Let's Talk About It

"clarified statistic: parents only needs to be responsive and available 30% of the time to build a healthy attachment " Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson as they dive into attachment styles. Attachment styles the base of how you relate to people from childhood. They create patterns of how you think, feel, and respond to people in relationship based on what you learned when you were younger. Dr. Margaret talks about the different types of attachment styles, and how you can identify which you relate to the most and why.    Dr. Margaret Nagib's Link:  http://www.thedunamisproject.org  Bethel's Transformation Center - Sozo Link: https://www.betheltransformationcenter.com/sozo  Check out our website for more content: https://www.moralrevolution.com/

What causes you to get triggered? How do decisions you make pre-marriage impact your marriage? The pain or the pleasure during your first experience of an event creates a mental pathway that your brain later takes you down because it's the path of least resistance. This means EVEN if the situation isn't the same your brain/body can still react as if it is. This week's podcast feature's our directors, Cole and Caitlin Zick as they dive into the science behind sexuality and the scripture, and go after helping you become consciously aware of your subconscious "why", so you can know why you do what you do, feel what you feel, and how you respond the way you do. It’s now on all streaming platforms and YouTube!

Cole and Caitlin Zick invite us into a very raw and authentic take of their stories. What would it look like if parents healthily and intentionally talked about sex where they understand God’s full design for sexuality and that He said YES, not no? They’ll talk about helpful tools for taking an inventory on the impact your childhood had on your current perspective of relationship and sexuality. In that, the depth of your vulnerability will determine the completeness of your healing and wholeness in your marriage.

The negative stigma around going to counseling or therapy is finally starting to lift. Caitlin Zick interviews Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, about how to know when or why to go to a counselor. If you find yourself still stuck after doing the best you know how, it may be time to find a counselor. Dr. Margaret and Caitlin also spend time digging into the topic of trauma. How to identify trauma in your life or from your past and the side effects you may be seeing in your life from unresolved trauma. Caitlin also shares from her story and they unpack the events, experiences and effects from trauma in her teenage years. This conversation is a great “starter” for a potential need to discover and dive into more. Want to connect with Dr. Margaret Nagib? You can find her resources or book an online session here at: thedunamisproject.org You can hear more on this topic for pastors and leaders in the Sex. Church. Culture. Vol. II E-Course (SexChurchCulture.com) from Dr. Margaret Nagib or for th

Relationships can be tricky, long distance relationships are even trickier. Abram & Michelle Goff share some tips and tricks of long-distance relationships from the first visit, to feeling connected in each others lives, to questions and even some adjustments after marriage. If you're in a long-distance relationship or cross cultural one, we hope adds hope and strategy as you navigate through it.

Should We Get Married? - ft/ Danny and Sheri Silk & Cole Zick by Moral Revolution

Take 2 of the MR Podcast with Adam and Karissa King! We are excited to share more of our two part series for married couples with you, and we think that you'll love it as much as we do. Adam and Karissa even offer practical guidance counseling to Cole and Caitlin Zick in this episode, offering an example of what professional marital counseling often looks like. Enjoy! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more from Adam and Karissa King: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com More from Cole and Caitlin Zick: www.moralrevolution.com

Yep, you read that right. We are doing a podcast this month on bedroom talk for married couples! We partnered up with Adam and Karissa King, licensed marriage and family therapists, to do a podcast with the Zicks on what it looks like to pursue intimacy and connection in the marriage bed. Grab a cup of coffee, your spouse, and tune into this month’s podcast! Get the Sexpectation Cards: shop.moralrevolution.com/products/sexpectations-cards-dear-young-married-couple Check out more from Adam and Karissa King: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com More from Cole and Caitlin Zick: www.moralrevolution.com

Tom Crandall and Cole Zick address the reality of what happens when you form an intimate sexual connection outside of marriage, and the strong influence that can have on us and our life choices. How can we become free from shame? What can we do to move past attachments that we have with people from our past that we’re tied to because we’ve had sexual experiences with them?

Dann Farrelly and Cole Zick dive into the importance of open and healthy communication in families, marriages, and relationships. Dann gives useful tips for conflict resolution, navigating emotions, and practical insight on how to create a new normal from unhealthy communication habits in the past.

Eric and Candace Johnson discuss influence and culture this week, and address the importance of meeting people where they’re at with love while staying committed to truth. How can we follow the model of Jesus’ ministry in leadership and discipleship in today’s generation? What does this mean for our lives? Tune in this week on the MR podcast. (For more resources visit us at www.moralrevolution.com)

This month Jason Vallotton and Cole Zick discuss the value of trust-building, intentionality, and core values in relationship. Jason and Cole give practical tools for success, and address the importance of knowing who you are, what your needs are, and what steps to take and look for as you pursue healthy intimacy in dating and marriage. LADDER STEPS: 14 - Forever isn't long enough. 13 - Win-Win 12 - Unconditional Love? 11 - Do they know how to care for me? 10 - How do we do with conflict? 9 - Can we build stability? 8 - Are we going the same way? 7 - Do we communicate well? 6 - Do we have needs and boundaries? 5 - Is God in their God spot? 4 - Do our core values line up? 3- Can we have fun? 2 - Are they safe? 1 - Do I know me? (For more resources visit us at www.moralrevolution.com)

Caitlin Zick dives into her personal story of sexual wholeness and freedom with Eric and Kristy Upton, hosts of The Mommy and Daddy Time Podcast. Caitlin shares about her transformation from being a teenage party girl into a believer, wife, and mother of 4, and opens up about the power of God’s redemption in her life and marriage. In today’s podcast you’ll learn about what the Bible says about sex, God’s heart for marriage, how to intentionally build your sex life after having kids, and finding hope amidst process. (This episode was originally hosted on The Mommy and Daddy Time Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mommy-daddy-time-podcast/id1437232634 For more resources visit us at www.moralrevolution.com)

Healthy Masculinity - ft/ Cole Zick & Justin Stumvoll by Moral Revolution

Accountability for Couples - ft/ Cole & Caitlin Zick by Moral Revolution

Sex for Sale: Gaining Understanding from a Survivor Leader - ft/ Rebecca Bender by Moral Revolution

Navigating Your Sex Drive and Self-Control - ft/ Abram Goff & Sloane Wilson by Moral Revolution

What To Do When You've Gone Too Far - ft/ Sloane Wilson & Emily Lynch by Moral Revolution

Principles of Fatherhood - ft/ Kris Vallotton by Moral Revolution

If God Can Do THAT: A Once Gay Man's Journey: ft/ Ken Williams by Moral Revolution