Sinopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
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What's the difference between a Christian and an atheist? | Church 12/1/24
01/12/2024 Duración: 01h59minLet go of your ideas about morals. Couples: Evil women, weak men. Forgive. Standing up for yourself? Christians are atheists.Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, December 1, 2024ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday, December 5, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:01:45) Dating in your 60s?* (0:06:23) Practical thoughts?* (0:15:44) Q: How to get rid of morals?* (0:20:23) JLP: Get rid of ideas: Love* (0:26:52) Mother with a beta husband* (0:39:35) Dealing with a nitpicking woman* (0:48:00) No pumpkin pie!* (0:52:08) Back to couple: Need an apology?* (0:59:45) JLP: Stop whining! Thinking about others' thoughts!* (1:05:53) Forgive your mother. Who are you?* (1:15:27) Mother: Admit your heart is evil* (1:28:58) Jesus is already here! Spiritual, not physical* (1:31:46) Standing up for yourself? God doesn't care if you suffer!* (1:37:21) Husband moved out. What's bad about that? Work on you.* (1:52:49) BQ: Difference between a Christi
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Are you doing greater works than Christ? | Church 11/24/24
24/11/2024 Duración: 02h01minNO AUDIO, 3-min. Live with no opinion. Do greater works than Christ? Drop your morals. No good in human beings. God's nature. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, November 24, 2024 TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) NO AUDIO, 3-min* (0:03:22) OK… Welcome * (0:05:18) Grieve the Spirit? Working out… * (0:07:18) Feeling sorry for the "disabled" * (0:10:00) Not what it means "to obey" * (0:14:49) Assignment: No opinion * (0:26:16) BQ: Greater works than Christ? Why don't you drop it? * (0:31:55) When your wife embarrasses you in front of the kids? * (0:46:54) Assignment? BQ? Did you drop your morals? Weak. * (0:58:53) Any good in human beings? "Backslidden"? * (1:10:47) Human beings are evil. Feedback * (1:25:47) There is no you… All about "I" * (1:42:21) JLP on BQ: Christ, the nature of the Father * (1:47:14) See evil, watch the news: Matt Gaetz * (1:55:55) New BQ, Closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKS BLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/are-yo
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Why do you pay attention to yourself? | Church 11/17/24
17/11/2024 Duración: 02h02minWhy do you pay attention to yourself? What'd he say? Why do you let fear control your life? Weak people have morals. Human nature is evil. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, November 17, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday, Nov 21, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Tyson small talk; Welcome. Any questions? * (0:02:46) Assignment? Dark cloud… * (0:06:34) Why do you pay attention to yourself? What'd he say? * (0:28:39) Why do you allow your fear to control your life? * (0:38:55) How does fear control you, and why do you let it happen? * (0:47:22) What have you realized about you? Human nature? * (0:56:56) Are manners necessary? Only weak people have morals. * (1:02:46) Need certain pleasantries? "The right thing to do"? * (1:13:36) JLP: Minute-to-minute daily fears. Enslaved morality. * (1:18:00) Catering to the homeless. "Thank you" cards… * (1:27:24) Weak people. Christmas gifts? Real vs polite. Friendships? * (1:33:20) Ideas and opinions
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Shake in Fear | Church 11/10/24
10/11/2024 Duración: 02h09minDid you do the assignment? Shake in your boots. Pay attention: You're controlled by fear. (We'll deal with the Biblical Question on JLP tomorrow!) Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, November 10, 2024 TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Dogs. Welcome. Election is over! * (0:04:38) Do nothing. Stop making decisions. * (0:12:03) Judgment of right and wrong? * (0:17:50) Promises to God? * (0:19:37) Assignment… Animals * (0:33:22) "I'm shaking now." Gal on-stage. * (0:38:10) Mother-in-law's surprise visit * (0:42:29) JLP: See what's going on with you. Experts. IRS. * (0:54:08) Hake, JLP: Controlled by fear * (1:02:04) All of your pain is in the mind. * (1:04:19) Not angry, just annoyed. Who are you? Parents? * (1:13:49) 21yo: "I'd rather not be here." Being nothing. * (1:30:00) Q's: Father… Evil mother-in-law * (1:39:58) Not a regular Church; the woman's god? * (1:44:53) If you're afraid, you love what's wrong * (1:46:01) Living in fear, all the time. Car crash story * (1:51:41) Feedback: All is well… * (2:02:57) Closing,
