Messy Adventures In Living ~ Petrina Fava

Great news! You’re in the driver’s seat! You have been all along! What you do you mean you didn’t know that? Who did you think was driving?! You have been creating your life with choices. Whose choices have they really been?  Yours or someone else’s?  When you create your life from someone else’s choice, you end up resentful, unhappy and angry. What would it be like to become aware of what you truly desire, and acknowledge that you are in the driver’s seat, and that you can steer your life in any direction you choose. Now…where would you like to go? What adventures would you like to have? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it.

How uncomfortable are you with discomfort? Are you waiting for a choice to feel good before you choose it? Sometimes choices are uncomfortable, but discomfort can be an exciting space of change and new creation … if only we didn’t judge it and try to get rid of it so quickly! What is so uncomfortable for you that it makes you want to crawl out of your skin?  Now, truth … Is your greatness hiding in there? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

So… you’ve embraced your weirdness and have let go of trying to fit into this reality! Great! Now…are you truly willing to totally stand out? Even if it means being the only one who gets you? Is there somewhere you are still trying to be part of the “it” crowd? Even just a little bit? Have you completely given up fitting in or just shifted over into a different group? Our need to belong is creating more separation in our lives and in the world. How much of ourselves do we have to cut off in order to belong? How much does belonging have us trying to do it like someone else? Would you be willing to be totally different, even if that means following what you know when not even one person is willing to come along with you? What if belonging creates separation and individuality creates communion? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you

Are you trying hard to think positive, banish all negativity, focus on your happy mantras but finding that you are still unhappy? Thinking positive thoughts only and blocking out everything negative is a little like putting on a blindfold during a fire and telling yourself everything is going to be ok. If you acknowledged the fire and were aware of your options, wouldn’t you move your butt and GET OUT?! Are you sweeping your awareness under the rug in favor of positive thinking? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.a

Longing for your youth? Remember wishing you could be a grown up so that you could do whatever you wanted; excitedly looking forward to a future when you could finally choose for yourself? When did you become a grown up and was it anything like you expected? Have you taken on "old"? What if growing up and growing old are lies? Are we setting kids up with this lie? How can we show them that they can choose for themselves now instead of "when they grow up"? Have you bought the aging lie and how much are you fighting it? What if your resistance to aging and your unwillingness to play are creating the aches and pains you've labeled "getting old"? You don't actually have to grow up. Wouldn't it be great to have all the bonuses of being an adult with all the carefree joys of childhood too? You can! Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life yo

Do newborns take 21 days to build the habit of eating? Do they need motivation to poop? They just do it, right? What do they know? What awareness are they willing to have that we, as adults, are not? Do habits really bring success? Or are they autopilot systems that dampen your awareness? If you are truly excited, do you need motivation? And if you are not excited …why are you choosing it? Because you have to? How many things in your life are “no choice” options for which you’ve decided you need habits and motivation to make you do them? And is this really how you would like to live? What if you never need to create a habit or build motivation again? What if it’s ok to just choose? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with

Yes. You Can. And it’s nothing like what you think it is.  Do you look around at people travelling the world giving inspiring seminars and TED talks, building schools in third world countries or starting movements that inspire people across the globe and think … “I could never do anything that big, I could never do anything that impactful?” TED talks, building schools and spearheading movements can create enormous change! And…there’s more.  It starts with you.  What if your choices are not just one small drop in the vast ocean?  The wonderful poet Rumi said “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop”. You are not just small person in this vast universe. You ARE the entire Universe. All the miracles of the universe are within you. The world is demanding change. You are the world. Time to step up and BE the change.Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the

Deadbeat Dads. Absentee Fathers. They abandoned you. They forgot you. They made you cry. They abused you. They drank. They gambled. They treated you like garbage. What could possibly be right about any of that? Have you felt left out, ripped off, rejected? Did you grow up proving you could make it without them? Are you still angry? What if your deadbeat dad has been the gift you have been unwilling to receive? Join me and my guest, medium and intuitive Keisha Clarke, as we connect with dads who have been far from ideal. Has your dad passed on? Would you like to connect with him and release all the junk you’re still holding onto? What could be possible if you were willing to receive the unexpected and unlikely gift of him? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?

