Beyond Abuse, Beyond Therapy, Beyond Anything

Judgment is an insidious yet subtle energy. When used against yourself, you become your own eternal jailer, trapped in thinking you’re wrong and worthless. brbr Judgment doesn’t allow for the freedom and expansiveness of greater possibilities. Instead, you keep yourself small and struggling. The only way to get beyond abuse is to get beyond judgment. How do you do this? brbr Join us for today’s show and discover a surprising exercise you can do to experience no judgment, along with other pragmatic tools for moving beyond abuse, beyond judgement, and into a place of unlimited possibilities where you see the phenomenance of you.

On today's show we're going to talk about story and how you get trapped in someone else's reality (like your abuser's reality or someone else you are close with) rather than living your own reality. What does it look like when you're taking on someone else's reality? You get stuck spinning in thoughts and feelings that aren't your own. You feel heavy, dense, suffocating energies and don't know where they came from. You get trapped in repeating the same patterns in relationships. brbr Join us for today's show and discover why you take on someone's story in the first place, the pain of staying stuck there, and what you can do to release yourself from others' realities so you can move forward creating your life for you.

Our bodies lock in abuse. Pain. Trauma. Our bodies lock in shame. Anger. Fury. Rage. Hate. What if you could release all of this? What if instead of going into the abuse you could actually tap into the molecules in your body before they locked in abuse... and return to a place and time in your body that remembers what rest, nurturance, safety, love and acceptance feel like? This is the place beyond abuse; before abuse. This is the place of communion. Join us for the live call and allow me to facilitate you to a place beyond anything. To a place of communion.

You move through life wound up tightly. Anything anyone says sets you off. It may be a word, a touch, a look. And you react. All you know to do is fight, freeze or flee. You may feel crazy. Yet you're not alone. This reaction is what happens when the familiar feelings of abuse occur and set off the ARS. ARS: Automatic Response Systems What are these? How do you re-wire yourself so rather than reacting to life you live from a place of choice? Join us for the show live and discover what Automatic Response Systems are running your life and how you can move beyond them into the empowering place of choice.

What is PTSD? How is it showing up in your life? How do you get beyond it? Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder keeps you trapped in the past, replaying your abuse over and over again in the present. It can look so many different ways: flashbacks, bad dreams, difficulties with concentrating, avoidance, anxiety. PTSD can keep you in a constant state of hypervigilance, on alert rather than able to relax into yourself, your life, your relationships. What would it take to move beyond PTSD and unlock abuse from your body? How can we dissipate this with ease to eliminate and eradicate abuse off this planet? Join us and discover how to move beyond PTSD and remember the magical infinite being you truly are

The Beyond Abuse Revolution was launched with our first radio show back in June when we ran a 13 week series. Now we continue this radical and evocative conversation on moving beyond abuse in a brand new year-long series! Whether or not you joined us for any of the first 13 shows, you are in for quite a ride with this new series. We are taking a topic that’s been taboo and shining the light on it. We’re talking about abuse in a whole new way. This show will question and expand upon everything you once thought possible as a “survivor” of abuse. You’ll discover a whole new possibility for living beyond abuse, beyond therapy, beyond anything. I say, let’s kick abuse in the caboose. Tune in every week for the next year to experience the freedom that’s possible when you choose to move beyond abuse. If you’ve been hoping for a miracle, this show might just be that for you. What do you choose?

The cage of abuse has you walking through life half-dead. All the vitality that is you gets locked up in unexpressed rage and sadness. All the magic that is you gets shut down by shame. All the wisdom of your body gets killed off by fear. You try to control your world to feel safe. You go through the motions: in your relationship to yourself, your body, your partner, your work, your bank account. You are dissatisfied and desperate for more. Yet you feel trapped in all the deadness. What if there was a way to get rid of the deadness and tap into radical aliveness? And what if on the path to radical aliveness you discovered the pleasure and possibilities of your life again? Join us for the last show of this series and discover pragmatic tools for releasing yourself from the deadness of abuse so you can live radically alive.

