Tea With Queen And J.

On this episode… We talk about our favorite mental health socialist Black lesbian homies over at QueerWOC the podcast and share one of our favorite episodes! Who is Queer WOC, what are the dynamics on the show, why should you listen? Enjoy this listener's guide to Queer WOC the podcast! Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! #QueerWOC, the community podcast for all things Queer Women of Color community and healing. Hosted by Money and Nikeeta, two Black Queer Troublemakers, this biweekly insurgent audio syllabus that unites, ignites, and excites the queer women of color community. QueerWOC is a space for queer women and folks of color rooted in reimagining healing, organizing, and community. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Queen and J. love QueerWOC: 1:27 QueerWOC Money & Nikeeta: 18:40 Trish Millines-Dziko is changing tech: 27:38 Mental Moment with Dr. Money (she a doctor for real): 37:13 What to do when you can’t afford therapy: 44:45 A political w

On this episode… We talk about two of our favorite fellow Bronx friends, the queer Afro Latinx lead podcast Bag Ladiez and share one of our favorite episodes! Who are Bag Ladiez, what are the dynamics on the show, why should you listen? Enjoy this listener's guide to Bag Ladiez! Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! Bag Ladiez is a podcast about BAGGAGE: yours, mine, and ours. Through the podcast, their goal is to help each other and their listeners by pushing themselves to be vulnerable about the way that the world affects them and their ability to live their truest, most authentic lives. We’re sharing a Bag Ladiez All Baggage All the Time episode, where they assemble the BBB Demi Squad! Akua from Inner Hoe Uprising and J. from Tea with Queen and J join Bag Ladiez to talk about demisexuality ( Estephanie also identifies as demisexual!), their journeys figuring out the label, the misconceptions, and what it means to them to navigate this p

On this episode… We talk about our favorite hoes and creators of the queer Black feminist centered sex, love and dating podcast Inner Hoe Uprising! Our friend Diamond Stylz joins J. to discuss our love for Inner Hoe Uprising (IHU), the value in telling listeners your business, our thoughts on sex parties, a lil IHU history, the hosts, and why you should listen! Enjoy this listener's guide to Inner Hoe Uprising! Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! Inner Hoe Uprising is A smart & funny podcast about sex, love, and dating from 4 Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Diamond and J. love Inner Hoe Uprising: 1:39 The value in telling your business: 6:37 Who are the hoes?: 11:47 Do you sex party?: 14:03 Our favorite IHU eps: 16:45 Hoe show dynamics: 27:24 IHU episode Fifty, Fine and Fvcking: 35:37 INNER HOE UPRISING, FIFTY, FINE AND FVCKING EPISODE DESCRIPTION Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all things se

On this episode… We talk about three of our favorite Black trans media makers, the creators of Marsha’s Plate podcast and share one of our favorite episodes! What is Marsha’s Plate, what are the dynamics on the show, why should you listen to it? Enjoy this listeners guide to Marsha’s Plate! Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! Marsha's Plate is a weekly podcast that archives and centers the trans-inclusive feminist culture. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Queen and J. love Marsha’s Plate: 0:58 Diamond, Mia & Zee catch up: 13:30 Intersex: 20:27 Cis-men are exhausting: 37:43 Janet Mock politics & power: 1:06:15 Black and trans and the family function: 1:40:57 FOLLOW MARSHA’S PLATE PODCAST @MarshasPlate on twitter & Instagram https://linktr.ee/MarshasPlate Shop Marsha’s Plate merch https://marshasplate.creator-spring.com/ TEA WITH QUEEN AND J. WEBSITE Teawithqueenandj.com TEA WITH QUEEN AND J. SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: https://twitter.com/teawithq

On this episode… People are returning to work! As the country re-opens, what does it mean for Black people to return to the office? Working remote was cute, but could working in person mean anti-Blackness and antagonism up close? Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! This week’s hot list: Happy pride to our queer sibs and nibs! Doja Cat is a talented yikes! Breaks and vacations are dope so we’re taking one, we’ll be back in August! Working remote vs. returning to the office and why identity plays a role. What the data says about who’s excited to return and who isn't, is work culture actually just racism? Has remote work served as an equalizer? Do we even have to go back to the office? How to care for ourselves as many of us transition to in-person work, and more! EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 5:43 Donation Libations: 12:26 Affirmations: 15:24 Black to the office, stats and identity: 16:38 Remote work, safety and harassment: 28:39 We got f