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The Act of Speaking Up | Archive 11/28/10
06/11/2024 Duración: 55minWhat are you thankful for? Alive, but with no life? What do you think of the art or act of speaking up? Be led by the Spirit, not thoughts!Archive Sunday Service, November 28, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:59) What are you thankful for? * (04:49) People who've died… thankful to be alive, with no life? * (12:06) A family that's healing: Most don't. * (17:23) God set us apart… spiritual battle… America * (22:25) JLP: Thankful … * (27:33) Talk without judgment… Thankful for sons, but not wife: Attached * (30:16) The art (or act) of speaking up: Feedback? * (34:41) Speak up without getting nervous… Speaking too much, hurting feelings * (38:28) JLP: The words "speaking up" vs spiritual life… Thinking, opinions…? * (41:19) JLP: Another way of living within… No ego, not to hurt, no feelings * (49:44) Want it? Ego, pride won't put seeking God first: Prayer, Quiet * (52:57) Your opinion doesn't matter. Let go. Let people be. Closing MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsCLI
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Why do you assume people are guilty? | Church 11/3/24
03/11/2024 Duración: 01h58minGossiping, vengeful men with women's nature. Do you have full confidence? Why do you assume people are guilty, rather than presume innocence? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, November 3, 2024 * Did men gossip or take revenge when you grew up? What was Jesus like? Men and women's natures have become one and the same. * Do you have one hundred percent confidence? * Biblical Question: Why don't you presume others innocent unless proven guilty? * Assignment: For one week, shake in your boots, in fear, with nothing to rely on… * ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday, Nov 7, 2024, 7 PM at BOND, Los Angeles https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:31) Questions for my dying mother? "Hope"? * (0:11:22) Elections: Don't overreact * (0:12:18) Men gossiping, taking revenge? * (0:22:26) What was Jesus like? * (0:27:59) Men and women's natures the same * (0:33:55) How did this happen? * (0:42:52) Men, you're the light. * (0:49:02) Men, have understanding. * (0:52:
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How Do You Overcome Judgment? | Archive 11/21/10
30/10/2024 Duración: 01h05sReality: I am not God. Fear of speaking up. Judgment: Feeling like nothing. Following the world. "Big Mama" Oprah! Ice cream escape! Archive Sunday Service, November 21, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:47) Weird: Nothing I planned … Judgmental man * (05:01) What reality is: I am not God * (07:06) Go to your spouse to apologize? * (08:27) Stubborn, judging, identifying with thoughts in "prayer" * (10:00) What should our mindset be? Couldn't speak up to sister * (18:21) Why not have your husband deal with her? * (21:40) Story: Young lady going through Hell. Why don't parents let children suffer? * (24:07) Q: Judgment messes with your life * (31:14) Once-popular guy: God is not with you judging yourself * (35:16) When I felt the pain of nothingness * (36:42) Hearing the word "realize…" won't set you free; can't imagine the change* (42:21) Using things to build "self-esteem": BET show for black women * (45:50) Story: Nice lady called JLP on radio, was angry at Jesse * (46:55) Children of God using
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Why do you need anyone else's approval? | Church 10/27/24
