Sinopsis
The nearly real-time journey of a man coming to acceptance of his soulmate leaving him to be unsoulmated.The reason I started this podcast is because I am that man. I am currently going through this separation as we speak and I wanted to be able to share my experience as it is happening so that I am capturing the true emotions that I am going through as the journey unfolds. This allows for the emotions to be real as they happen vs. how I would remember them later. Whether this helps anyone else who may be in the same position of someone leaving them for another person, I don't know. But it helps me to be able to release this from my own mind. But if it does help or you know someone who could also benefit from this, please let them know about the podcast.Thank you, everyone, for listening.NOTE: On occasion there is language not suitable for work, especially in the early episodes. My apologies, I was much angrier in those episodes.OBLIGATORY SELF-PROMOTION: Please subscribe to my show (www.unsoulmated.com) to keep up with when I release new episodes. I would appreciate any ratings or reviews you can give me. Lastly, if you need someone to reach out to, you can email me at unsoulmated@gmail.com.
Episodios
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![Day 10 (12/24/17) Faith Revisited]()
Day 10 (12/24/17) Faith Revisited
25/12/2017 Duración: 33minDay 10. Only 1.5 hours of sleep today so I revisit an essay from ten years ago which, now more than ever, has helped me through the years in times of struggle and helped me revisit how much I will try to control vs. how much I will leave up to faith.
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![Day 9 (12/23/17) Deconstruction of a Divorcer]()
Day 9 (12/23/17) Deconstruction of a Divorcer
24/12/2017 Duración: 51minDay 9. I de-idealize my wife as a necessary need in coming to terms with the reality that she is leaving me.
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![Day 8 (12/22/17) Death and Marriage]()
Day 8 (12/22/17) Death and Marriage
24/12/2017 Duración: 25minDay 8. I revisit my purpose in life and own up to my emotional acceptance of the end of my time here on earth and what keeps me from submitting it to.
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![Day 7 (12/21/17) Take My Wife, Please]()
Day 7 (12/21/17) Take My Wife, Please
22/12/2017 Duración: 36minDay 7. I have resigned to not talking smack about my wife but today, as part of the healing process, I allow myself to talk about the shortcomings of my soon to be unsoulmate, which leads me to come to realization that I was not the only one who did not know how to show intimate emotional love.
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![Day 6 (12/20/17) Surprise Gone Wrong]()
Day 6 (12/20/17) Surprise Gone Wrong
22/12/2017 Duración: 32minDay 6. I learn that a divorce attorney will cost more than I had expected in our case and my first major act as a "best friend" ends up not going as well as planned.
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![Day 5 (12/19/17) We Can Still Be Friends]()
Day 5 (12/19/17) We Can Still Be Friends
22/12/2017 Duración: 31minDay 5. My wife has been my best friend for more than 14 years...my soulmate. Today we talked about being best friends and joke about sex.
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![Day 4 (12/18/17) Not Having Enough Sex]()
Day 4 (12/18/17) Not Having Enough Sex
21/12/2017 Duración: 29minDay 4. After learning that lack of consistent physical intimacy is one of the core reasons my wife is leaving me, I struggle more with my hatred towards the man who is currently courting my wife (and that she is desiring), but am able to come to terms with why I no longer want to save this marriage.
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![Day 3 (12/17/17) Origins of a Broken Man]()
Day 3 (12/17/17) Origins of a Broken Man
21/12/2017 Duración: 48minDay 3. Sunday. My wife reveals the true reason why she feels justified in leaving what I had thought had been a working marriage and I go into the history of my hangups and trauma that brought me to that place.
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![Day 2 (12/16/17) No Sleep and Premeditated Cheating]()
Day 2 (12/16/17) No Sleep and Premeditated Cheating
19/12/2017 Duración: 47minDay 2. After a night of no sleep, I make a discovery that changes how I have perceived why my wife is going to be leaving me. And the discovery is one I am not taking well.
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![Day 1 (12/15/17) The Beginning of the End]()
Day 1 (12/15/17) The Beginning of the End
18/12/2017 Duración: 25minDay 1. My wife tells me she is leaving me. The news comes as a surprise to me as I had no clue that our marriage was even on the rocks and the struggle of my being able to accept this new reality of losing my best friend -- my soulmate -- is only just beginning.