On this episode… Yo, what the fvck is Juneteenth! We talk about what federal recognition means for a traditionally Black holiday, who should celebrate and who shouldn’t, and the OG Opal Lee! Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up! This week’s hot list: Beach trips, new projects, and a lil‘ sunburn. Libating listeners cause ya’ll the best, celebrating Juneteenth as kids in NYC, the federal holiday Opal Lee asked for, anti-Black domestic terrorism, Juneteenth & critical race theory. Mississippi and Arizona really tried it! Who can celebrate and profit from Juneteenth and who can’t? Black people around the country have been acknowledging Juneteenth for mad long, but it’s also okay if it’s new to you. And, once again, beach trips! EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 3:15 Go to the Beach!: 7:25 Donation Libations: 17:00 Affirmations: 19:49 Juneteenth!: 20:53 Celebrate it? Love it? 23:23 Junteenth & George Floyd: 28:08 The OG Opal Lee: 36:27 The poli

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Washington Heights is Black as fvck, and somehow the film In The Heights is not. Black Latinx folks stay getting erased! We talk about how that erasure affects all Black people, why it’s important for white folks of all ethnicities to acknowledge their whiteness, and how to avoid playing yourself as a person of privilege. This week’s hot list: Respect the swag surf, rest, family time and covid free-ness, we saw that In The Heights drama from the door ( spoiler free convo)! Afro-latinx erasure, white passing vs. white, colorism Jon M. Chu, Lin-Manuel Miranda, a lil Hamilton colorism, Anthony Ramos. Indigenous people reclaiming sacred land (for a fee), Passamaquoddy Territory, Pay Black Women, Pay Black People, that fresh new “first Black person to do blank”, a lil nuance goes a long way, and mad other ish! EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 2:56 Donation Libations 14:28: Affirmations: 18:03 I

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Black people got hobbies! But should every hobby turn into income? Do we even really know what a hobby is? If you don’t make a living wage, should you have a hobby? Are we for real about to explore hobbies this whole episode? Yep! This week’s hot list: A poppin, health summer, rest and family time. All things Black people and hobbies! Childhood hobbies, the history of hobbies & leisure amongst Black Americans, monetizing your hobby, how to talk to your friends about their hobby (yes, we’re serious lol), hobbies & capitalism, who deserves fun and leisure, tweet streets, and mad other sh!t EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 3:15 Donation Libations: 13:32 Affirmations: 16:38 Why we talking about hobbies: 17:53 A Black twitter drama: 41:50 Black hobby history: 1:05:10 Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…Knotless braids, kinky twists, lace fronts, and crochet styles. We’re talking about Black hair trends and how we got here. Also, can we leave Black women in sports the fvck alone!? Naomi Osaka, Simone Biles, and other Black women in sports mind their business and resist the status quo in the process. This week’s hot list: Black Veterinarians and pet lovers. The Netflix documentary “In Our Mothers Gardens” brings us joy. We go in about modern Black hair history, innovation, and installation. Black girls from the Bronx playing tennis, mental health, and boundaries. White supremacy in sports, and how they love changing the damn rules. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 5:46 Donation Libations: 13:55 Affirmations: 16:20 A Moment in Black hair innovation and history: 17:29 Naomi Osaka says nah: 51:02 More hating on Black women in sports: 1:11:31 Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawith

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Do you kiss your dog in the mouth? Is your cat sitting on the counter while you cook? We’re talking about Black people and pets! Sh!t we do, s!it we don’t do, history on Black animal lovers and more. This week’s hot list: fresh flowers all up and through the crib, CGI that petty in Army of the Dead, Black pet ownership, pet rules, Did your grandparents have pets? Racism in policies for animal ownership because everything is dripping in racism, we pay a future Black vet (animal not military), scammers that play in our faces, and why we not voting for Andrew Yang. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 3:28 Donation Libations: 16.58 Affirmations: 22:26 Our Black ass relationship to pets: 23:13 A history of Black people and pet ownership: 1:25:24 Pay a future Black Veterinarian:1:51:04 Give A Damn About the Scam: 1:55:51 Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Tw

