Beyond The Rut Podcast

Is your marriage thriving, or are you just coexisting? Marriage isn’t just about sharing a home, managing finances, or raising kids—it’s about growing together as true life partners. But too often, couples drift into a rut, treating their relationship like a business arrangement rather than a sacred partnership built on faith, trust, and mutual support. In this episode of Beyond the Rut, we’re exploring how to create a thriving, faith-filled marriage that goes beyond the daily grind. You’ll learn: ✅ How to align your marriage with the Five F’s framework ✅ The power of a shared vision for your relationship ✅ Practical steps to support each other’s spiritual and personal growth ✅ Simple ways to strengthen communication and connection If you want to build a marriage that thrives—not just survives—this episode is for you.

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to let family time slip through the cracks. Work deadlines, endless errands, and distractions like social media often push the people who matter most to the margins of our schedules. But here’s the truth: Family time matters, and your relationships at home deserve the best of your time, not what’s left over. In this episode of Beyond the Rut, we’re tackling how to prioritize family without losing momentum in your career or personal goals. You’ll learn practical strategies for aligning your schedule with your values, creating meaningful family traditions, and being fully present with your loved ones. Discover how to overcome common time drains—like work emails, social media scrolling, and saying yes to too many outside commitments—and start focusing on what truly matters. From setting boundaries to planning intentional family moments, this episode is packed with tips to help you balance your family life and work life. We’ll also explore how small, consistent actions

Welcome back to Beyond the Rut, the podcast about helping married Christian men create a life worth living in your faith, family, and career. I’m your host, Jerry Dugan, and author of the book titled, Beyond the Rut: Create a Life Worth Living in Your Faith, Family, and Career. Join me as we dive into Week 2 of the Beyond the Rut Journey with a focus on Faith Beyond Sunday. Grab a notebook and a pen and let’s get started! For so many of us, faith gets boxed into Sunday mornings—worship, sermons, and community prayer. But what happens when the week starts, and you’re back at work, managing deadlines, dealing with coworkers, or trying to balance the demands of family life? In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to take your faith beyond Sunday and live it out in every area of your life. Because here’s the truth: God’s plan for your faith doesn’t end when you leave the church parking lot. It’s meant to shape your decisions, relationships, and even how you handle challenges in your career.

This episode tackles a fundamental question: What does success truly mean? It will challenge you to re-evaluate your current definitions of success, often shaped by worldly standards like wealth, status, and possessions, and to consider a God-centered perspective.   The world's definition of success often leads to emptiness, even when external achievements are attained. It emphasizes that a high salary or a picture-perfect social media presence doesn't guarantee fulfillment. Instead, we will point toward aligning our paths with God, guiding our steps. True success is not about individual achievements but rather about aligning our lives with God's will.   This episode will cover the following: Redefine success on God's terms. Know how to understand your God-given purpose-driven life. Action steps to redefine success and journal prompts for the week. If you want to embrace a countercultural, often uncomfortable, yet ultimately rewarding journey of redefining success on God's terms, leading to deeper peace, jo

Have you ever felt like life is just one endless treadmill? You’re running hard, keeping up with the demands of work, family, and faith—but no matter how fast you go, you still feel stuck. You’re successful by the world’s standards—a steady job, a comfortable home, maybe even a promotion here or there—but deep down, you wonder, Is this really it?   If you’ve ever felt like you’re missing out on something bigger, this episode is for you.   In this very first episode of our 26-week journey, we’ll lay the foundation for breaking free from the rut and stepping into a life worth living—a life defined not by the world’s expectations, but by God’s purpose for you. You’ll learn why success is so much more than the size of your paycheck or the title on your business card. It’s about alignment—bringing your faith, family, and career together in harmony.   But how do you even begin to redefine success, especially when you’re not sure what God’s plan is for your life? That’s what we’re unpacking today. I’ll share practic

Are you tired of spending your days putting out fires instead of leading your team to lasting success? In this episode of Beyond the Rut, USMC veteran and leadership consultant, Ben Killoy, shares how to shift from firefighting crises to becoming a transformational leader who builds a thriving, resilient organizational culture. Discover how moving beyond daily crisis management can prevent burnout and create a work environment where your team doesn’t just survive but flourishes. Ben shares insights into leadership development, servant leadership, and the keys to a work-life balance that integrates faith, family, and career. If you’ve been searching for ways to empower your team, drive career growth, and cultivate a leadership culture grounded in purpose and holistic success, this conversation will inspire and challenge you to take action. Whether you’re looking to elevate your leadership style, achieve organizational excellence, or integrate your faith into your professional life, this episode provides the mo

Are you a new Christian man seeking a solid foundation to grow your faith? In this episode, I’m sharing three incredible books that profoundly impacted my journey as a husband, father, and follower of Christ. These books helped me discover my true identity in Christ and gave me practical insights for leading my family with love, strength, and faith. Whether you’re starting your walk with Jesus or seeking deeper spiritual growth, this episode will point you toward the resources that can inspire and transform your life. You’ll have to tune in to discover the titles that shaped my spiritual journey. Plus, I’ll share a personal story about an unexpected tool I used to better understand the Bible—one that helped me see every story as part of God’s greater plan of forgiveness and restoration. Don’t miss this episode—it’s filled with actionable takeaways and encouragement for anyone who wants to build a Christ-centered life!