with Special Guest Susan Lazer Hart The fantasy of Prince Charming and Happily Ever After create a false foundation for relationship. This fantasy has you... 1. Enter into relationship with false assumptions and false personas. As a result you develop points of connection that keep you from being your authentic magical self. 2. Look to relationship as a source of security and status to establish stability in your life. As a result you develop stability points that keep you locked in your own cage. 3. Say to each other things like, Don't leave me, and Don't change. As a result you limit yourself as you try to keep your partner locked in their cage. All of this is a set up for failure. So how do you move beyond the points of connection and stability points? How do you create a radically alive relationship? Join us for this revolutionary conversation and discover the path to right relationship that is enlivening and limitless

with Special Guest - Glenna Rice Has the intensity of pain you've chosen made you the impotent victim of the malevolence of you? Is your sickness, physical pain, chronic illness, weight gain, the intensity of the greatness of you demanding you come out from the cage and LIVE? These intensities are all symptoms of abuse. They are the good reasons you continue the cycle of abuse against yourself by locking yourself in your body (aka the invisible cage) and out of the space of possibility with your body. How do you unlock your body? To experience the true freedom of radical aliveness, you need to be willing to let go of the pain and illness as false security. Join us for this show and discover how to unlock your body and get free of your pain and illness.

With Special Guest Gary Douglas, Co-Founder of Access Consciousness For most of us the lie has been how we're supposed to be, not about our choice of being. If we got over the what we have to be or are supposed to be we could choose what we could be, then a different reality will begin to show up. Most of this reality is abusive in strange & wonderful ways. It’s important to learn how to function in ways that allow us to see greater possibilities. - Gary Douglas The cruel joke about abuse is that it ended a long time ago yet you keep it going by treating yourself like the abuser treated you. Now that’s a bit crazy indeed! Why do you do this? How do you stop divorcing yourself so you can choose you fully? What does that feel like? And what does that make possible? Join us for this very special show & discover more possibilities for yourself beyond abuse, & live beyond anything you have always known possible!

with Special Guest Kass Thomas Money… How much are you willing to receive? How are you blocking yourself from receiving more? In today’s show we’re going to go even deeper into the connection between money and abuse. Abuse is shrouded in secrecy and shame. It’s usually not talked about (unless you’re part of our Beyond Abuse Revolution) and it has a way of twisting around everything good in your life to seem bad or wrong. Money is the same way: shrouded in secrecy and shame; not talked about; and it gets all twisted around. Kass and I will be sharing our own stories of how we had to get honest with ourselves about our own money secrets so we could receive more money in our lives. And we’ll help you shed light on your own secrets and clear them so you create an intimate relationship with money: a relationship where you open to receiving it as a gift into your life. Join us for the show live and have a chance to receive facilitation from both Kass and myself.

Life inside the cage of abuse becomes familiar. The feelings of worthlessness. The repeated patterns of “not enough” or “less than” in all areas of your life: health, relationship, wealth. So when you begin the journey of moving beyond abuse, and leaving the cage, something quite surprising occurs… The freedom, pleasure and possibility you experience is so unfamiliar that it can feel shocking, scary, crazy, and all you want to do is crawl back into the cage. So how do you leave the cage once and for all without it feeling so painful? Join us for this show and discover 3 steps you can take to make friends with the cage of abuse. Join us LIVE and you’ll have a chance to ask your questions and receive support and facilitation from me.

with Special Guest Susanna Mittermaier, Best-Selling Author of “Pragmatic Psychology: Practical Tools for being Crazy Happy” and Licensed Clinical Psychologist Anxiety, depression, bi-polar, ADD, OCD… Many people with a history of abuse also struggle with some form of mental illness. The pain and trauma of abuse, if left untended, can become the grounds for these other issues. Yet these labels can create another kind of cage that locks you into a belief that something is wrong with you. What if the version of crazy that you’re struggling with is actually a superpower… an untapped capacity that when tapped, could lead you into a new reality beyond the label? Join us for today’s show and discover pragmatic tools to tap into being crazy happy.

