Let's Talk About It

Have you ever avoided a tough conversation because it felt too messy? Whether it’s setting boundaries, asking for help, or confronting someone, hard conversations are where real growth begins. In this episode of Let’s Talk About It, we’re teaching you how to talk about it. We’re diving into why hard conversations matter and giving you practical tools for some of the hardest conversations in your life. We’ll walk you step-by-step through 6 of the hardest conversations you may need to have:

Have you ever crossed a physical boundary in your relationship and then found things feeling… weird? Maybe you’ve been there—things start out great, but then suddenly you’re arguing more, second-guessing everything, or feeling distant. What’s up with that? In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: why crossing physical boundaries in dating can mess with your emotions, your connection with each other, and even your relationship with God. We’ll talk about how physical intimacy bonds you in ways you might not realize, why it can make trust and respect harder to build, and how to avoid that awkward “what now?” feeling. We’ll also share practical tips for healing, setting better boundaries, and getting back on track if things have gotten complicated. You’re not too far gone—there’s always hope for a fresh start. Tune in now and learn how to keep things from getting messy! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://shop.mora

Is it possible to have a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex without things getting messy? In this episode, we’re diving into all things healthy friendships vs. codependency, what to do when you’re friends with someone of the opposite gender and one of you catches feelings, and navigating friendship transitions when the other person starts dating someone else. With practical tips on setting boundaries and communicating clearly, we’re here to help you build meaningful friendships with wisdom and grace.Tune in now and learn how to navigate cross-gender friendships well! Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/============================= Timecodes =============================(0:00) - Intro(1:40) - Healthy friendships vs codependency(7:16) - What should you do if someone catches feelings?(16:02) - The expiration date on cross-gendered friendships(24:00) - Practical tips for healthy f

If you’ve ever felt like you had to keep parts of yourself hidden, this episode’s for you. We’re diving into the power of shame—the thing that keeps us feeling unworthy, alone, and distant from God. Learn the difference between guilt and shame (hint: guilt is about actions; shame’s about identity) and how shame shows up in our relationships, making us hide our true selves. In this episode, we dive into why vulnerability and confession are game-changers, with real-life stories and practical steps to help you break free. Ready to stop hiding? Tune in and start living fully known and loved. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.com/  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:50) - The difference between guilt and shame (3:27) - How shame causes us to go into cycles of self protection (4:53) - The methods we use to hide our shame  (9:44) - Scripture’

Why do we fall for toxic people? Why do we go for the things in a relationship we know aren’t healthy or good for us? Let’s talk about it. In this episode, we’re breaking down why so many of us get drawn into toxic relationships, even in Christian spaces. We cover six red flags of toxic people—like manipulation, control, and emotional abuse—and how to tell the difference between normal flaws and toxic traits. We’re diving into how your past, family dynamics, and unmet needs might be wiring you for chaos instead of peace. Plus, we’ll look at biblical stories like Samson and Delilah to show how toxic patterns can lead to destruction. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a toxic cycle or want to help a friend who’s struggling, this episode offers practical steps to break free and find healing. Tune in now and learn how to break the toxic cycles in your relationships. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Looking for information on the Date Well community? Find it here ➡︎ https://www.letsdatewell.

Have you ever wondered if your dating standards are too high? In this episode, we’re breaking down the critical difference between preferences and standards, and how understanding this distinction can transform your dating life. Many Christians find themselves stuck, unsure if their preferences are holding them back from the relationship God has for them. This conversation offers clarity on how to navigate these feelings, while examining what truly matters in a lasting, God-centered relationship. We dive into the common struggle of opposites attracting and then clashing, and explore how to redefine the "list" of qualities you've made for a partner. If you've ever questioned whether a relationship is missing something or felt frustrated with God's timing, this episode will help you reassess your approach and better align your relationship goals with His plan. You’ll gain fresh insights on what constitutes a nonnegotiable standard versus a negotiable preference, while also learning to trus

She left OnlyFans and found Jesus – now she’s on a mission to expose the truth. ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (0:00) - Intro (1:03) - Immediately after leaving OnlyFans (6:38) - Becoming an advocate against OnlyFans (14:39) - God doesn’t waste any season (15:55) - What it looks like to radically rely on God (22:30) - God has a plan for you is better than you can fathom (25:03) - Ex-OnlyFans Recruiter’s message to the church ============================= In part two of this compelling conversation, former OnlyFans recruiter Victoria Sinis continues her powerful testimony, revealing what happened after she walked away from the OnlyFans industry. Victoria opens up about the immediate challenges she faced, including backlash and doubts, as she transitioned from recruiter to advocate against OnlyFans. This episode dives deep into how Victoria became a vocal critic of the industry she once supported, sharing how her faith in God led her to a life of purpose and advocacy.

She used to recruit girls to do OnlyFans, but then she met Jesus. Now she’s exposing the dark side of the porn industry.  ============================= ⏰ Timecodes ⏰ ============================= (2:35) - How Victoria started working for an OnlyFans agency (4:14) - Misconceptions around OnlyFans (6:35) - How redefining language is dangerous (7:42) - How the party life of drugs and alcohol leaves you empty (11:41) - What is OnlyFans? (14:17) - How an OnlyFans Agency really works (16:08) - Average wage of Only Fans workers and how the enemy distorts our vision (23:40) - Behind the curtain of marketing for Only Fans (29:45) - A day in the life of an OnlyFans Recruiter (32:15) - Shattering the illusion of fulfillment (36:12) - How her agency recruited girls to OnlyFans (38:35) -  Victoria’s eyes were opened to the evil happening behind the scenes (42:03) - Victoria’s radical conversion and encounter with God (46:21) - How God meets us in the darkest places of our lives and loves us back to life (49:03) - A messag

Breaking up is never easy, but understanding the process can help you move forward. Breakups - it's the often unavoidable part of dating. They have to happen in all but one of your dating relationships, but could you do it in a way that doesn’t leave you scarred or wounded? We’re here to help you break up in such a way that it leaves you both with a clear sense of closure and freedom to move on as healthy and whole as possible. In this episode, we dive into the complexities of ending a relationship and how to heal afterward. We cover…  

It's time we stop talking about pornography as if only men struggle with it. Women are struggling with pornography too... but sometimes the motivators behind porn consumption for women are different than men. So why is no one talking about it?? Maybe the silence is due to shame, maybe it’s because it's viewed as a "man's issue," or maybe it's because it opens up parts of our past we don’t want to look at, but the cost of silence is keeping women in cycles of bondage. It's time to talk about it. In this episode, we sit down with Katy Harris who not only shares her journey with pornography, but how she now leads hundreds of women on the journey to freedom. This is a powerful conversation on the power of God's love to break through every chain – even pornography. Don’t forget to join our Finally Free Event (or watch the replay) 

Sex. It's everywhere in our culture, but in so many instances the church is still too uncomfortable to talk about it.  Here at Moral Revolution, we’re committed to having the conversations that may make others uncomfortable, because we know God has a beautiful design for sex and sexuality. It’s a design that when an individual gets a vision for, their lives will never be the same.  On today’s podcast we’re joined by Mo Isom Aiken, a person who is unafraid to go straight to the heart of the conversation about sex, culture, Jesus, the Church, and how it all fits together. In this episode, Mo shares her personal journey and revelation about:

It’s not uncommon to hear of men struggling with porn, but it’s less common to hear men NOT watching porn anymore. Why does it seem to be so complicated to get free? Maybe it’s because we’ve been trying to do it the wrong way. In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of the Whole Man Project, sits down and unpacks some key questions we knew were vital to this conversation. 

It’s becoming more and more coMmon for someone you know to “come out” as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning. But what should a Christian’s response be?  What is the right language to meet someone with compassion yet hold a standard of truth? While discovering these, we realized there are many well-meaning Christians or pastors who think they’re saying the right thing, but cause more hurt and damage to the individual's healing journey. Caleb Boggan, Director of Pastoral Care at  CHANGED Movement, has gathered these top ten responses as “Failed First Responses” and helps us know what TO say instead.  RESOURCES MENTIONED:  Self Discovery Booklet: How Our Childhood Shaped Our Sexual Identity

Pride Month hits and there's a spectrum of responses that hit our culture. Some think we should boycott every store with a rainbow flag on display, others think we should just love and accept everyone, and some are wondering why we're evening asking the question. Come join Elizabeth Woning, a oncegay pastor, who went to seminary openly gay and then encountered God and left the lifestyle. She shares with us insights on the LGBTQ experience, how the LGBTQ community has changed, and how we can love and hold a boundary. Get the Navigating LGBTQ Series at navigatinglgbtq.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

We asked you your most pressing questions you wanted to know about sexuality. We compiled them and here's episode 2 of your raw unfiltered questions live on our podcast. Here's the top questions you asked:

We asked you your most pressing questions you wanted to know about sexuality. We've got your raw unfiltered questions live on our podcast. Here's the top questions you asked:

Gender confusion and questioning has massively increased in each successive generation with some reports stating 30% of Gen-Z identifying as LGBTQ. Why is this? What can we understand with it? How do we make a shift? The Protect Kids Act 2024 is a key that all individuals can take part of now. This measure is needs 500,000 signatures by April 18, 2024 to get added to the November ballot. The protect kids act: - Protects Women's Sports (creating safe spaces for biological females) - Requires Parental Notification (if a student begins to socially transition) - Prevents Childhood Sterilization (from irreversible puberty blockers & surgeries) Find out more at: protectkidsca.com Download the petition at: protectkidsca.com/sign-petitions/ Download the media kit to share: Media Kit --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Ever find yourself battling with doubts and insecurities in your relationship? How do you know if it's God or you or your upbringing? You're not alone. We delve deep into the complexities of relationship anxiety. From identifying the signs to practical strategies for overcoming it, we're here to offer support and guidance. Whether you're in a new romance or a long-term relationship, navigating relationship anxiety can be challenging. But fear not, we've got your back! Jason Vallotton, unpacks 3 root causes and steps to overcome them. Tune in, share your experiences, and let's embark on a journey toward healthier, happier connections together. #RelationshipAnxiety #LoveAndRelationships #MentalHealthAwareness #moralrevolution #christianrelationships Get More From Jason: Winning the War Within Book - Jason Vallotton

The 1990's Purity Culture defined sexuality for so many of us...but that wasn't necessarily a good thing. It's history is littered with horror stories of shame and guilt and blame, broken and skewed views of ourselves and our relationships. Was there anything good that came out of it? Is Moral Revolution part of sexual purity culture? Let's look back and see what we wish would have happened and talk about how we navigate that moving forward. This unscripted podcast reflects the unpacking of problems and solutions we have regularly at Moral Revolution. Support the podcast: www.moralrevolution.com/supportpodcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support

Talking about sexuality costs more than most of us want to admit. What do you do and how do you begin to navigate these situations when God calls you to step up and begin to lead in this area? What if you don't feel ready. We sat down with PJ Bedwell of Youth For Christ to have an honest conversation about this process and some key tools he's picked up along the way to navigate these bigger more sensitive topics. Find out more from PJ at: whatsnormal.org.au  If you're looking for more resources as a leader, check out SexChurchCulture.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moral-revolution/support