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this unusual episode of Tea with Queen and J. we celebrate the life of a friend Reparations conversation starts at 21:20 Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! If you’d like to support Nikeeta’s mother or best friend and host of QueerWOC podcast you can cashapp https://cash.app/$queerwocpod $QueerWOCpod WEBSITE teawithqueenandj.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: https://twitter.com/teawithqj @teawithqj Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teawithqj/ @teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tea with Queen and J. Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com TEAMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/teawithqj Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/teawithqj Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Racism in the classroom. Do you gotta address racism every fvcking time you see it? Joseline Hernandez drags Wendy Williams and her bootstrap feminism. And more about fibroids, and more about gender! This week’s hot list: demisexual round table, colorism, nerdism, Wendy Williams big lipstick energy, intracommunal harm, what to do when your professor is racist, fibroids and other options (maybe… we not doctors), gender inclusivity, community accountability and mad other ish. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 4:54 Donation Libations: 13:55 Affirmations: 17:57 Wendy Williams, Joseline Hernandez and bootstrap feminism: 19:28 Racism in the classroom: 36:14 More on fibroids: 58:47 Revisiting The Gender Episode:106:24 Tweet us while you listen! @teawithqj or use #teawithqj and add #podin on Twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE teawithqueenandj.com SOCIAL MEDIA

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Big ass fibroids! Mad Black people have fibroids and not enough of us are talking about it. I talk about my experience with fibroid surgery, and reproductive health challenges. Then we tear the good cops bad apples theory to shreds. And we put on our square toed shoes and drag the 2000s from the windows to the walls This week’s hot list: Libations to ourselves, because why not! Frankie Beverly and Maze and the ‘whoaooowhoahoe’! J. details her experience with fibroids, before, during and after surgery. Fertility issues, and how people can be a little weird around that subject. Spiritual gas lighting, good apples, bad apples and something about oranges, boots with the fur, and they finally Cariol Horn her pension and back pay, Eoooww!!!! *Content warning: for discussions of the uterus, periods, fibroids and infertility EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 5:34 Donation Libations: 9:55 Affir

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Accountability! What does accountability look like in day time television? The Talk is back on the air after a racist episode and they might for real be doing something different. Also, the passing of rap legend DMX, and how Black liberation means different things to different Black people. This week’s hot list: a new jawb, protesting in a small white town, anti-racism and diversity training in real time, who’s and activist, who’s the feds, Patrisse Cullors, them houses and Marxism in real time, sponsored right wing content, DMX, Ruff Ryders, reunion concert throwback and mad other sh!t EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 3:14 Donation Libations: 7:48 Affirmations: 12:01 Diversity Training on live TV: 13:32 Black liberation means different things to different people: 32:22 Patrisse Cullors and them houses: 56:45 DMX: 1:38:34 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin o

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… America’s vaccine rollout is giving structural oppression vibes! With many of America's incarcerated being denied access to the covid vaccine. Also, Black folks valid distrust of the system vs. irresponsible fear-mongering, and Tina Turner is a whole legend, let’s discuss! This week’s hot list: Routines, smoothies and Spring! SlayTV’s new queer web-series ‘For The Boys’ is our jam. Tina Turner’s life as Black woman in entertainment, and the HBO documentary Tina vs. her 1993 biopic ‘What’s Love Got To Do With’, racism and ageism, and how River Deep Mountain High is a bop! COVID-19 vaccines and the prison industrial complex, who deserves to live and who doesn’t. Black ass covid anxiety (TUSKEGEE!), fears, vaccine conspiracies, jokes, an adorable Daniel Kaluuya in an awkward ass SNL sketch. *Content warning: during our conversation about Tina Turner we do reference domestic abuse though we