Struggling with debt? Feeling like your business or job owns you? Frustrated with only ever having barely enough? If you experienced sexual abuse as a child, it’s possible that you’ve blocked yourself from receiving money & joyful work as an adult. All the barriers & defenses that you put up as a child to protect yourself from the pain of the abuse get carried forward as an adult & you block money, opportunity, & success flows in your life. What if it didn’t have to be this way? What if there was a way to open up the flow of money into your life? What if you realized your self-worth isn’t connected to your networth? Special guest Simone Milasas, who went from $187,000 of debt to owning multiple successful businesses will explore moving beyond your limitations around money & into the joy & creative livelihood that is possible.

During abuse, your resourceful young self used coping strategies to try and protect yourself from the pain. Some of these coping strategies, which I refer to as the 4 D’s, are: - Denial - Defending - Disconnecting - Dissociating These behaviors served you at the time. The problem is, you continue to use these behaviors to cope in life as an adult, when they no longer serve you. Instead, they keep you locked up inside an invisible cage, where you become your own eternal jailer. That’s why it feels like you can never escape your abuse. Join us for this call live and discover more about the 4 D’s - what they are, how they’re holding you back in life, and what you can do to break free of them. You’ll have a chance to ask your questions and receive support and facilitation from me to move beyond these dysfunctional strategies into radical aliveness

It’s a very common scenario: You struggled with some form of abuse. You don’t know how to deal with it. You can’t talk about it. The pain is so intolerable that you want to escape it. You want to numb out. Just like you did during the abuse. Since you can’t make it stop you figure you might as well “go away.” So you try to eliminate yourself by numbing out through using alcohol, drugs, sex, or any number of things. Whatever your chosen substance, it can quickly become an addiction. How do you reclaim your power over your chosen substance? How do you eliminate the elimination of yourself? Join us for this provocative, revolutionary conversation where we share a new perspective on addiction and open the door to a way of life where you don’t want to numb out anymore.

“The Orgasmic Body” with Special Guest, Dr. Dain Heer, Co-Founder of Access Consciousness and author of “Being You, Changing The World.” During childhood sexual abuse, your body, energy and space are invaded. The experience can become too painful to tolerate. There is fear, confusion, shock, and in many cases, dissociation. This is when you check out and split off your awareness from what is going on in your body. Your body becomes associated with something negative. As an adult, it may be challenging to be present with your body; you may be closed off to feeling anything. Pleasure and sexuality are deemed bad, dangerous and painful. Opening yourself to receiving, to being present to your experience, let alone enjoying the pleasures of life and being orgasmic, may feel completely impossible. We will explore the theme of The Orgasmic Body, and how to unlock your body from abuse so you can be more present and discover how to enjoy being you

Many people who experienced childhood sexual abuse were silenced in shame and threatened if they spoke up. The terror and shock hid their true voice, blocking their ability to speak up for themselves If this happened to you, you may feel like your voice is locked inside your body; like you’re living in an invisible cage without the key. On today’s show we’ll explore the impact of living with your voice locked up inside of you, and how to unlock your voice. We’ll provide tools, insights, and support to help you view your abuse in a whole new ways. Our special guest, Blossom Benedict, has a unique gift for opening that pockets of silence and showing you the path for reclaiming your voice

Up until recently, there weren’t tools to create profound change in the areas of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), PTSD, and trauma. Traditional psychology says it can take a lifetime to heal. We’re breaking through the glass ceiling of what the psychology world has done. We are revolutionizing the way trauma and abuse are talked about and overcome. In this radio show we are going to question and expand upon everything you once thought possible as a “survivor” of abuse. We go way beyond what’s been done before and show you how you can thrive. In this show you’ll discover it’s possible to live beyond abuse, beyond therapy, beyond anything, to create a limitless life filled with joy and meaning. Join us for the first call in this series… isn’t it time you discovered a whole new possibility for moving beyond childhood sexual abuse?