of our children. Makini gets real about her own experiences, including a traumatic relationship that forced her to confront her deepest wounds and set healthier boundaries.This episode is all about doing the work—because if you don’t, you’re going to keep attracting the same toxic situations. We also discuss the importance of therapy, the challenges of brea

This week I have my girl Lauren, known for her RHOA appearances alongside her sister, here to share her inspiring journey and wisdom.In this episode, Lauren opens up about her life growing up in Atlanta, her career journey, and the profound experiences that have shaped her path. We dive deep into her transition from working with her sister, Porsha Williams, on various business ventures to finding her own voice and passion in yoga and meditation. Lauren’s authenticity and commitment to living a balanced life shine through as she discusses the importance of self-awareness and mental health.We also explore the challenges and pressures of being in the public eye, especially on social media, and how Lauren manages to stay grounded amidst the noise. She shares her strategies for dealing with online negativity and the significance of therapy, breathwork, and journaling in maintaining mental well-being.Lauren’s story is a testament to resilience and the power of self-discovery. She candidly discusses her experiences

This week’s episode of Girl Stop Playin is all about healing, accountability, and tapping into our inner power. I was so excited to have Shelah Marie on the show. If y’all don’t know her yet, you’re about to get your life because this woman is all about wellness, mental health, and living authentically. We had such a dope conversation about her journey, and trust me, it’s one you don’t want to miss.Shelah shared how she started her path to wellness after dealing with anxiety, depression, and toxic relationships in her 20s. She had this moment of realization where she was like, "Wait, I’m dating my mom’s energy but in a different body!" It hit her hard, and she decided enough was enough. She didn’t want to keep repeating the same cycles, so she got into meditation and started her wellness journey, which led her to build a community and start sharing her story online. We also got real about the “mother wound.” Y’all know that’s something I’ve talked about before—thinking I was the only one with mommy is

In episode 8, we’re diving into some real talk about maintaining wellness and refocusing on mental health. I’m sharing my personal journey of learning to balance the blessings while still giving myself space to dream again.

Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions on child sexual abuse and may be triggering for some listeners.Today, we're diving into a powerful and necessary conversation that needs a trigger warning. We're talking about some heavy stuff, but it's all about transformation, healing, and empowerment.I've got the incredible Aziza Kibibi with me today. Aziza is the founder of Precious Little Ladies, Inc., a nonprofit organization dedicated to preventing child sexual abuse and gender-based violence. Aziza's story is both heartbreaking and inspiring. She’s a survivor of child sexual abuse by her own father, who isolated and homeschooled her, leading to years of unimaginable trauma. Aziza bravely shares her journey of escaping this nightmare, healing, and reclaiming her life.In this episode, we’re going to talk about recognizing grooming behaviors and warning signs of abuse. Aziza gives us practical advice for protecting our children and emphasizes the importance of open communication. Her