27/10/2024 Duración: 02h10minMost don't want a peaceful life. Fathers and mothers on loss. Why do you need others' approval? Do you return shopping carts? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 27, 2024 TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Welcome * (0:02:06) Happy Halloween? * (0:03:58) Don’t want a peaceful life * (0:17:00) Trucker: Lost son to fentanyl * (0:24:26) Need a girlfriend? * (0:34:48) Late husband at rest; she is not * (0:43:32) Son and mother: prayer, "love" * (1:02:08) What's it like knowing you're so evil? * (1:14:33) Q's: Addicted to thrills? * (1:16:57) Jesus the only Way? * (1:26:47) BQ: Why do you need anyone else's approval? * (1:28:35) Re: Jesus… if you don't know, don't talk about it * (1:32:28) Back to BQ, Donyale, relationships, anger * (1:52:53) Returning shopping carts, thinking you're better * (2:05:50) New BQ; shopping carts; closing CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/why-do-you-need-anyone-elses-approval-chu
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Who Are You? | Archive 11/14/10
22/10/2024 Duración: 57minWho are you? A living being. Your emotions and experiences are not you! Are most fathers not lovable? Men and women are in battle! Archive Sunday Service, November 11, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:59) Who are you? Genesis: A living being, made in His image * (07:02) Westside Pregnancy Center: abortions, fathers, fundraising * (10:56) Men becoming weaker: Love your fathers. "I never knew mine"? * (12:56) We're a living being, not challenges, worries, circumstances, who people say * (13:31) God works through us to inspire, awaken people * (15:19) Many fathers are not lovable? * (17:33) "I wanna leave…" I feel like my answers are judged by you * (19:38) Some fathers are toxic… fathers not lovable? * (25:10) JLP: Love even our enemies: Judging is worse! * (32:44) Men and women: Power struggle. Sex, spiritual battle* (35:19) JLP: Any man wanting sex before marriage is a girl * (37:18) All men and women are lovable. Don't resent them * (37:58) 90-percent don't hate their fathers; they want their
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Why do you criticize yourself and others? | Church 10/20/24
20/10/2024 Duración: 02h05minGet up and walk. Satan: the author of intellectual knowledge. Assignment: Don't judge. Why do you criticize yourself and others? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 20, 2024 TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome * (0:02:25) Re: Drug addict woman caller this week * (0:07:55) JLP: blessed. Get up and walk: Face your pain. * (0:24:04) Feedback: Why won't you get up and walk? Raymond… Hassan… * (0:48:43) Amber Alert; No you: Satan, author of intellectual knowledge * (1:00:32) Are you backing off your husband? * (1:15:14) Excited about sharing the truth, "pearls before swine" * (1:18:27) Judgment, the Devil's voice, "disabled," disease, feelings * (1:27:25) Assignment feedback: Judgment * (1:36:09) Story: Bubbly lady realized she’s evil. Assignment… * (1:45:23) BQ: Why do you criticize yourself and others? * (1:53:10) Donyale moving! Store union workers picketing * (1:59:58) New BQ: Why do you need anyone else's approval? Closing CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble,
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What Causes You to Get Stuck in the Past? | Archive 10/31/10
15/10/2024 Duración: 55minMany who learn the Bible neglect God's living word within. Women reject the order of God! Judgment keeps you stuck in the past! Archive Sunday Service, October 31, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome; Voting; Raymond… patience * (02:16) In PA: Afraid to speak truth; "Bible" vs God's Living Word * (13:43) Story: "Most black men, not worth a dime"? Renewing the mind* (17:48) Meditate on the Bible? Where to find His word? Parents are weak… * (21:12) Story: Praying couple; Husband, God's order: Women's jealousy * (28:32) Promoting women; Catering to enemies? Girl fussing; 1936 Horror * (33:57) Email: Dwelling on the past, thinking it was good. How to stop? * (39:15) "Don't judge good or bad." How to stop thinking about it? * (43:07) Judging as good or bad, you're stuck: Past and future, mind of the Devil * (50:11) Judging the past… Reality hits ego. Stop making decisions and live… MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsCLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips playlists on YouTube, or alt platform
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When was the last time you had a real conversation…? | Church 10/13/24
