Messy Adventures In Living ~ Petrina Fava

Feeling lonely? Wondering why the universe never seems to send any “good stuff“ your way? Many of us have learned to erect walls all around ourselves to keep out the “bad stuff”, protect ourselves from hurtful people and avoid judgement. Are you standing behind walls that are so thick and so high that nothing can get in and then wondering why you are alone? What would you like to receive more of? Money? Sex? Friendships? Joy? Fun?  What if the key to receiving is vulnerability? Are you willing to push your walls down and receive it all? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

How long have you been in a relationship with judgement? Has it expanded your life? Created magical possibilities? Or has it dulled your brilliance, made you smaller and weakened your spirit? What has your insidious dance with judgement been like? Is it spiraling out of control? Or has your entire life come to a dead stop under it’s weight? Are you ready to break up with judgement? Join me and start writing your breakup letter now! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

“You should be grateful for what you have, there are many with less than you.” “You should be grateful, you have your health and others do not.” “It’s ok, you don’t need to be rich, just be grateful for what you have.” When did we decide that gratitude means looking at who has less and using that to be satisfied with “enough”? Join me in busting the lies of gratitude! What if reaching for the more you know is possible is being grateful? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do you believe in alternative healing? Or modern medicine? Do you use essential oils to treat your eczema? Or antibiotics to fight your infections? Do you resist medical treatment and quote conspiracy theorists? Do you think alternative healing is wacky voo-doo B.S.? Hate doctors? Think naturopaths are fakes? What happens when we decide that one side is right and the other is wrong? What if resisting one or the other, actually cuts off what could create the greatest change for your body?  With such fierce resistance, can you receive the gift that either could be to your body? Join me as I explore the gift of everything that contributes to our bodies including pharmaceuticals, essential oils, doctors and not-doctors! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you afraid to laugh about spirituality in case you may offend the gods? Offend the universe? Invoke the devil with your jokes? Trying hard to get conscious right? Studying metaphysics? Think spirituality is no laughing matter? Oh pleeaase, lighten up! JOY changes the world, silly, not straight faced seriousness! You are invited to join me in releasing your constipation with me. www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Did you immediately bond with your babies when they were born? Did it start to fade at some point? Do you feel cheated because your parents didn’t bond with you? Did you love your kids when they were babies and then start to feel like they just annoyed you more and more every day as they got older? If you didn’t “bond” with your baby, how much were you judged? How much did you judge yourself? Do you feel guilty for not scheduling “bonding time”?  What the heck is bonding anyways and why in the world would you want to be glued to anyone? What if bonding is not what we think it is? What if you could have communion instead of bonding and what does that look like? Let’s explore what else is possible with bonding that may create space and ease within families, friendships and relationships of all kinds! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do you feel like you’re fading as overwhelming despair engulfs you? Are you watching someone drown in depression? While the world is busy diagnosing, medicating, judging and projecting conclusions about victims of depression; a different possibility exists. What if you don’t have to be a victim to a mental disorder? Is it possible that depression is not what we have decided it is? What if the ability to change it lies far outside the box of limitation we have created? Join me as I chat with Dr. Anthony Mattis about real possibilities for happiness when it seems that the world is closing in. http://choosingthebestlife.com/author/drmattis/ www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

You Are a Femme Fatale.  Does this put a mysterious smile on your face? You are a woman who is willing to be and do anything to get what you want. You are strong, potent, clever, manipulative, arrogant and even a little…dangerous.  Nothing stops you. You create a greater world. Are you ready to unleash your Femme Fatale? Join Daria and I as we banish the lies  of the Femme Fatale and unlock the potency within it that can create change in the sexiest, most powerful  way possible. www.unlockingthefemmefatale.com www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What if nothing is wrong with you? NOTHING? Not even … THAT? How long have you been trying to fix you? Fix someone else? Fix the world? Is it working? Do you know something else is possible with that thing you’d like to change? You don’t have to make it wrong to change it! In fact, you can’t change anything you are judging! What if you could create something greater rather than fixing what you have decided is wrong? Join us and find out how you can shift from fixing  problems to creating greater in your life! It’s easier than you think! For details about the class Petrina mentioned Conscious Birthing and Beyond Illusion to Reality Global Series www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What does being special mean to you? How much of your value is locked into being special? What happens when you are in situations when you do not feel special? When there are others around you with the same talents? Are you still standing firm in the knowing that you have something unique to contribute to the world? Or do you judge yourself harshly for being the same, boring, and ordinary? What does singling yourself out as special create in the world? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

So, where’s your stash of skinny clothes? How long are you going to hold onto them as the ideal of what you once were and the fantasy of what you might be that you think is better than they lumpy frumpy self you see yourself as now? Are you using your skinny clothes as motivation to lose weight? To judge yourself out of your “fat” body and back into your “skinny” one? Do you hate your “fat clothes”? Do you resist shopping in the plus size section? How’s that working out so far? Is it fun? How does your body feel when you try to squeeze it into one size smaller than it actually is? What if honoring your body with clothes that fit well, nurturing it with everything that is wonderful and even surrounding it with beautiful things could be the catalyst for inviting it to change? Guest Kim Cooper is an Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator, Author, Magic Maker, and founder of The anti-resolution REVOLUTION! You can learn more about Kim and the Revolution at www.BeingKimCooper.com. Are you trying hard to get li