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Black activists like Tamika Mallory have been accused of commercializing the movement. We break down the accusations, and thoughts on what is and isn’t Black liberation. Also, Lil Nas X pushes the gay agenda, we love to see it. And Sharon lost her whole job over a white man This week’s hot list: Inner Hoe Uprising, Sister Sister was lowkey addressing race, The Wayans Bros. are booger boys, Eddie Murphy interviews, Lil Nas X’s Monetero (Call Me By Your Name) video epic, Black Christianity, and centering Satan, Elaine Welteroth got HR on speed dial, Sharon Osbourne gets chopped, Activism, grifters, celebrity activism, Samaria Rice & Lisa Simpsons statement regarding the movement, Tamika Mallory’s Cadillac commercial and Until Freedom, Black Lives Matter Global Network, where the money resides, who it should go to, and mad other sh/t EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 4:37 Donation Libations:

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… It’s a panniversary! One year after the first shutdown in the US we’re still living in a global pandemic and it may be affecting you more than you know. Then, the anti-Black obsession with how low-income folks spend their stimmy. Supporting the Asian community in a time of crisis and when social media solidarity goes wrong This week’s hot list: Smoothies, routines, therapy, and a luxury purchase! The pandemic’s anniversary effect, the grief effect, who we are now and how we can reset. Stimmy shaming, The North Star, The Momentum Advisors podcast, and why they need to mind the business that pays them. Doing things for the likes - is it clout or solidarity? Mutual funding, learning tools for AAPI solidarity, #stopasianhate, and more. EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 2:48 Donation Libations: 8:53 Affirmations: 14:46 Panniversery: 16:10 Resources to support the AAPI community: 39:31 Pay Bl

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Explaining racism to white people proves to be a thankless fvcking job as Piers Morgan and Sharon Osborne show their whole asses on live TV. Are Black activists commodifying Black death for clout? Samaria Rice reacts to Tamika Mallory at the Grammy’s. And finally, biracial identity and who gets to say “I’m Black.” This week’s hot list: Decentralized activism, clout chasing weirdos, Hollywood reenactments of the Black Lives Matter movement (cringe), The Talk, Elaine Welteroth, Sheryl Underwood, a rockette, and that lil unbothered dog, weatherman Alex Beresford, Meghan Markle, white passing biracial identity and Blackness, language and mad other ish EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 2:50 Donation Libations: 8:29 Affirmations: 11:14 Samaria Rice calls out Tamika Mallory, and other BLM affiliates:11:59 Sharon Osbourne on The Talk wilding: 52:29 Biracial Black identity police: 1:36:47 Twee

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode…Colorism, COLORISM, colourism - that’s what we’re on today. Between a white-passing Meghan Markle being shunned by the royal family to Lovecraft Country putting a whole light-skinned Black person in blackface, we gotta talk about colorism. . . again. This week’s hot list: Lil Nas X is a gem. Idris Elba is giving sexy dad on The Long Run, go watch it. Did Christina M. Jenkins invent weave or weeve? Racism ruins the water system of an entire city, the English monarchy reminds us who’s the realest white supremacist. Lightskinned complacency vs losing your privilege and the bag. And a lil homophobia, some toxic masculinity and mad other ish EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 1:58 Donation Libations: 16:07 Affirmations: 19:36 Meghan Markle and Oprah interview: 21:42 Paying Black People: 55:47 Jackson Mississippi water crisis: 58:55 Who invented hair weave?: 1:05:30

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Quarantino got us feeling DIFFERENT about what we watch on film and television. We get Buried By the Bernard and discuss the diasporadical implications of Judas and the Black Messiah. And Queen Latifah is doing some sh!t we never seen done before. No spoilers, we promise! This week’s hot list: Dr. Maxine Mimms and her Maya Angelou story among other thangs. “Wooooow, you’ve changed” said quarantino to everybody, we got new feelings and everything. Black family joy on tv when you can’t get in real life, Daniel Kaluuya out here slaying every interview, Black British actors playing Black American leaders (like all the time, let’s discuss with nuance tho), The Equalizer is a whole Black mom who don’t have time for your sh!t. Shabazz Palaces, the red the black and the green, and moisturized your bod and mad other sh!t EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 6:35 Donation Libations: 16:20 Affirmation