13/10/2024 Duración: 02h04minMothers and sons hash out their issues. Last time you had a real conversation with another person? Assignment: Don't judge… Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 13, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, Oct 17, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk, Welcome * (0:01:51) Mother and son: Forgive * (0:08:49) Ex-wife runs up medical bills; Mother enables 43yo son * (0:33:11) Mother doesn't know how to let 16yo son go * (0:49:49) Free will? 'Choice' realizing you're wrong: Anger * (1:07:40) Stunned how evil you are* (1:10:38) Working on me: Mother and son. Sister confronts JLP * (1:41:27) Feedback: Don't have to go through emotions, pain * (1:47:14) Biblical Q: Real conversation? * (1:52:57) One-day Assignment: Don't judge… New BQ; closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKS BLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/when-was-the-last-time-you-ha
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Can You Be Tempted After Being Born Again? | Archive 10/24/10
09/10/2024 Duración: 57minIs life happening for you? Good all the time? Stop judging. No expectations. In thought and emotion you're tempted by the Devil. Forgive.Archive Sunday Service, October 24, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro/Welcome* (00:42) BOND 20th anniversary event: Thank you! Amazin'... * (04:01) Life is happening! No? * (06:58) Life is not good all the time? * (11:32) Ladies share… If you want to be free, stop judging * (16:01) Judging condemns you: Eating; A friend down and out; Reality * (20:19) Never, ever, ever have expectations. Wait and see. Free. No opinion. Accept. * (26:09) As a man thinketh… Judging, resenting Christians. Depression. * (30:54) Judging Jesse, "a house negro" … Others on judging… * (35:01) Comes from sin, hating parents. Born again: New nature * (39:02) Lady: Tempted by the Devil. Fools can't argue by themselves. * (42:09) Overcome anger: Admit you have it, and forgive… Franky… * (48:16) A spiritual change God makes happen… Christians judging sinners * (54:20) A friend doesn't speak up, gets mad. *
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Do you recognize a wave of pain that overtakes you? | Church 10/6/24
06/10/2024 Duración: 01h48minWait like the Israelites in the desert. Do you love your enemies? Can you live a double life? Take the wave of pain! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 6, 2024 Prior Biblical Question: Do you recognize a wave of pain that overtakes you? New Biblical Question: When was the last time you had a real conversation with a human being? TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome * (0:01:55) Story: Israelites out of Egypt * (0:12:44) Lesson: Endure to the end * (0:20:10) Wanting another person to change; Consulting with the mind * (0:29:43) Q: Do you love your enemies? * (0:37:02) Q: Love enemies? (Documentary, "poor" white country people: Same problem!) * (0:49:12) No enemies… fun * (0:52:50) Q: Consult with your mind? (God tried to deliver you but you won't wait.) * (0:59:51) No grace for yourself, listening to thoughts. Fall off the cliff, not listening to thoughts * (1:10:43) Possible to live a double life? * (1:17:44) Married? No. Engaged twice: Got the ring back! * (1:19:18) Biblical Q: Do you recogn
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The world says tell it; God says stop it | Church 9/29/24
29/09/2024 Duración: 02h12minElon Musk's father: Do not tell a woman your problems, nor if you cheat. Have no leader. Anger is evil. Thoughts bring collisions. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 29, 2024 * Elon Musk's father, as opposed to complaining men… * A man should never tell a woman his problems, and if he cheats, he should never tell. * Don't have another person lead you. * You cannot manage anger. It's evil. Real life documentary horror stories… * Biblical Question: Why is your life one collision after another? ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Start, Welcome * (0:04:35) Raymond: black representation in media * (0:05:51) Elon Musk daddy: Men never complained or cried * (0:15:57) Don't tell your wife if you cheat? * (0:27:11) Never complained. Women concerned about getting cheated on? * (0:43:13) Never heard men gossip. No forgiveness from wife. * (0:48:40) Don't cheat. But if you do, don't tell it. Don't do it again.
