Welcome To Blah Diaries (broke Lonely Angry & Horny)

Every failure isn't a total lost. So often when fail or at the bottom we lose sight on how to climb. Let's chat about looking at failure as a atepping ladder to success.

This evening I saw this young lady's soul ties to a gentleman. It bought me back to a situation and how i had to detox and move on. Sharing my journey to help a sister end hers.

I often hear people shaming the cashier, the Fast food worker, nurse's aide or receptionist. I want to encourage you that your job is important. We are leaders. Encouraging words for those feeling out of place

Sis, have you given all your energy into others? Have you been in last on your list? Me too. I discuss the lesson I learn and the way I am breaking away from being last on my list. Choosing you first isn't always easy.

We all have regrets and resentment. I share my regrets and resentment against Christmas and New Year's eve. How alcohol and drug addiction traumatized my childhood. How it made me despise Christmas and the days leading to the New year.

My uncle shared his secret with me at 14 years old of being Hiv positive. Later I discovered my Aunt and two friends would share the same secret. They taught me to love without boundaries.

Have you allow family members steal your vibe? Change your mood over dramas that can be avoided.

The biggest mistake we make is believing that if we deplete ourselves we are showing love. Too many of us will deplete ourselves to prove we care. I will share my story and hope you will break the bad habit of believing living in lack is love.

Love is patient and kind. No where the description does it mean to be mistreated and taken advantage of. Today's topic will address why you may have to let go of the people you love and some of the reasoning.

How many have stayed in relationships and friendships past the expiration date? How many have heard family, friends, lovers and members gossip about you but remained their friends? Sometimes we stay past the expiration date. I will discuss my own personal experiences and how I came to accept, let it go and thank them for freedom.

I failed a project because I devalued and charged less. Crazy right? No. How many times have we devalued our work? I will share how we devalue ourselves without knowing. How we tolerate more than we should.

How many of us have our hands in too many pots? We are multi talented but unfocused on our true passion. We want the financial success but are honing in our true craft. I share the lesson I learned from an Uber driver and David Banner.

What if we taught our Sista friends how to win? Gave them the necessary tools and skillset to win.

I am learning who I am and often I will lose focus of myself because of the perception of others. I hope to inspire you and most of all challenge you to stay focus on you. Stay stay focus on your bigger picture.

So many of our friends and loved ones put on mask. How many of us has askedhow are you feeling inside today? My daughter's friend committed suicide last night. The last time I saw her she was smiling. I assumed she was happy but behind that smile was some pain. Here is the The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) .

How many of you are crying and smiling at the same time? Why? because of dreams deferred, denying themselved their happiness and joys.

The lesson I learned about love,life and acceptimg the task of assembling, refusing to settle and the growth of knowing what you want.

Life lesson I learned about pressing pause on my life.

Life lessons I am learning.