In this episode of Beyond the Rut, we sit down with Jim Ramos, host of Men in the Arena podcast, pastor, and author, to discuss how biblical masculinity and living with integrity can transform your marriage and family life. Jim shares his personal journey of leading with faith, serving his wife and family, and building strong, lasting Christian relationships. Discover how embracing biblical masculinity—being a servant-leader rooted in faith and love—can help you live out your purpose in your faith, family, and career. Jim offers practical advice on maintaining integrity, being transparent in your relationships, and out-serving your spouse to build a thriving Christian marriage. If you want to strengthen your marriage and lead with integrity, this episode is for you. Listen now and start your journey toward building a strong Christian marriage today! This episode includes the following highlights: [00:02:10] – Jim Ramos introduces the concept of biblical masculinity and why it’s essential in Christian men’s li

In this heartfelt episode of Beyond the Rut, Jerry Dugan returns from a brief hiatus to share personal insights and a powerful piece of marriage advice that he recently gave at his son's wedding. Reflecting on his journey from a corporate career to entrepreneurship, Jerry opens up about the challenges and breakthroughs he experienced while finding his true calling in voiceover work and creative projects. Listeners will hear about Jerry's emotional experience officiating his son's wedding and the meaningful advice he imparted to the newlyweds. This simple yet profound message is at the heart of building a strong, supportive, and enduring marriage. Jerry also discusses the future of Beyond the Rut, including a shift toward more solo episodes focused on helping Christian married men navigate faith, family, and career. He shares updates on his voiceover career, which is steadily growing to replace his rideshare income, and talks about his work on various creative projects. Tune in to this episode to learn how one

In this special episode, I open up about the whirlwind of 2023 and why my podcast has seen fewer episodes this year. Life has been a series of unexpected turns, and I want to share the importance of taking a break to reorganize and find clarity. Sometimes, stepping back is the most valuable move we can make to propel forward. Join me as I recap my entrepreneurial journey over the past year. It's been a rollercoaster, filled with highs and lows, successes and setbacks. I delve into the adventures—and misadventures—of becoming a rideshare driver, a path that taught me more than I could have imagined about resilience, adaptability, and the stark realities of the gig economy. A significant wake-up call came with the realization of the dangers associated with rideshare driving. It’s a world that demands caution and constant vigilance. These experiences have not only shaped my perspective but also fueled my passion for my next big adventure: becoming a voiceover artist and audiobook narrator. In this episode, I aim

Lyle and Leanne McCabe, hosts of the Beach Travel Wine podcast, join Jerry Dugan on Beyond the Rut to discuss their adventurous approach to retirement. The couple emphasizes the importance of shared experiences over material possessions, highlighting how their travels have deepened their bond and enriched their lives. They share practical tips for prioritizing travel, even for those not yet retired, emphasizing the value of consistent planning and a willingness to embrace the unknown. Lyle and Leanne also discuss the transformative power of exploring different cultures and connecting with locals, fostering empathy and broadening perspectives. The conversation underscores the idea that adventure is not exclusive to retirement; it's a mindset that can be cultivated at any stage of life. Whether it's exploring your own backyard or embarking on a grand overseas journey, the key is to prioritize experiences that create lasting memories and strengthen relationships. Tune in to be inspired by Lyle and Leanne's sto

We tackle the challenges Christian men face in expressing their faith at work. Host Jerry Dugan delves into the top three concerns: fear of judgment, navigating secular environments, and balancing faith with professionalism. Jerry offers practical tips drawn from his personal journey and biblical wisdom. Discover how to excel in your job as a testament to your faith, embodying Colossians 3:23. Learn the power of deeds over words, reflecting the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Embrace your secular workplace as a ministry field, just as Jesus did (Luke 5:27-32). Join us as we explore how to live out your Christian values authentically, impacting lives without being preachy. Remember, it's not about quoting scripture, but about reflecting Christ's character in your daily interactions. Tune in for practical strategies to integrate your faith seamlessly into your professional life.

Have you ever felt that nagging feeling that it might be time to move on from your job, but weren't quite sure? Naomi Hattaway is an expert in helping people navigate those tricky workplace transitions. She'll share her framework for leaving well, which covers everything from recognizing the signs that it's time to go, to ensuring a smooth knowledge transfer, and communicating your decision effectively. Whether you're an individual contemplating a change or an organization looking to improve your offboarding process, this episode is packed with valuable insights. So stick around! ---------------- This episode features a conversation between Jerry Dugan and Naomi Hattaway, who helps people and organizations navigate workplace transitions. Naomi shares her personal experience of leaving a job due to misaligned values, which led her to develop a framework for leaving well. They discuss the importance of knowledge transfer, open communication, and treating the exit process with as much care as onboarding. The con

David Landis's journey highlights the transformative power of journaling in cultivating the right mindset for success. Despite having a fulfilling career as a professional firefighter and a balanced family life, David felt trapped and unfulfilled. Through journaling, he gained clarity on his desires and who he wanted to be, enabling him to take practical steps toward a more fulfilling life. This process of self-discovery through writing helped him realize that true contentment and success come from understanding and mastering one's thoughts. David Landis's message is clear: Possibility is personal. He challenges us to consider what we might be capable of achieving with the right mindset, emphasizing the importance of journaling in this transformative process.

In this insightful podcast episode, join host Jerry Dugan as he delves into the fascinating world of entrepreneurship and parenting with special guest Jason Galicinski. With a family of ten children, Jason brings a wealth of experience as both an entrepreneur and a dedicated father. Discover how Jason's journey through homeschooling his children allowed him to be a present dad and also provided unique opportunities to instill valuable life and business skills in his kids. From navigating the delicate balance between family life and business ventures to extracting parenting lessons from the world of entrepreneurship, Jason shares practical strategies and heartfelt anecdotes that resonate with any parent striving to excel in both realms. Gain valuable insights into fostering a family-centered approach to entrepreneurship while maintaining a strong connection with loved ones. Join us as we explore 'The Art of Balancing Entrepreneurship and Parenting' with Jason Galicinski.

Let's dive deep into the lies that hold us back and the truths that set us free. Have you ever felt stuck in a rut, unsure of how to break free and live the life you truly desire? In this episode, we'll explore the common lies that keep us trapped – from feelings of unworthiness to the belief that we don't have enough time or resources to pursue our dreams. But fear not, because we'll also uncover the transformative truths that can liberate us from these ruts and propel us towards a life of purpose and fulfillment. If you're ready to challenge the status quo, embrace possibility, and unleash your full potential, then join us as we unravel the ruts that bind us and discover the power of truth to transform our lives.

Step into the captivating story of digital creator and public speaker Ed Squire as he courageously reveals his journey of overcoming childhood trauma and discovering healing beyond the mask. In this compelling episode, Ed candidly shares the challenges of concealing his pain while chasing success and recognition. Through introspection and resilience, he embarked on a transformative journey, breaking free from the shackles of his past and embracing a path toward authenticity and wholeness. "Overcoming Childhood Trauma: Ed Squire's Inspiring Journey to Healing" delves deep into the human experience, highlighting the power of vulnerability and the resilience of the human spirit. Join us as we explore the profound impact of Ed's journey, offering hope and inspiration to those who are navigating similar paths. This episode is a testament to the possibility of healing and growth, reminding us that true liberation lies in embracing our truth beyond the confines of our masks.

Embark on a transformative journey with Jon McLernon, where authenticity meets mentorship in "Navigating Life's Path: An Anti-Guru Approach." In a world inundated with self-proclaimed experts, Jon stands out for his genuine connection and commitment to helping individuals live their best lives. Drawing from his experience in business leadership and personal development, Jon offers practical wisdom and insights that transcend traditional mentorship. He emphasizes the importance of authentic relationships and prioritizing personal fulfillment over financial gain. Through his own journey of faith and resilience, Jon embodies the values of compassion and love, guiding listeners toward a life of purpose and fulfillment. Join Jon McLernon on this inspiring podcast as he shares his anti-guru approach to navigating life's challenges and embracing new opportunities.

In the latest episode of our podcast, I had the privilege of sitting down with Robert and Kay Lee Fukui, the dynamic duo behind MarriedEntrepreneur.co. With their extensive experience as founders and authors of "Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance," and hosts of the "Thriving in Tandem" podcast, they shed light on the intricacies of balancing career aspirations with a thriving marriage. Throughout our conversation, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui exemplified how intertwining career success with marital fulfillment is not only feasible but also enriching. By aligning their goals, communicating effectively, and embracing intentional practices, they've not only found success in their ventures but also nurtured a deeply fulfilling partnership. Their insights serve as a guiding light for power couples aspiring to strike a harmonious balance between their professional ambitions and personal relationships.

Welcome to a special episode delving into the overlooked alerts that shape our journeys to success. Join us as we unravel the intricate web of cautionary tales hidden within everyday products, exploring how heedlessly we navigate life's hazards. Jerry applies lessons learned from hiking in the spring and summer seasons to help you create that life worth living in your faith, family, and career. We uncover profound insights into risk assessment and the importance of vigilance in pursuit of our aspirations. While our tone may be theatrical, the message is clear: by heeding the seemingly insignificant signs, we equip ourselves with the tools necessary to navigate life's jungle and emerge victorious in our endeavors. Tune in for a captivating exploration of the unseen dangers that shape our paths to triumph.