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All Weeping is Complaining; All Complaining, Accusing | Church 9/22/24
22/09/2024 Duración: 02h08minJudging Diddy? All weeping is complaining; all complaining, accusing. You judge according to the flesh. Are you one with yourself? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 22, 2024 * Did you judge Diddy? You'd do the same. * Does God judge you? Is there anything good about you? * Have you noticed all weeping is complaining, and all complaining is accusing?* Jesus said in John 8: 15-16 — 15 You judge according to the flesh; I judge no one… 16 Yet even if I do judge, my judgment is true, for it is not I alone who judge, but I and the Father who sent me. * Biblical Question: Are you one with yourself? TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:04:03) Sad life… * (0:06:38) Diddy: Would you do the same? Did you judge him? * (0:21:47) JLP: Every human being is Diddy. * (0:27:04) Disagree? Do you judge? Does God judge you? * (0:37:25) Anything good about you? * (0:43:03) All weeping is complaining, and all complaining, accusing. * (0:44:12) Feel for brother, others suffering. Making them worse! * (0:5
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Is Evil Being Made to Appear as Good? | Archive 11/7/10
18/09/2024 Duración: 57minThe tempter tempts you to judge: It's not you! Oprah promoted homosexuality and men revealing personal traumas to the world, degrading men! Archive Sunday Service, November 7, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome* (01:12) Why preachers take advantage of congregations: Addicted * (06:00) JLP: What if I had a life, but forget, and just stand here? Fellowship * (08:02) Lady: Felt God. Man told me he wanted to cheat. Judgment * (10:47) JLP story: Time change, Devil wanted to judge man who didn't pick up * (15:03) Judging: The tempter makes you think it's you! Decisions * (19:34) Liberal friends: Can't judge the liberals. Amen corner: No growth * (26:53) I'm like my mother, I like to make people mad * (28:46) Oprah interview: Ricky Martin "came out of the closet" * (34:44) JLP: If they admit they have a problem, asking for help * (36:32) Oprah, Tyler Perry, men tell boyhood trauma: Okay? * (41:52) JLP: Never talk to women about your personal issues * (49:22) Nothing a man can get from a woman? Christ was never weak *
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Midterms! Afraid not to trust thoughts? | Church 9/15/24
15/09/2024 Duración: 02h16minDo you tip? Midterms! Who are you? Why are you afraid not to trust your thoughts? "Am I shutting myself off from love?" Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 15, 2024 * Tipping culture, bad service, and customer attitude * Midterms! Who are you? Do thoughts ever go away? * Biblical Question: Why are you afraid not to trust your thoughts? * Is God in control of the affairs of your life? * Assignment: Distrust the thought. Let it overwhelm you. Feel the pain. * New Biblical Question idea: Are you one with yourself? ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday, Sept 19, 2024, 7 PM at BOND https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Welcome. Trend: Women not shaving* (0:07:10) Profiling, service industry, black people tipping * (0:19:11) Midterm test: Who are you? * (0:23:36) Do thoughts ever go away? Who are you? * (0:29:50) BQ: Why afraid not to trust thoughts? * (0:36:49) BQ: More answers … "F" grade * (0:47:26) BQ… Is seeing thoughts the same as feeling thoughts? * (0:52:45) BQ… "I am
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Have You Ever Felt Disrespected? | Archive 10-10-10
10/09/2024 Duración: 54minDon't judge as good or bad! Do you get upset when "disrespected"? You have the wrong identity! Look within, not the outside! Archive Sunday Service, October 10, 2010 Matthew 23: 25 'Alas for you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of cup and dish and leave the inside full of extortion and intemperance. 26 Blind Pharisee! Clean the inside of cup and dish first so that it and the outside are both clean. 27 'Alas for you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs that look handsome on the outside, but inside are full of the bones of the dead and every kind of corruption. 28 In just the same way, from the outside you look upright, but inside you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome — BOND 20th anniversary * (02:49) Assignment: Don't judge. Gardeners… racist? * (08:28) Get upset when disrespected? Hake, Movies, "Speaking up" * (13:31) Disrespecting my accomplishments, others… * (19:00) JLP: If I felt disrespected… Judging, "identi
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Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? | Church 9/8/24
08/09/2024 Duración: 02h57sGov't are people; people are evil! Don't trust them! Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? Do you know the truth? No one does! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 8, 2024 TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Welcome… * (0:02:06) Pay attention this election * (0:03:59) Mass shooting: Should father be arrested? * (0:29:14) Arrest father? Joel and staff… * (0:37:29) JLP: Horrible mistake to trust the govt * (0:47:04) JLP: Govt will take your house. Slave to thoughts, govt * (0:55:24) JLP: Human nature, titles, govt power, lock up guns? * (1:03:53) Feedback: Parents' responsibility, kids, sugar cane, govt * (1:14:54) Q: Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? 16yo, couple… * (1:28:26) Young lady with boyfriend * (1:42:41) Back to Q: Notice you’re afraid not to trust the thoughts? * (1:48:44) Assignment: Distrust the thought, feel the pain * (1:55:36) BQ: Do you know the truth? What is it? Raymond Q * (1:57:13) JLP on BQ: None of us know the truth. Closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube,