Messy Adventures In Living ~ Petrina Fava

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you waiting for it to feel right? Feel easy? Feel good, before you choose it? Many choices are uncomfortable, but is uncomfortable wrong? Or could it be an awareness of a fixed point of view? A firmly held belief that's keeping you stuck? A lie that's held in place? Are any of those even yours? We've learned to believe that we can't help our feelings. What if this isn't true? Assigning significance and meaning to your feelings puts you into massive conclusion and limits your ability to create beyond them. Let’s talk about some questions you can ask yourself to get clear about what you're actually aware of. What could you create if you were willing to choose even in the face of discomfort? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you outrageously happy? Or happy enough? There's a commonly held belief that happiness should come in a "good enough" quantity. Is being ridiculously happy unnecessary if you're content? What's stopping you from asking for more happiness? Would it be too much to handle? Have you even considered asking for more happiness? And if you have ... why isn't it showing up? What would it be like if you were  happier than you thought was necessary? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show How many years of your life have you spent trying to be normal? Or at least ...trying to appear normal to your friends? Family? Co-workers? The world? How many parts and pieces of you have you cut off in an attempt to avoid being judged as strange, weird or different? Bending and folding yourself into something you that you're not hurts. It hurts your being, and it hurts your body too. Those people whose judgement you are trying to avoid; are they worth it? Trying to fit in is exhausting. And, it's mean. Because the world needs you. Normal doesn't change the world. Normal perpetuates more of the same, and you, being your weird abnormal self, is a gift beyond measure. Why are you holding it back? Stop being such a jerk and give us your weirdness already! Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.co

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show We make choices constantly. At least ... in our minds. Whether or not we act on them is another story. When your choices are uncomfortable or judge-able, do you look for justifications? Ways to defend your choices to others? To yourself? And when you don't find any obvious ones, do you unconsciously create justifications and call them problems? Do your problems force you to choose? Do they justify and defend your choices? Are you unconsciously provoking and creating drama so that your choice appears to be justified? What if you could just choose, without having any reason...other than...because you can?  What if problems were not a necessary push to choice? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show "I don't think I can", "What if I'm wrong?", I don't know". Doubt. The great distractor. The killer of dreams. Your biggest barrier to greatness. We've come to accept that doubt is a normal part of life, but what if it doesn't have to be? How many of your creations would come to life if you never, for a second, doubted yourself? Tools to eliminate doubt from your reality and create the life you know is possible. Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! -www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Have you ever said these words: "Everyone wants something from me!" "How can I keep up with all these demands?!" Are you trying to create a business, a family, a relationship...wishing people would want you or your service, while also resisting being demanded? My guest Julia Sotas knows something amazing about what gets created when you are willing to be in demand. Are you ready to be willing to be TOTALLY demanded? Petrina Fava is always creating something new and it’s almost always quite messy! She enjoys having lots of projects on the go all while being a perfectly imperfect wife and mom of three! Julia Sotas: www.juliasotas.accessconsciousness.com/   www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Beauty. What is it? Who defines it? Whose standards are you judging yourself against? So many of us are trying to attain beauty, but as we define it in this reality, beauty is a judgement. A set of standards to be compared to. Can you BE a judgement? Can you attain a judgement? What if your beauty is undefinable? When you are in a space of no judgement and when you have total gratitude for your body, you exude the energy of beauty! Join me and my guests, Cassy Summers and Sarah Grandinetti; the creators of the I Am Beauty 30 Day Challenge and the I Am Beauty Movement. So..if you weren't judging yourself, what would you know about how beautiful you really are? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Are you the kind of person who gets super excited about an idea and then, as soon as you start putting it into motion, gets dragged down by all the hows and whens and wheres? Maybe you need to sit down and think about setting some reasonable goals instead of acting on emotion. Be reasonable. Lower your standards a little and set realistic goals. Stop being such a dreamer and get real.  BLEH! Or...NOT! When did you buy that baloney? Who did you buy it from and what has the price of that baloney been? You're not just an unrealistic dreamer. You know you have the ability to create great things. If you didn't buy the lies of "reasonable goals", how much magic could you create? Let's dream big and start getting unreasonable! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Well you chose it. So it’s your own fault. Feeling blamed? Blaming yourself? Does the concept of “everything is just a choice” have you feeling like the mess you are in is your own fault? Since you chose it? Where did you learn to equate choice with fault? When did the lightness of choice become heavy with responsibility? Acknowledging choice is very different than blame. How many insidious judgments does it take to turn choice into fault? If you eliminated blame, would you be more willing to choose? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show It's a brand new year! Happy 2017! This time, no hoping. No wishing. You're not a Disney princess. Get out there and get choosing. Choice creates. What do you know is possible? And what choices can you make to create that? What will your choices create this year? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Messy Adventures in Living ~ Petrina Fava Radio Show Ready to get your Christmas Ease on? Stressful holidays are so last year! EASE is the new black! The idea that the holidays are stressful is a lie. A construct. Simple as that. You can choose ease. Holidays are for celebrating with joy, laughter and gratitude! Not bah-humbug, stress and grumpies of magnitude! If you’re finding yourself dreading the holidays, come join us for some tips on choosing joy this Christmas! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Were you ever shown the energy of adventure? Or has your life been one responsibility after another? Can you remember the sense of adventure you had as a kid, but are wondering where your sense of adventure went? It’s easy to replace adventure with fear, responsibility, and obligation? Are you living an adventure? Or getting through life? And … would you like to change that? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What are you tired of? Struggling? Trying? Fighting? Are you tired of those things? Or are you tired of the NOT You? Trying to be someone you’re not is exhausting. And when you get a taste of possibility, it’s downright intolerable. What do you know about how much more is possible for you? And are you ready to have it all? Is it time to be all of you? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you often accused of trying too hard to see the good in everyone? How many times have you been called naïve; too nice? You’re not wearing rose coloured glasses. The beauty you see in them is real.  You have an amazing capacity to see beauty, there’s just something else that you’re not willing to see.  Ever find yourself giving people too many chances because you know, deep down, they’re a good person; only to be disappointed time and again? If so, there’s a question you haven’t been asking.  What if you could acknowledge the beauty in people while also seeing where they are unwilling to choose it? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Is “life” keeping you distracted from living? Distracting you from creating the life you would really like to have? Family, Jobs, Mortgages, Health, Kids, Relationships. ..all necessary responsibilities that come with life.  Or are they? Are you tired of doing “life”? Would you be willing to stop putting energy into the distractions and start living? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

I know I asked for change! But wait! It wasn't supposed to be THIS! Are you judging how the change is showing up? What if you gave it the space to create it's magic? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Hi there, we’re Ghosts.  Yes, we are real.  We’ve been trying to talk to you, but you haven’t been listening! And it’s not that you can’t hear us, you can.  See here’s the problem, you think you’re going to hear our voices or see our faces.  Some people do, but not most. Almost always, our whispers are subtle and you do perceive them, but not in the way you think you you’re supposed to, so you brush them off as coincidence.  You’re scared to acknowledge what you really know. Sure, some of us can be jerks like we were when we were alive. Don’t be scared, we aren’t any more powerful than you are. Some of us are asking for your help, some of us want to throw a little magic your way and a few of us don’t even realize we’re dead! What if most of what you’ve heard about ghosts in the movies wasn’t true? What if communicating with us looks nothing like what you expect? Wouldn’t it be amazing to tune into the whispers of your loved ones?  How much fun could you have creating your life with your teammates’ contributio

Bad words. Nice words. Right words. Wrong words. Politically correct words. Hurtful words. Healing words. What do they all mean? Do they have meaning? Or energy? What could be created if acknowledged the energy of words rather than attach meaning to them? What if you could use the energy of words instead of their meaning to create what you desire? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What do kids know about bodies that we are not willing to acknowledge? We try to control what they eat, how much they eat, when they eat, when they sleep and how much they sleep, what they wear and even how they move. We give them “code names” for body parts.How many of our own conclusions about bodies are we projecting onto our kids? How early do they learn that bodies are to be hidden, not talked about or even shameful? Are we protecting them? Or teaching them to disregard their awareness and dampening their natural ability to communicate with their bodies? What would it be like if we allowed them to honour their bodies by making their own choices? What would that create in the world? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

You can’t stay at any one job for very long. Just when you start getting good at one thing you become interested in something else. When you were a kid, you wanted to learn guitar, then piano, then trumpet, then drums and then guitar again. You jump from one thing to the next and never stick to one thing. You wonder why that business you started a few years ago with so much enthusiasm is suddenly boring. Your relationships never last.  Do you quit too easily? Or … do you have a high level of creativity and a low tolerance for boredom? Are you a quitter? Or a chooser? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for ch