Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: April 16, 2023 / Published: July 3, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I are joined by Arc_Ulfgrim and AcrDag to talk about everything primal.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Primal Play with AcroDag-S05E03”AcroDag: Bio :Acrodag (He/Him) is a demi-queer sadistic werewolf and national presenter who seeks to share the knowledge they’ve gained as well as highlight diverse experiences and voices in

Recorded: April 2, 2023 / Published: June 27, 2023 You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode, we are helping everyone feel more comfortable in their own skin by explaining why being kinky is not only normal but typical.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Kinky isn’t just Normal it’s Typical-S05E02”“Why You May Not Be as Kinky As You Think”04/03/2023 by Justin Lehmillerhttps://areomagazine.com/2023/03/04/why-you-may-not-be-as-kinky-as-you-think/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/502National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://ku

Recorded: March 19, 2023 / Published: June 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Mayfair. Kuldrin is still out recovering from surgery. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and Kuldrin’s 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -In this episode, while Master Kuldrin is still recovering from his surgery Mayfair and Junicornsangel will be taking over. We asked our Discord Group group what questions they have for a submissives-only show. So chat room, get your question ready for Juni and me! Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Things Onl

Recorded: Feb. 19, 2023 / Published: June 16, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, I am fading off to the background as Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast takes over as moderator for a submissives roundtable with Mayfair, junicornangel, and sub_x13.. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Submissive Roundtable #2-S04E52”Mayfair85 (https://fetlife.com/users/5147394)junicornsAngel (https://fetlife.com/users/8828974)Sub_X13 (https://fetlife.com/users/10968318)Moderated by Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast https://www.eroticawakening.com/ Panel Members:Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/452National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: htt

Recorded: Feb 5, 2023 / Published: June 10, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode Mayfair and I are addressing a listener question about what to do when you catch the feels for a play partner.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Catching the Feels for a Playpartner-S04E51”Anonymous writes:Hello Kuldrin!First, let me say that your podcast is a treasure trove! I just recently entered the BDSM community, and your podcast has been an amazing help!Question: Have you done an episode on catching the feels for play partners? I am in a monogamous marriage but we just started playing with others. I have kind of become infatuated with my first and so far only "extramarital" play partner. Lucky f

Recorded: January 15, 2023 / Published: June 2, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode Master Gabriel is back for a visit to talk about some listener questions regarding contracts, KinkTok, and a few other things.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Contracts, Kink Tok, and More w/ Master Gabriel-S04E50”Trinityfae: (A) Revising and revisiting. (B) Building up and growing a smaller community.Trouble113: What’s the best/safest way to get back into BDSM if you have been out for a long time? And what to avoid.Ariel: "Is he going to be restarting The event called Gentleman in Charge (I think it’s called)? I had heard great things about it, but never got to participate in it because

Recorded: Dec 18, 2022 / Published: May 28, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are talking about Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists. Plus, there will be a bonus conversation about D/s and M/s communication that comes from a listener question.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dark Communities, Yucking Yums, & Sensualists-S04E49”A shout-out to Matt for asking me about these things!What are “Dark Communities”?What is up with the saying “don’t yuck someone else’s yum”?Since nearly everything we do in the world of BDSM makes a person feel something either physically, mentally, emotionally, or any combination of them, what is a sensualist?Bonus Topic:I've

Recorded: 12/04/2022 / Published: May/20/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are joined by _Rhiannon_ of ShadowWeaversEDU to talk about Coercive Control.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Coercive Control with Shadow Weavers EDU-S04E48”Rhiannon is a 31 year old Indigenous woman living in Upstate New York with her Master and two cats. She has been a 24/7 slave in the BDSM community since 2015. While serving she also worked as a Pro-Domme online and in person for the same amount of time. In 2021 Rhiannon took over as Co-Director of MAst Rochester- a chapter of the international organization, Masters and slaves together. This organization historically was founded by membe

Recorded: 11/20/2022 / Published: May/17/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode husband and wife TRexTies and Babylove who also have a D/s dynamic are joining us along with her other Dominant, Dan who you will know from Erotic Awakening Podcast, to talk about the ups and downs of serving multiple Dominants.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Two Doms One sub: Serving Multiple Doms-S04E47”Due to privacy and a current lack of permission, I am unable to share the show notes provided by Babylove. She has not refused permission, I have not yet been able to speak with her about it. When I am able to do so and she approves it, I will edit this with the approved notes. Check back on

