Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)7: Lack of education (Jon)6: A culture of pressuring people to go

Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “The New Predator Part 3: Histrionic Personality Disorder-S05E22”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcis

Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.  - In this episode, we are talking to Oklahoma's own 6'3" Ebony Amazon and Professional Domme, Mistress Mia Darque.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/ Quote: "... if for any reason you were unsatisfied with your D/s experience please feel free to complain to the domme that you cho

Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDisclaimer: Mayfair and I are not medical professionals and we are only giving our interpretation of the information. Because our advice is to talk to a professional, if you choose to make any decisions because of something we say, you are making those decisions against our advised and are solely responsible for all outcomes of your decisions.“From a message: How can you call someone with a mental illness a predator?”Answer: Thank you for the question, especially an easy one when someone isn’t emotionally attached to t

Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this first episode of a three part series we are deep diving into the most controversial topic we have address on the podcast: the predatory drama queen.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Drama Queens: The New Predator Part 1-S05E19”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disorders.is a personality disorder characterized by a pervasive pattern of instability. More specifically, Borderline Personality Disorder is characterized by instability in relationships, se

Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024- Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, by request, we are talking about human furniture play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Human Furniture: What, Why, and How?-S05E18”Human furniture refers to a practice within the BDSM community where a person acts as an object or piece of furniture for another individual's use or pleasure. This practice involves a consensual and negotiated power exchange dynamic where one person willingly takes on the role of being used as an object or piece of furniture by another person or group. The person might be positioned or manipulated to resemble furniture, such as becoming a footstool, table, chair, or any other h

Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use [our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to long-time Krypt Producer BuffaloMax about his introduction into BDSM and it saved his marriage and life.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Saved my Marriage and Life-S05E17”Introduction: Buffalo_Max92 https://fetlife.com/users/12215665Ten Licks:How long have been into Kink?Top, bottom, or switch?Relationship Status?Favo

Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about a new study performed by the makers of the KinkD BDSM app that shows 68% of women who try BDSM through online meetups are assaulted.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Study Reveals 68% Abuse Rate in BDSM-S05E16”“68% of women have had a non-consensual experience trying BDSM” by Emilie Lavinia / Wed, 1 November 2023https://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ

Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about the hidden sexual fantasies associated with each Zodiac sign.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Your secret sexual fantasy, according to your zodiac sign”By Reda Wigle Published Aug. 30, 2023 / Updated Aug. 30, 2023https://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/1: ARIES (March 21 – April 19): Rough sex2: TAURUS (April 20 – May 20): Sex in the woods3: GEMINI (May 21 – June 20): Quickie in public4: CANCER (June 21 – July 22): Rope play5:LEO (July 23 – August 22): Voyeurism6: VIRGO (August 23 – September 22): Workplace fantasy7: LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): B

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about where trauma and BDSM connect.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Navigate BDSM and Trauma-S05E14”“Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma” by Tanisha RK / Sept. 25, 2023https://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/1: Understanding Trauma2: Navigating BDSM3: Where Kink and Tr

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: Nov 30, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com.- - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?!- - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed - 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity - 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13” - “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide” - by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More - https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play.

Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 34 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “I'm Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”Why do people feel shame?SocietyFamilyFriendsReligionSelf-esteemSelf judgementOutedWhat exactly do people feel?ShameDisgracePersecution When do people feel ashamed?When they fantas

Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about the current push to be kinky.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/ By Katka Lapelosova April 16, 2023When it comes to sex, I am always interested in exploring new experiences and pushing the boundaries of what is considered normal. But as someone who has dedicated a majority of my adult life to researching and writing about and sex and relationships, I’m surprisingly not kinky.I’ve had hundreds of sex partners, yet I’ve always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot

Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023 Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Kinks Don't Match? End It!-S05E10”https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/23/i-am-kinky-but-my-partner-is-not-should-i-end-our-secure-loving-relationship“Every relationship involves sacrifices, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But yours might not be as fulfilling as you think – for either partyTalk about Stephen Ing’s “Your magic sex number” and personal experiences to intro the topic.“I am kinky but my partner is not. Should I end our secure, loving relationship?” by Eleanor Gordon-Smith Thu 22 Jun 2023I have been in a loving relationship for three years. When I f

Recorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, we are talking about one of my favorite things-edging.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “A Guide to Edging-S05E08”Delayed gratification: Building up to orgasm and repeatedly backing off builds up the physical, mental, and emotional anticipation typically resulting in harder, longer, and more fulfilling orgasms.Control: It is very common in BDSM play for the Dom(me) to deny or edge a submissive. Denial of a basic animalistic urge can be an extremely intoxicating type of controlAwareness: Edging tends to make people more self-aware of their bodies and minds involving their orgasmic state and how thi

Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, Mayfair and I discuss most of the things to know about BDSM brats.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”“A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”By: Gigi Engle on April 20,, 2023https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained -What is a brat?“Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy,

Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving BDSM.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”“Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” Posted June 2, 2023 by: David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of “Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink KEY POINTSBDSM and kinky sexual practices are increasingly seen as forms of normal sexual diversity.BDSM

Recorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023 - Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Let’s Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05”“Kinktok, BDSM and manhandling: never mind the so-called "sex recession", here's what horny young people are getting up to in the bedroom.” LIFE Words: by Brit Dawson / 16th May 2023https://theface.com/life/why-is-everyone-so-into-rough-sex-right-now-dating-relationships-adviceWhether you’re single and sleeping around or shacked up and living vicariously through your mates’ wild dating lives, you’ll have likely heard that sex is going through a rough

Recorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of blood play.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Blood Play-S05E04”Playing to the point of bloodlettingBlood bathingBlood consumptionMenstrual bloodCombining the erotic and the spiritualThe connection with the person or people involvedImpact PlaySharpsScratchesBitingSyringe DrawsLancettes for diabetic testingConsumption: In very small amounts (say, a few teaspoons), and if the blood is free from pathogens (such as the many blood-borne diseases), blood might not harm you. Beyond that, watch out. The strange fact is, blood, when dran

Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023 - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode, we are talking to Bueller, the mind behind “Red and Black” which is a new heist movie featuring a femme fatal Dominatrix, BDSM, and a rollercoaster of fun.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “"Red and Black" Movie Interview w/ Bueller-S05E09”Bueller is a member of the Utah kink community and the Utah indie film industry. He's made over 50 sh