Have you ever heard of a chameleon with an identity crisis? Do you think other animals accuse them of being flakes because they change their colours to suit the world around them? No? Then why are you beating yourself up for faking it once in a while? Ever consider the possibility that in certain circumstances, blending in might actually be a contribution? Or a way to manipulate someone into choosing greater for themselves? It may be a capacity you have. It certainly would create more … *gasp* … EASE… for you, but you wouldn’t want that, would you? If you’re convinced that you must, at all times, be your most true self in every moment, you might just be missing opportunities to blend in and change the world ever so quietly. www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you still cat-fighting with other women? Jealous? Competing? Just overall hating? What’s the deal?! How much are you cutting out of your life by holding this in place? Well…guess what? Something else is really possible! And it could be the key to receiving more of everything in your life. Join me and my guest Jenny G Perry as we talk about what could change for you if you were willing to end the cat-fights. Are you ready to stop acting like a teenage drama queen now? http//jennygperry.com/ www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What’s your waiting game? Do you notice yourself furiously impatient for change; refusing to wait and demanding that it show up NOW while at the same time, waiting for everything or everyone else to fall into place first? Isn’t that an interesting dynamic? So what are you waiting for? Who are you waiting for?  What is this see-saw of “waiting while also resisting waiting” creating in your life?  What is it creating in your body? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you ANGRY ?! FURIOUS?! PISSED OFF at all the lies, unkindness and outright bullshit in this world?! AWESOME!! Me too! And I’m done with all the “hoping”, “praying” and “wishing” that things would change.  When did you learn that anger was wrong? When did you decide that your anger was right? What have you decided anger is that it actually isn’t?  I wonder if the best “Anger Management” Program is recognizing where your anger is actually Potency. What massive change could we create if we acknowledged that? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.pet

So…Do you? Do you like it hard? Is it not as good if it comes easily? Have you subscribed to the idea that the end result is sweeter if getting there was hard work? And what’s showing up in your world because of this belief? How much do we glorify struggle and effort? Can the universe give you the ease you are asking for if you believe hard is valuable? Are you even willing to ask for ease? What if life didn’t have to be hard? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

“That’s Life!”  … What’s Life? Hard? Sucky? Disappointing? And… really? Says who? Such words of resignation! How many lies about how crappy life is, have you bought? What other lies are you living by? Are you sure you want to make these your tagline? “That” is NOT Life.  Life is whatever you create it as. What are you creating today? And if what you are creating is not what you desire, how can you change it? Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the magic is right in your own hands? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Parenting. The hardest job in the world. The best job in the world. The most beautiful joy you will ever experience. The biggest responsibility in your life. The greatest source of personal self-judgement.  Does it ever seem like the harder you try to be a good parent, the worse you feel and the unhappier your kids get?  What if the willingness to get it all wrong is what would create the most ease, joy and fun in your family? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Our animal friends. Their limitless affection, unbridled joy of living and playful energy are just a few of the amazing gifts we receive from them. Their loyalty and friendship is like no other. When it is time for them to go, we are often so sad and grief stricken that we may miss the most beautiful gift of all. What can animals show us about ease with death? What if our grief and tears are walls to communicating with them once they have passed on? Join Suzy Godsey and I as we discuss one of the most beautiful gifts we can receive from our pets. Are you trying hard to get life right? Are you waiting to get everything perfect and all lined up before you even begin living?  What would it be like to jump right into the messy adventure and start creating the life you truly desire; all while having more fun than you can possibly imagine?   You are invited to come get messy with us and discover that everything you always knew was possible is waiting for you to choose it. Are you looking for change? What if the mag

Mothers, Daughters and Mother in Laws! We love them, we hate them; we blame them for all our insecurities and hangups! We judge them and blame them for our relationship issues! They love us! They guilt us! They project their expectations and blame us for all their disappointments! How many lifetimes of duelling have the two of you endured? Have you had enough? Whether you hate the mothers in your life or love them and whether you have a mother or are a mother, this conversation will challenge the beliefs and opinions that this reality perpetrates. Are you interested in holding onto lifetimes of ongoing combat? Or is it time to end the feud? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Have you been hiding comfortably behind bulky sweaters and jackets all winter? Now that spring is here, how much are you dreading removing the layers and exposing your body shape to the world? If the thought of summer shorts and swimsuits has you thinking about spending summer in a dark cave, maybe it’s time to quit judging your body and come out of hiding once and for all. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to enjoy the sunshine and warmth on your bare skin without a care in the world? Are you waiting for your body to be perfect? What if being vulnerable and allowing your body to be kissed by the earth is the change your body is begging for? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com Join Petrina on the Conscious Birthing series on May 9, 2016! Conscious Birthing

Does this sound like you? You worry that your kids will get kidnapped. You can’t even fathom the idea of your children being seriously injured. You have nightmares about your children dying. You play out every possible worst case scenario over and over in your mind. You do everything possible to supervise your children’s every move, and when you can’t, you are sick with worry. Do you believe that a healthy dose of fear keeps your kids safe?  Are you parenting from fear? Imagine you are a passenger in a car.  Would you feel more safe if the driver was making decisions based on fear or awareness? If you’re parenting from fear you are distracted from what you really need to know. What if trusting your awareness and not being controlled by fear, was the best way to protect your kids? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are are you trying to seduce luxury but having a relationship with poverty? Did you create a pretty good life in spite of poverty? Do value your poverty in some way, are proud of creating a life in spite of it or just seem love it for some strange reason? Your ties to poverty are a turn off to luxury! Would you like to break up with poverty and begin a love affair with luxury instead? Join Erica and I and let’s break off that dysfunctional relationship once and for all! Wouldn’t it be fun to play with luxury instead? You can go here to pick up your copy of The Power of Releasing Judgment www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com