Recorded: 11/06/2022 / Published: 5/4/2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode I am talking to JunicornsAngel about her list of eight things every kinkster needs to know. Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Eight Things Every Kinkster Needs to Know w/ Junicorn's Angel-S04E46”Ten Licks:1: How long have been into Kink?2: Top, bottom, or switch?3: Relationship Status?4: Favorite Position?5: Favorite Implement?6: Favorite Roleplay?7: Fav

Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I’m new and one of my biggest fears is that I’ll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not

Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 4/6/2023 - You can text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them.. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Split Peaches and The Dungeon Stores Brittany-S04E43”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/SplitPeacheshttps://thedungeonstore.com/ Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favorite Position?Favorite Implement?Favorite Roleplay?Favorite kink or fetish?Favorite place for kink?Strangest Place you've had sex?Something you want to try?What is the Dungeon Store?What is Split Peaches?Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/443National Suicide Hotline: 1-80

Recorded: 10/02/2022 / Published: //2023- Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this week’s episode we are talking about Top Guilt and how it affects Dom/Top Drop- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top Guilt and how it affects Dom Drop-S04E44”Red guilt:Marking guilt:Accident guilt: Newbie guilt:Religious guilt:Madonna/whore guilt:General guilt:Educating yourself as much can help prevent landmines.Self-exploration:Partnered Exploration:Negotiation:Communication, starting low and going slow:Dom/Top Guilt Defined: feelings of remorse, regret, and/or empathy felt by Doms and Tops after a scene due to the effects of the scene, whether positive or negative, on the submissive or bottom. It can also be cause

Published: Feb. 28, 2023I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing for the podcast feed and new live episodes are recorded via YouTube on the first and third Sundays of every month. The show starts at 3pm est. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTubeWith that said, there may or may not be a live show on March 5th, 2023, due to surgery recovery. I will have to see how I feel the day of and make the call on the fly. If you go to my YouTube channel through the link above and subscribe and follow the channel be sure to turn on the notification so you will know when we are live.As always, a HUGE THANK YOU to all of our producers and everyone that listens to the show!

Recorded: 9/04/2022 / Published: 2/18/2023Text in your question at 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week’s episode we are talking about erotic blueprints and the ups and downs of each one of them..Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Your Erotic Blueprint-S04E42”https://camillestyles.com/wellness/erotic-blueprint/What is an Erotic Blueprint?Conceptualized and trademarked by Miss Jaiya (https://missjaiya.com/), it is a method that helps explain your sexual preferences, needs, and desires. Together, the Five Erotic Blueprints™ give couples and singles a menu of how turn-on works in your body, how you can please your partner and ask for what you want, and how to expand your definition of “sex” into a whole new world of play and erotic p

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023 Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”https://www.eroticawakening.com/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: http

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 02/03/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the weird, bizarre, and nasty things that happen during sex. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The Nasty Parts of Sex-S04E39”https://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/terrible-parts-sex?fbclid=IwAR2u8kbBY7AmQ45AMtQmw2N9jCAGQ0z3otnK1Umi6cJoHo7fGsnMfw3HbUEhttps://www.buzzfeed.com/daniellaemanuel/people-awful-sex?d_id=4742279&ref=bffbsoml&utm_source=dynamic&utm_campaign=bffbsoml&fbclid=IwAR1LvTjjmi0kNstqOKewdZmP7tUHLaTilIFjIncrZPBvLqwAbWY9H3fxT0Y Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/439National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF K

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696“What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].- You're so good at [insert skill].- I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.- You look so hot when you [insert activity].- I can't wait to show you off.- You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].- Your [insert body part] is irresistible.-

Recorded: 7/3/2022 / Published: 01/18/2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode, we are talking about new relationship energy. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“New Relationship Energy-S04E37”What is NRE?the strong emotional, physical, and sexual response you have towards someone when you are in a new relationship with them. NRE is most often thought about with a new partner. However, NRE can be the result of a new friendship, job, vehicle, video game, pet, or basically anything new that enters into a person’s life. How long does it last?It starts from the initial attraction and can last anywhere from three months to two years.What causes NRE?The new relationship causes changes in brain signal

Recorded: 6/5/2022 / Published: 1/10/2023Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode, we are talking about moving to a new community and how to deal with the kink politic of the new community and stay to the end because there are going to be big changes coming to the podcast…so, we are going to talk about those. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Moving to a New Community? Playing with a friend?-S04E36”If possible, prepare early by visiting before you move. At least watch the groups in the area to see which ones are active and what the mood and tone of the groups are. After you have a pretty good idea about which ones you’d like to get involved with reach out to the leaders or active members and let th