Most people with children would tell you that parenting is the most difficult job they've ever had. What if it didn't have to be? One of the things many parents struggle with knowing how to deal with is bullying. What if there is a different possibility besides "fixing" this "problem"? What tools can we offer our kids that would that empower them to create something greater rather than waiting to be rescued? Join me for a slightly controversial conversation about bullying as Editor Sadie Lake interviews me about my chapter, "Toolbox for Bullied Kids". You'll also hear other co-authors talk about their chapters in this ground-breaking new book called Possibilities in Parenting!  http://amzn.to/1Un8ETD www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Alright…it’s a brand new year! Toss your commitments to resolutions and hold onto your seat as you dive into a Choose Your Own Adventure book! Do you remember those books? I used to LOVE them! Four or five adventures in one book; the story started out the same but each one took different twists and turns depending on how you chose to turn the pages! How exciting was it to know you could choose one adventure and then choose something different next time? Did you ever peek at the end, wondering what it would be like if you chose this one or that one? What if 2016 could be a year of choosing again and again to see what shows up, rather than a year of strictly committing to inflexible and rigid goals? Come along for the ride if you dare! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

What was 2015 like for you? Did find the man or woman of your dreams? Have a baby? Grow your business? Did you fail at meeting your Resolutions? Go Bankrupt? Lose a loved one? Get fired? Whether you’ve got the end of year blahs or you’ve decided this was your best year ever, judging it as either good or bad is like a huge stop sign to creating greater.  What’s the best way to judge the year in review? The best way is NOT to judge it at all! Should you learn from the mistakes? No! Well what the heck are you supposed to do then?! Join me as I share some awesome tools to drop the judgement and drive full speed ahead into a messy and adventurous 2016… www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Are you feeling the Holiday crunch? Stressed out about visiting family and attending Holiday Parties you’re not actually interested in? Racking up credit card debt to keep up with gift giving obligations? Oh ya, sounds joyful.  Do you know something else is possible, but you don’t want to be the one to do something different?  Remember what the Holidays were like when you were a kid? When you just received the joy of it all? When did that change? And would you be willing to choose that again? Join me for a candid conversation about getting out of the annoyance of the Holidays! www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Feeling like no one sees your brilliance? Do you ever come up with an amazing creation, get super excited about it and then go to share it with someone only feel totally deflated when they aren’t impressed? Do you know that you are doing an amazing job at work, but your boss just will not acknowledge you for it? How often do we allow this to completely dull our shine or stop our creations? Does the sun stop shining if we don’t acknowledge it?  Does it’s warmth and light still contribute to the world even if no one acknowledges it? What would it take to be willing to be all of your big bright shiney self, knowing that you are a contribution to the world, even if no one ever sees you?  What gift have you been withholding because no one can see it…. Yet? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do you feel guilty asking to be paid for your services or products?  How do you respond to friends or family who ask for free or discounted services? What happens when you discount your fee and are not paid what you know you and your product or service is worth? Are you more or less excited when delivering that service? Do you give it your all? What happens to your creations as you begin to become resentful of having to put in many hours only to be paid a fraction of what you would have asked for? What if asking for the amount of money that would be fun to be paid is actually the greatest contribution, not only to honouring yourself, but also to the client’s ability to truly receive the gift your creation is? Let’s destroy all the beliefs that are holding our creations hostage and learn how to ask for what we know we are worth. Join Petrina Fava & Christine McIver this week as they invite you into more Messy Adventures. www.inspiredchoices.ca www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do you ever find yourself held hostage by your reactions or by those of someone who confronts you and you find yourself feeling so very wrong? Do you believe that force and aggression are required to change something? Have you spent your life resisting and confronting? We’ve had a lifetime of practice! What if something easier and more effective is available? Join Petrina Fava and Annie Gelfand in the exploration and sharing of a different possibility. http://radicalwisdom.com www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

If it was raining money, would you put your umbrella up? Or would you go out and play in it; splash around and enjoy it like a child would? Would you even consider using your umbrella to have more? Most of us are unknowingly putting up umbrellas to money. Some of us don’t even realize it’s raining on us because our umbrella is so dark and so thick that we can’t see beyond it! Do you believe there is a limited amount of money you can have? What is this based on? Your education? The kind of job you have? Your lack of skills? Your family? What if none of this is true? What if your beliefs about money are actually barriers in the way of receiving? Are you ready to look beyond the umbrella, turn it upside down and receive? www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com

Do you ever find relationships to be a source of challenge in your life? Like going through a maze and trying to find your way through without a map or key to how it could be better? Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this radio show is for you. Let’s face it. Relationships are everywhere. We are connected to and relating to family, co-workers and friends all the time. Today we will be giving you our TOP TIPS that work to get your relationships out of the maze of frustration and INTO the AHHHmazing! that your relationships can be. Including the one with yourself https://www.synergyinmotion.info/ www.petrinafava.com  www.petrinafava.accessconsciousness.com